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    Number One Favorite Thing From A Caregiver

    in Mommies and Daddies

    Posted

    Everyone is different, and I would guess that everyone has this one little thing that sets them off and makes everything feel just right. It might be a whole number of different things.

    So I'm curious, what's that little thing? A color, a perfume, a word, and action, a specific toy? Is it a broad thing, or very specific? What is the one thing that makes you feel the best when you're with your favorite caregiver?

    And to other caregivers? What is your favorite thing to do with your littles?

    Lilshybaby - It Was All A Hoax

    in Scoop The Poop

    Posted

    Warpiper: If you knew it was a hoax, WHY would you encourage this behavior? Instead of playing along (and pulling the heartstrings of all of the people that were worried for lilshybaby), you should have called her out on it once you knew it was a lie. Doing what you did is not right, and I really hope you don't get involved in this kind of crap again. However, I respect that you at least had the guts to admit that the whole thing was a lie, even though the revealing happened a LOT later than it should have.

    ~ moogle

    Sounded to me like piper didn't know it was a hoax till just recently, and just coming out about it once things were sure. But I might be wrong on how I'm interpreting that.

    Questions Regarding Lilshybaby'S Passing

    in Scoop The Poop

    Posted

    But my question is: does it fall apart because of the hoax, or the arguing that ensues?

    The OP has every right to be concerned about this community! as do we all! My frustration lies not really with the fact that the op does not think lilshy existed (hey, he may be right! I am inclined to think so myself!) It's that this post is bound to start arguments and get people all butthurt about many different topics.

    Places fall apart when people actively choose to argue with eachother and it becomes a grudge match after a while. While this post is very well constructed, the fact that it was made...concerns me and frustrates me. The easiest way to stop a war is not to start one, and sometimes that means quietly being content with the fact that you're right without trying to prove it to others.

    And on that note, I'll take my own advice and knock it off. Seeing as I'm the only one arguing on here (hah, I do sincerely hope it stays that way, for everyone's sake) I'll stop. I have no bad feeling for the op or any other members who posted here, so please know that. Not trying to start anything, ok?

    So no hard feelings.

    Last post in this thread, I'll leave well enough alone now! :)

    Toodles!

    Questions Regarding Lilshybaby'S Passing

    in Scoop The Poop

    Posted

    You may be right...but WHO THE HELL CARES.

    All you are serving to do is to cause argument, flame wars, and problems in the forum, perhaps morso than lilshy herself could have done. If it's not a hoax, you will have succeeded at offending a large number of people and setting up the divide in the community that you yourself referenced. YOU would be the cause of the turmoil by posting what you just did, truth or not.

    If it is a hoax? Ok, so we got one pulled over on us. We became upset about something that didn't happen. We were lied to. Again, so what? I'd rather assume it's true and be totally wrong but at peace with this community than be right but be at war with everyone and cause pain to other members or the forum as a whole.

    One thing I will add: People lie on the internet every day. All the time. And if it isn't true, we're likely never to find out about it! I accept that. There's no way to ever no for sure what is a truth and what is a lie, so believe whatever you want. It's the internet. That's all.

    Our Little Angel, Jadie Aka Lilshybaby Has Passed Away.

    in Scoop The Poop

    Posted

    To Jadie,

    I know we did not talk for long, but I am so glad I got to meet you within that time you had when you regained consciousness. I consider it a gift that I even got that small period of time, and enjoyed the company I got from you. I can see the way you touched this forum and the people who lived here. I hope that when you passed, you knew the full extent of how you were loved and cherished by those here and in your offline life.

    Your family and friends will mourn you, and you will be missed. But the memory of things you have done will live on with people. You will continue to influence their lives well into the future, and you will not be forgotten. I will see you again someday, and we can talk more then, hopefully under better and happier circumstances.

    -M.M.

    What To Do?

    in Restlessfox's Depression Discussion

    Posted

    it seems like if you have a full time job and she has a part time job plus making money on the side there is another living situation you could find.. including a small studio apartment, renting a room in a house, renting a very small one bedroom apartment... if you already pay rent then clearly you can afford bills. Start looking on craigslist, there are often loads of people looking to share a house, or an apartment, or rent out a small mother in law type apartment or studio... and often on craigslist they are willing to let you make your deposit in payments over the first three months rent....

    if it hasn't worked out living with either parents, it may be time to live on your own.

    I agree with this. If you are ready to marry this woman, you have to be ready to be in charge of your own life entirely, and that means living on your own. I am SURE you can even find low income housing if it comes right down to it. Because if there are physical fights happening, it's just going to get worse. So get out of there asap.

    "It'S Because I Trust You To Help Me Die..."

    in Restlessfox's Depression Discussion

    Posted

    Mama Melody, It was the most selfish of acts for this patient to put this burden on you. I know you feel horrible for making the decision you did but the thing that makes this so selfish is there was no decision you could have made that would not have caused you pain. If you helped her you would have been saddled with the guilt of what you'd done and the worry of getting caught and prosecuted. You didn't turn her in and you're now feeling the guilt of helping her passively and the worry of getting caught for not alerting management staff. If you did alert them and they put her on suicide watch her suffering would be prolonged and you would have been saddled with the guilt of that. You made the best decision you could and as painful as it is now you will get through it.

    Someone once told me that irony is the driving force of the universe and the longer I live the more accurate that statement seems. The best person for a hospice worker is those of us who are the most compassionate and empathic yet it is these people who are the most damaged working in that environment because they are so compassionate and empathic. The people who are most able to cope with a job like that are the least empathic and compassionate because they are not emotionally engaged, it's just a job. Your decision to leave the job is probably for the best not because you're not good at it but because you are.

    Hugs,

    Freta

    This kinda sums it up.

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