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    Thera Very Unwell!

    in Our Lifestyle Discussion

    Posted

    I was contacted Friday afternoon and informed that Thera had been rushed into hospital with a very seriously high temp and dehydration.

    As most of you may or may not know, Thera is battling Hodgkins Lymphoma. Part of her treatment involves chemotherapy which has a side effect of destroying a persons immune system. With this being the case, Thera has no immune system and has managed to pick up a infection from somthing. You or I would be able to shrug it off, however Thera is not able to.

    She has a temp of 103.6 which is dangerously high and is on a large cause of antibiotics, she is also having ongoing fluids to rehydrate her.

    Thera is my little girl and i am her daddy, we are thousands of miles apart and i cant get hold of her while she is in hospital. I feel totaly useless and powerless because i cant do nothing. The only thing i can do is Post this message of support for her, to show her that im thinking of her and how much i love her.

    Please post and show your support

    Adam

    Abuse?

    in 2009

    Posted

    I too had a very abusive and difficult childhood, here is more about me:-

    When I was born, things started to down rapidly for me. When I was less than 6mths old, my mother ran away from my father as he was a woman beater, I don’t know if he ever did anything to me as my mother won’t tell me, so I must assume that he did. I have never seen my father since, nor do I wish too. Due to parenting problems, I was placed into Foster care at a young age, and it has been an ongoing thing throughout my childhood. Sometimes mum thinks she can cope and has me home for a while and then she would get angry and have me taken back into care. As I’m sure you can imagine the sense of not being wanted was ever present. At the age of 6 my mum had a very serious motorcycle accident, she was in hospital for nearly a year and was very very ill, and she even died twice. During this time I was placed into care full time and had no access to my mother. I was placed at any foster home that would take me, and none to commit to long term, so I was always being moved about. After a year when mum was well enough to come home, social services gave me back to my mum, almost on the same day. A few of my mums friends came round a little while after and took her out for a night, a year in hospital with no R&R and she needed time off. So a babysitter was arranged and off she went, I was already in bed when he arrived (the babysitter), I was woken up from my sleep by feeling a pressure on my bed, to find him sat there, I was 7 so I had no idea of what was about to happen. After a while he made his move and I was raped, in my own bed, in my own house, very unpleasant! Of course this sent me a bit mad, not seeing my mother for nearly a year and being raped, kind of sent me off the grid. Social services were once again involved and I was taken away to a children’s psychiatric hospital. I don’t really remember much from the place because I was being medicated and spent most of the time being restrained to my bed asleep. But I am told I was there for about 8mths. Once ‘released’ I was once again placed into care, as my mother didn’t think I was stable and wouldn’t allow me home. Things were ok for a about a month or two, but then one night I was asleep in my room at the foster home and the foster dad came into the room at night to get something. I woke up and saw a figure there, and I remember wetting myself in fright. In the morning I had to explain why my bedding was all wet and the mattress stained. The foster parents were very angry and told me that “as I have acted like a baby and wet the bed, I am to be treated like a baby”. And so, I was nappied and babied, forced to use a bottle at home and humiliating me at every opportunity. My school was even told I had a medical condition that meant I had to wear; being changed at school was one of the most embarrassing things, ever.

    I did of course try and tell people what was going on, but who listens to a 7yr old?? I must b making it up, obviously! So this was my first taste of being a baby. There are lots more things to say, but I won’t bore you with the details. There was an incident when my mum found out I was into nappies when I was 15. She was cleaning my room, (more like looking for something) and she found my nappy stash. Well, she went ballistic and called me a pedo and called the police. I spent 3 hours in a police station answering questions about my sexuality and my feelings towards children. I have had a very abusive past, been assaulted twice along the way and have the physical scars, but I feel that if these things hadn’t of happened to me, then I don’t think that I would be the person I am today.

    Hello

    in Newbie Nursery

    Posted

    Being little and in nappies is good. Potty monsters keep daddies and mummys like me in business, more nappies to change :D Sippy cups are ok, but bottles are better, because then daddies and mummys can then feed their lil one.

    Tigger is cool, but i likes eyeore.

    Adam

    Hello To Everyone

    in Newbie Nursery

    Posted

    Hi annie and welcome to DD. Yes indeed you are in te right place to find what your looking for. I am a Daddy and i will also echo the same warnings that a few have given about being safe and being careful. This site is not as secure as some of us would like and occationaly the idiots do get in. I also agree with angela, daddies can be of any age, its the expeirience that counts. A 40yr old daddy with 2 weeks experience cant match that of a 25yr old daddy with 6yrs, age isnt always important. Best advice i can give is to come into the chat, when you posted enought to qualify, and them come meet us all and get to know us. Hope to see you in the chat soon.

    Adam

    21 In Idaho, A Bit Nervous

    in Newbie Nursery

    Posted

    Hi Toast and welcome to DD, the reason you cant gain access to the DD chatroom is because you either havent posted in the forums enough times or made a once only donation to DD. These procedures are in place to deter and limit the amount of idiots that come here to ruin things for us.

    Hope this helps :)

    Adam

    Hi New Here And Nervous

    in Newbie Nursery

    Posted

    Hi and welcome to DD. Confusion about being drawn to this type of behaviour is not uncommon and is faced by many us, so you are not alone. Being punished and humiliated for using your diapers is also a trait that some here find appealing. You may find a person on this site who is into the same things as you are. Post a few times and gain access to the chatroom, and come and meet us. We wont dont judge of critisise anyone for for their desires.

    Adam

    First Big Weekend

    in Newbie Nursery

    Posted

    Hi alex and welcome to DD,

    If you have no problems about going to a store and buying nappies , then search you local chemists and you shold be able to find a Tena nappy in your size. Abri is hard to find in shops of the internet and so are most other nappies. But going to Boots or some independent chemists you might score lucky and find some Tena Slip. Most stores that you order from online are very discreet and the packaging is very plain, ive ordered online many times and nothing untoward has happened. Hope this helps.

    Adam :)

    Hi!

    in Newbie Nursery

    Posted

    Hiya french,

    Welcome to DD, hope to see you about somtime. Wearing because of a lowered mood is a very common attribute and many of us do it, so your not alone. Congrats for telling your Ex, must of taken some guts, kudos to you.

    Adam :)

    Hi

    in Newbie Nursery

    Posted

    Hi Shy and welcome to world of Nappies. Hope you enjoy your time here and get to know new people and make friends. I know it may daunting to begin with, but we are all a good bunch and none of us bite...well not hard anyway. Make yourself and home and Welcome

    Adam :)

    Hello

    in Newbie Nursery

    Posted

    Hi nita and welcome to DD. Hope you settle in ok and find this place to your liking. Dont worry about being overwhelmed, we all were at some point. We dont bite, those that do get muzzled, so come on in and get to know people and you will soon make friends and not feel so overwhelmed. Youve met my little girl Thera, so im sure she can fill you in on anything.

    Take care

    Adam :)

    Hello

    in Newbie Nursery

    Posted

    A big hello to you kitten and welcome to DD. Its a good place to hang out and chat with others of a similar mind. Hope you settle in ok and make yourself at home. We are all here to enjoy ourselfs, chat, share expeiriences and offer support.

    Adam :)

    A Very Sad Movie

    in Links and Announcements

    Posted

    Don, i agree. For a child to wet like that which was portrayed is not a source of defience or bad behaviour. It was caused by trauma, similiar to which i persoanly had. Wet bed are not a excusse for punishment or abuse but yet some parents dont know how to handle it. Ok, if the child was being deliberatly naughty and peeing on/in things, then corrective measures would have to be taken, but bed wetting is not one of them.

    Havin been through this kind of abuse myself i can associate with the film and it expresses how i feel about many things that happened to me. Ok, i never shot or killed anyone, but there were times when i thought of killing myself, in the very begining.

    The human mind is a very complex and fragile thing, it can take the smallest incident to through it into chaos. It can lead to problems and conditions later on in life. "The butterfly effect" somthing so simple as the fluttering of a butterflys wings can alter the future. The AB world is a very complex world, but you will find that most of us have had some form of abuse somwhere in our lives that has made us be this way. Yes, ok i grant that there will be the exceptions, i.e Wearing for medical reasons, DL's, Curiousity, because they want to relive their childhood. But for the most of us, we have expeirienced trauma on a mental level that makes who we are.

    We regress as adults to a comfortable secure place, surrounded by nappies, bottles, pacis etc. We regress to get away from the stresses of the world, to get away from the pain and drugery of life. We regress because some people cant handle control or have so much control in their working life that they need a break. We regress to help us deal with life.

    Our Older girl is seen at the end of the film as a AB, as like many of us, its her way of dealing with the trauma, abuse and stress in her life. Why a AB if she was forced as a child?? well its because its a part of her, abuse victims have to accept that their abuse is a part of them to move on in their lives.

    Adam

    A Very Sad Movie

    in Links and Announcements

    Posted

    All opinions and theories are accepted and welcome, but we could sit here and do this till the cows come home. We will never truely know how or what the characters were meant to feel or what they were trying to portray. The only way we will know is to hear it from the creator or the actresses themselves. We can only come to our own conlusions by the way the film makes us feel. And that is the mark of a good film, being able to make the audience think and feel.

    Adam

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