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Hello! ?

Thanks for viewing my profile! I'm a sweet, open minded computer geek looking for AB/DL friends in or near Birmingham Alabama! ?

Basic Information

• Height: 5'9"
• Weight: 130
• Income: Enough... Barely
• Occupation: IT
• Religion: Agnostic
• Education: Associates Degree and IT Certs
• Relationship Status: Single
• ABDL Info: 94% AB, 6% DL
• Little Age: Usually 2, sometimes 6 - 10
• Baby Mode: Non-Sexual
• Wet: Usually
• Mess: Almost never
• Diaper Hump: Occasionally, while in Adult DL Mode

Lots More Information

??? Gender Identity ???

I'm a sweet and sensitive guy that likes to make people happy. I like to do both traditionally male and female activities, like working on cars, sewing, target shooting, flower arranging, building things, and cooking, and such. I guess my gender identity is somewhat androgynous. I dress and act like a male, but I don't really stick to the established gender roles. (Of course there's nothing at all wrong with males not dressing or acting like males, I simply act the way I do because that's who I am.) I believe you should do what makes you happy as long as it doesn't hurt anyone and isn't (very) illegal.

??? Sexuality, and Relationship Desires ???

I'm bisexual, and polyamorous. That means that I'd like to be in a marriage with two or more people. Ideally, I'd like to be part of a poly-quad with another male, and two females. Basically two married couples get married themselves. Since all members are bisexual, everybody in intimate with everybody else. This would be a semi-closed relationship, meaning that if a member wants to bring an outsider into the family, they'd need the approval of all the members of the family. (A decision that wouldn't be made lightly.) I might want kids someday, and in a poly family, there'd be a larger support network for the kids. Each child would have two dads and two moms regardless of which member fathered or gave birth to the child. For me, one or two kids per two parents would be ideal. I know this type of family would be difficult to create and maintain on several levels, but it's what I have always wanted, even before I knew it was an actual thing and had a name. (Just so you know, it has nothing in common with polygamy. I'm not a womanizer or an abuser, and I don't want a dozen kids.)

??? Likes and Dislikes ???

I'm not really a fan of team & ball sports, ie football, basketball, baseball, soccer, tennis, golf, etc.) I'm also not really big into loud party scenes, like clubs, bars, rowdy parties with lots of people, and concerts and such. This isn't to say that I'd never do any of those things, just that I don't do them very often. (I'm not interested in drama, fake people, freeloaders, or dickheads in general.)

??? Personality ???

I'm an introvert, so I get uncomfortable when there's too many people around. I'm terrible at small talk, and I'm not the most socially apt person either. I typically either want to talk about geeky things, or things that interest me, like my interest, or about serious subjects like politics, religion, economics, sexuality, and other touchy things that tend to get people riled up.

??? Politics ???

I consider myself a moderate libertarian. I believe in gay rights, gun rights, right to choice, limited government, environmental protection, fiscal responsibility, and basically a mix of right and left views.

??? Interests ???

I like hiking, camping, walking at night by moonlight, (especially on the beach), going to thrift stores, yard sales and flea markets to see what neat stuff I can find, doing physical/outdoor things when I can, like laser tag, paintball, water skiing, bowling, bicycle riding, mini-golf, going to the zoo, horseback riding and some other things. I also enjoy designing and building things. I like wood and metal working, gardening and landscaping, and really just building in general. I do enjoy WRC racing and also Formula 1 racing; I'd love to get the chance to do one of those things, though I know that will probably never happen.

??? Favorite Music ???

I like many kinds except for country, rap and some really mainstream pop junk. (There are exceptions for all of those though.) I like old and new classical music, old and new rock, techno trance, almost anything from the 60's to the mid 90's, and more. I even like some pre 60's music too! But just some specific bands off the top of my head are:

• A Perfect Circle
• Tool
• Nirvana
• Rob Zombie
• Mindless Self Indulgence
• Marilyn Manson
• KMFDM
• The Offspring
• Rammstein
• Pink Floyd
• Godsmack
• Deftones

and several others!

On the other end of the spectrum, I also like:

• Mike Oldfield
• Steve Roach
• Giles Reaves
• Mozart
• Dvorak
• Tchaikovsky
• Beethoven

and many others.

??? Favorite TV, Cartoons and Movies ???

I love The Disney Afternoon cartoons and the old Saturday Morning cartoons, and most pre and some post 2000's Disney animated movies. I like Star Trek the Next Generation & Voyager, and I'm a fan of PBS too. (Nova, Nature, Secrets of the Dead, Masterpiece Theatre, and so on.) The old TGIF shows are good too.

Also on my list are:

• The Back to the Future movies
• The Indiana Jones movies
• The first 2 Jurassic Park movies
• 2001: A Space Oddessy
• Independence Day
• Enemy of the State
• The Matrix (only the 1st one)
• Idiocracy

I could go on and on...

??? Favorite Books ???

I have to be honest... I don't read many books. At least not on paper for fun. I'm too busy and burned out from reading technical documentation that I rarely ever feel like reading for recreation. If I was on vacation for an extended period where I could actually relax, I might read science fiction or other geeky material.

About my Little Side:

??? How I got started ???

I've liked diapers as long as I can remember, probably since I was 4 or 5 years old. I think I started liking them as a coping mechanism for the stress of starting preschool, and then later, first grade. I was (and still am) nervous around large groups of people, so preschool was a big change. Especially being away from my mom and dad for so much of the day. I remember stealing my baby sister's diapers a few times to wear them, even though they were pink. My dad caught me once when I was 5, but he just ask what I was doing and just sorta chuckled. I think he thought it was funny. A few years later, my mom found my stash but I just played dumb. I'm sure she knew it had to be mine, but I guess she just blew it off. She didn't even throw it away.

??? Binge and Purge ???

I went through a half dozen binge