Abby'sMommy

Welcome. I was a member here for some time but can't seem to find my info so i've created a new account. It's been quite some time since i've visited but saw your post and felt the desire to reply. To share a little about myself, I met a man almost three years ago. We were just friends at first...the whole getting to know you thing. The one thing is, he shared his desires right up front with me. He felt that if this was something that I couldn't do or want to try, why take the steps further into a relationship with me. You see, I never knew before him what the whole ab/dl life was. My original reply to him was basically if it didnt hurt him or anyone else, who was I to judge him. The catch was not only did he desire to be a baby...but a baby girl. That part was difficult for me to understand at first. He is from Texas and I am in Ohio so the first parts to our (then) relationship was done online and or over the phone. I can tell you.....that was in no way easy for me to do. Especially knowing i really didnt know much of this lifestyle. He had me go to adult baby websites and read read read stories. That HELPED ALOT!!! I found funny stories helped the most. There is one in particular that i will cherish. But unfortunately, I don't remember what site I found it in. Communication is very important. Find out what all he is into. What does he enjoy most. What are his wants/needs? Maybe at first, set up some kind of arrangement for adult....and then baby. There are those times when u need that adult verses that baby. Go slowly. You don't have to rush right in full charge. Share what you like and always remember, this takes 2 to work in a relationship. It can't always be all about him. Then comes the fun. In person!!! It was awkward at first. LET ME TELL YOU! First came the diapering...then bottles, pacifiers, clothes, and feedings. Just getting used to it. Finding that comfy spot. Building some kind of routine. I can assure you. It seemed so very foolish at first. My baby Abby moved in with me two years ago this December. The relationship has had its ups and downs but i'm happily in love. I have both the man of my dreams and a lil baby girl. We fit in baby time the best we can and when she wants more of my attention, she seeks her mommy out. I can tell you, I gladly accept that part any day or time of the week. This is something that i still feel is truly special and if you can get past all of the 'newness' of it....you too, will be happy!!!! This bond that is formed is unlike any other. It will bring the two of you closer than you can imagine. For him to be able to share this part of himself with you is special. Today...I enjoy when Abby calls me mommy. It warms my heart. Sometimes it's the little things that stand out...her saying i love you mommy or 'huggies'. With all this being said....I wish you the best of luck. I hope it is for you... what it still is for me today!!! ~Abby'sMommy~