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I was using my post in the context of not even mentioning diapers to the women... But I agree, women who do not care for the diapers thing see it as a downfall. Even if the guy needed them for incontinence, women (and I would imagine many men) are hard pressed to accept them. Personally, I wouldn't care what fetish a woman had, as long as if I do not accept it, she does not force the issue on me.

In no way do I doubt that women have every reason to be as bitter, but I doubt they have more reason to be bitter. Men can be victims of all of these things, excluding rape. You say men are not victims of domestic abuse? I would like to direct everyone to a must read web site: http://www.shatterdmen.com Men do get beaten by women, and it is women who get away with it. You think men do not get judged by the size of their genitalia? Please.. I have gotten information I did NOT want to know from some women about their exs' and even some of my friends. And as if men do not get singled out by; their income, their body size (height, weight, and muscularity), sexual performance, and can also have their kindness taken advantage of; I can be living proof of all of these things. There are women who actively attempt to keep a child away from their father. I got rejected because I told a girl that the guitar wasn't my favorite instrument. When will a guy reject a girl for something so frivilous? Just this past weekend, a girl I never met in my entire life told me "I can get more women than you could", and I did not even as much say a single word to her. It is my personal experience that the majority of women are in fact guilty of abuse at least from time to time, whether or not they realize it is damaging to a males psyque. So to say women are the only ones to be reasonable victims, and are more so than men are, is completely untrue. Thats why I said "Its not just guys that are jerks, it just depends on who gets to being the jerk first.", it is my attempt to open awareness that women are just as guilty of the things they claim are terrible about men (not more so, just as equally). Yes men do terrible things to women, and I condemn that as I do not believe ANY wrong should be done to ANYBODY. I am saying such things to raise awareness in hopes that both men and women change and treat each other better. But personally, at my point in life a girl would have to prove she is not out to f*** with my head first before I had anything to do with her outside of friendship alone (Yes, I am fully capable of befriending a woman without wanting sex). Lastly, I will say one thing to BoTox. Thanks for your concern or whatnot, but I would not wish my childhood upon anybody. I grew up practically alone, under the poverty line, and pretty damn hungry. I now have a job, live on my own, and I plan on getting into constitutional law. Money is close to meaningless in my life, I would rather help people in any way I could to be honest, as it fills alot of emptiness that a lonely life can bring. Sorry for the hostile environment, but it (hopefully) worked in opening eyes towards a subject that is often left untouched thanks to social boundaries. And please check out that website and raise awareness!!!

BTW I couldn't agree more with the people who think men should stop bombarding women with stupid sexual suggestions. Not only is it immature, but it shows yourself as distasteful on your part. Even I know girls do not want an idiot who cannot control himself enough to approach her as a human being, and not some kind of toy. When I look on message boards like wetset.net, and see some of the threads where women are flooded with ignorant questions I am thankful that I am not flooded with a ton of women asking me questions (in very poor grammar) like "gimmie a bottle" and "change my poopie diaper"... Cmon guys, even if girls like the fetish, they want guys who are obviously mature enough to speak to them from time to time without thinking they havnt entered kindergarden. They also want to know that theyre capable of normal conversation without the guy having a constant hard on, or whatever. I gotta admit, I read these things out of amusement, because it makes me greatful to have more control over myself. Guys who do this: please grow up, your scaring away a valuable point of view within this community.

I'm wierd. I like the feeling of a wet diaper pressed against my butt as I sit and wiggle around a bit on a hard surface. Same applies to a dirty diaper (Mushy poop is the best kind too). I like the smell for some ackward reason, even though i'm pretty repulsed by the smell of other ppls fecal matter, mine isn't disgusting at all (to me). Guess its kinda like farts... some people like their own brands!

I love the fact that I don't even need to bother with the toilet. I wouldn't call this security because I have STRONG bladder/bowel control. I've tried to have an "accident" but it just hurts so much and is so annoying that I dont wan't to hold it in, instead of accidently peeing. Although one of the first times I wore a diaper, I had a small farting accident (hasn't happened since though), I thought this was pretty ironic, seeing as I only have those after the very rare food poisoning. But as for the AB side of me, OCCASIONALLY I will suck my thumb, that is so rare it's almost not even worth mentioning. Bottles are something I might look into, but not the pacifier/frilly panties/bib/clothing stuf. So in conclusion, I guess the only AB part of me is a bottle, although I do want to have induced accidents.

I had a desire to wear a diaper ever since I could remember. When I was 4, I used to ask my grandmother to tell me stories of the time I wore diapers. Secretly, I remember fantasizing that one day my mom or grandmother would come home with diapers and put me in one since I asked about it so much. One time they came home with a package. I asked them what it was and they said diapers. My grandmother was babysitting my cousin at the time, and I asked who they were for. She said they were for me and I got pretty excited at the thought, but I didn't say anything to her about their presence. Too bad she never put them on me, I dont know what I wouldve done, lol. But the first time I ever got to wear a diaper was only a few months ago when I rented my own apartment. I was so excited to get my CVS store diapers. Boy did those things suck, especially since that first one was the sorriest attempt at a fastening job anyone has ever seen...

Id have to say about 12 hours.. this is pretty regular if I dont poop in them early on. I like to sit in a poopy diaper until it itches (normally 3 hours unless its a sticky one). Wet ones I leave on until they leak a small amount, then sit in it for a while with some protection so I dont ruin my furniture. I could last a really long time in a diaper if I wasn't too cheap to buy something good... maybe next time i'll buy some Molicare supers.

It was a generalization, 99/100 leave 1 out of 100. You can also say there are 1.5 million good women in this country (given they were all 18+). By the way, I love my mother to death and could not have asked for a better parent, but even she has done a man wrong through my eyes. She rejected a guy (GREAT GUY, my mother has strong conviction and would not allow an asshole to abuse her in any way) she likes solely because hes raising a child and has to pay alimony, so its possible that a woman can be very sweet deep down, but be far too demanding, and its killing the spirits of guys who treat them well. By the way, its impossible to go out and tell a good girl from a nutcase based on looking. Believe me, I kick a disrespectful lunatic to the curb after a few chances with no regrets whatsoever, not even looking back afterwards. Thats why I say if luck runs completely out after many years, then perhaps there arent any good, available women around, and maybe its time to just move on. Not saying celibacy is the answer for everybody, but it's certainly an option if you want to avoid heartache.

I registered for the sole purpose to reply to this message as it's hit a personal nerve so to speak... (WARNING: The point is in one of the last paragraphs if you want to skip to it, as this post has some serious personal complaints and hostilities some may not want to hear ) It's hard to be sexually repressed, believe me I know. I have never had a girlfriend in my entire life. Sure, I've had sex with a handful (hell less than that) of girls in my life, but 10 years after hitting puberty and watching everybody you can possibly think of having at least 1 relationship in their life, a hole in your heart forms and widens with each passing day. My 73 year old grandmother has a better sex life than I do. If AIDS wasnt out there, i'd probably be gay. I've tried matching sites with no responses, clubs, and simply being nice. 65 year old men get more attention than I do at clubs. I've been told by MANY different women that I am attractive, so I don't think that is the problem.. who knows This isn't a self pity note at all, I have a point to this. I know im going to catch some serious heat from this statement, but women f'king suck... seriously. I've been laughed at by blind dates, tossed to the side by a girl I talked to for months who's had a boyfriend, just for her to chose another guy, taken advantage of for a ride, food, money, a caring shoulder, sex (no, thats not my ego talking, im serious), had girls say they were interested and wouldn't answer their phone when I call, LITERALLY been ignored for saying I cared about a girl (no joke, her friend told me this), and more things I choose not to get into detail about, as you probably get my point. I have only met ONE decent woman, my mother. They are terrible, they say they want to be treated well, but when they are they take advantage of you. Games they play range from crap like hard to get, all the way back to "you can only call me once a day, and you have to wait 2 days before you call me again" which differs from girl to girl. It's hard to approach a girl, they cost money just to talk to, and then just when you think they like you, they don't pick their phone up the second time you call. I've also noticed they would rather be with a man that beats the crap out of them than to be with a gentleman who would hold the door open for them. I could go on and on... POINT: is this man, let them go.. if your nice it's not worth the damaged self esteem. You cannot be mean if you are not mean, it will not work. Let them get beat and murdered by their abusive husband, they deserve it. Be celibate and don't dwell on yourself, because the best way to take care of pain is not pain killers, it is to stop messing with broken glass. Sometimes the answers aren't what you want to hear, and I may be wrong for your case. That crap cliche` "The right woman is out there!" is irrelevant, some people go their whole lives without finding one. It's probably for the better, seeing as divorce rate is 50% in the USA, and alimony will have them playing with half of what you earn with their brand new boyfriend while they sit on their butt and talk crap about you all day long. They just aren't worth it. Ban me if yall feel the need, but it's time somebody said something. Its not just guys that are jerks, it just depends on who gets to being the jerk first. 99% of the time, the nice guy does nothing to the girl, and they go psycho, Yet during the girls next relationship, the guy that cheats on her within a week is a jerk. Go figure.. Does this sound familiar: "You're too good for me."? She's right, any man with a bit of romance within their warm blooded veins are. Let her choke on her own tears as her next boyfriend calls her names in front of friends and beats her for not cooking their macaroni at the perfect temperature. Just be celibate, women are impossible to please.