Toddler
I totally understand where u are coming from. I know my wife responded to you directly, and I hope she gave u some hope. I dated a girl years ago and told her about wearing diapers. She was very understanding at first, but as the relationship started falling apart she became very resentful of me and the "diapers". She ended up telling many of my good friends and family. It destroyed me! I also questioned myself!! I felt weak and wierd!! I was scared to get into another serious relationship becuase I never wanted to hurt that way again. I too consider myself manly. I ride Harleys played football, baseball and many other sports. I guess u could say Im a guys "guy"!! Most people would never imagine that I would wear a diaper to bed everynight. I struggled with this for a long time. Then something cool happened. Those friends that she told really didnt care it didnt effect our friendship at all. It is never even mentioned. I also met the most amazing woman in the world! Actually we met in 4th grade, but we reconnected 2 years ago and were married last may. She sees and appriciates my good qualities and makes me stronger in my weaknesses. I am very balanced and would never let diapers control my life, and my wife knows this. She has taken this as an opportunity to make something that could be a negative into a positive. I have found through my own experiences that the people that have a problem with with this usually have their own issues! I am more man than most men that dont wear diapers. I support my wife and children in everyway. I provide physical, emotional, and finacial security for her, and love her unconditionally. You have to be a "man" to do that. Im very sorry for your pain! I pray you find peace and acceptance for urself. Keep ur life balanced and you will be fine. Feel free to contact us anytime! Good luck!!