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Thanks folks, there is definately some really good advice here. I think you are all right when you say to have lots of patience, I mean we have only been married for 1 year so there is lots of time to grow old with each other and sexually. The biggest thing for me is that I really want to know what she feels about them... sometimes it can be frustrating as I almost think like she leads me on and then fakes it. I think a marriage is a compromise, a two way street if you will, and if she had some weird fetish I would absolute embrace it even if I didn't find it enjoying for myself on a personal level. With her it is quite different, she is not as comfortable with herself sexually as I am. She doesn't look at porn, never really masturbated, so I find myself as the one trying to introduce her into everything. The other problem is that she gets "bored" very quickly. We have many many sex toys and she won't use 99% of them. I am afraid that she will get bored of the diaper lifestyle, if that is the case I don't know if I could compromise and let it go. For me it is much more than that.
When I went to bed last night I thought about my comment that I was strictly a DL. Now that I think about it, that isn't totally true. I am about a 70% DL and 30% AB as I do like some AB things (I wear a onzie to bed every night and she totally accepts it). I have an insanely stressful job so for me it is a feeling of protection and feeling safe and secure. Interestingly enough, about 2 years she asked me if I was an AB and I said no. Now I kind of regret that. I really like the idea of her and I wearing to bed but I don't know if that is something i should bring up now or in 5 years from now.
Sometimes I think that she isn't really into it because it is so weird and she has never seen anyone else into it. Mind you, she did watch the Big Baby CSI episode so she can't think that I am a weird or one in a billion. What do you think about introducing her to AB/DL sites, and pictures?
Thanks again