spiritstarr

Honestly, I'm just curious about why this happens so much more to guys and not girls. It has to be tied to the testosterone in men. EVERYWHERE you see more ABDLs as male, and the male needs to be strong and powerful myth is probably propelling alot of it. But PURELY sexually, not those who convert because they miss the comfort or want to be in a "safer" time mindset wise, I really just wonder what causes this. My guess is hypersexuality, because after I masturbate to girls in diapers, I am disgusted. But after i masturbate to typical "normal" porn, it's like meh ok im not horny anymore. Any other DL's agree/

I don't have any hangups about my own sexuality. I've been dating a girl for 3 years now and I've had plenty of past relationships with women. Im straight. LOTS of these boards have people that associated ABDL with homosexuals, and i HATE THAT. Any time I'd possible come out of the DL closet to anyone IRL, it's ohp youre gay. NO. I am attracted like none other to attractive women wearing diapers. Not even wetting necessarily. I just love skinny girls that are diapered and are horny like me. Its purely sexual for me. Not many others on boards are like that.

Yes, many people who believe that AB/DL is the life for them learn over time to accept their lifestyles and change because of it. The smartest of "us" just accept that we "are" and move on? No... That's the definition of ignorance. It's fine and well to be ok with who you are, since that essentially is an end goal for many therapies and such and I'm in full support of anyone who is proud of who they are regardless of age, sex, gender, preference etc. However, it's completely irrational to believe that only a self-reflection will lead to anything different than further confusion. I know that to think that our lifestyle or even thoughts about this lifestyle is completely not "normal", but not "bad" per se. I want to know the reason why I am the way I am, and I believe that by making new friends in this community and sharing personal experiences with as many people as I can, I can learn more about the potential causes and effects of DL. That being said, I'd love to get PM's from anyone who is between the ages 17-22 with their stories, as most of you can tell I have alot to say. ~Spirit

I know some of the psychopathology associated with the association of infantilism and various sub-categories of this fetish. However, the development of homosexual male and female brains at my age have yet to be understood, so I'd rather ask questions and get real-life info from straight male and females. I am not looking for a partner or anything, nor do I have anything against homosexual people (my roomie is gay and weve been best friends for 13+ years!), but as a pharmacology major I really am interested in why I am the way I am. Plus, I really am interested in how straight females differ in the ways they deal with this disorder as compared to straight guys.

Hey guys, I'm a 20 yr old STRAIGHT male that has just discovered a sort of DL fetish and im terrified of myself. I really need to know where this came from and why I feel the way I do but I'm looking for only STRAIGHT females or males to talk to. I really would like some help from both sexes. Thanks.