DLsWife

he he. He is quite the catch, if I do say so myself. I feel so lucky to have him in my life, he treats me so well. I guess I just wanted to show him how much I love him by coming up with a really great gift idea. There have been a few on here that I have in mind for him so its definitely been helpful.

hmmm He and I actually had a talk about this last night. He actually says he would prefer me NOT to wear one. He likes being the only one wearing them, and he says its the feel of them not the sight of them :/ so.. he asked me not to wear one. He says if its something I was curious about, then to go ahead and try it, but dont do it with the expectation that it will get him excited, if that makes sense?

yeah thats what I figured, but I was hoping a little Ill come up with another idea.

it might be a while before I have the courage to try something like that. Im not saying Ill never do it.. but it may be a while.

I actually was wondering about stamps. Like, buying white ones and using rubber stamps to decorate a pattern all over, but I didn't know how well the ink would adhere to the surface. Has anyone tried this?

wow thanks for all the responses! He is definitely more DL than AB.. hes not into being treated like a baby. He doesn't do baby paraphernalia. No baby clothes, soothers, bottles..etc. He did say hes interested in footie pjs.. which made me chuckle because I used to have a pair my mother bought me when I was 19. hah. Actually though, they were quite comfy. That's pretty much as close to AB as he gets.. footie PJs and decorated diapers. We've actually seen both the ebay lot and the tapes site, he liked one of the tapes there. He has a cloth diaper, but doesn't like it because he says it doesn't pull moisture away like a disposable does. That said, we've also looked at maybe cloth covers? Ive seen some on etsy. If I was a better sewer, Id make them myself.. but I'm not. My mother is a seamstress, but as you can imagine, this isn't something he really wants to share with her. Nor do I. I love my mother, but shes definitely not the most open minded individual.

sweet, we actually did look at some diaper tapes and having him just buy the normal white diapers from bambino. What width would you recommend for the tape?

My Husband ordered Bambinos in March and they sent him the wrong size. They sent out Mediums instead. He offered to exchange them, but they just resent out the correct size and let him keep the mediums. If anyone is interested, he has 5 packages (or 40 diapers in total) at $1.00 ea plus shipping. He actually has a case, but he did open one package to see the size difference and figured no one would want the open package. If you do, he will throw them in for free.

So recently I discovered that my Husband is a DL. And.. Im trying really hard to be supportive. If this is his thing, its his thing, and I want him to be happy . So.. he has a birthday next month, as well as Christmas coming up. I know he orders from Bambinos and he likes them but he does complain that for the last 2 years, his diapers have all had the same pattern. Im having a hard time finding him some with a different pattern for him to play with. He doesn't want anything with a wetness indicator, and hes a chubby guy, so he has to get XL, which also makes things difficult. Any advice would be appreciated! thanks!

This sounds the most like My hubby and I. He isn't into watersports at all. He thinks messing is dirty. Its just the peeing. Honestly that's the only part of it I cant get my head around and I feel like a jerk We've talked and are going to take it slow. Hes going to hold off on the wetting himself portion until I'm more used to the whole thing. I love him so much, and even if I cant ever fully understand it, Id like to think I can get to the point where it doesn't bother me as much. I don't want him to ever feel like I find him yucky And that's what I am worried about the most, I think, with the pee thing. Is that I will react poorly and hurt him and I don't want to do that.

I've seen a lot of threads like this, so Im sure Ill get a lot of the repeated information. Heres the deal. My husband and I got marred 6 months ago. We've been together for 2 years. He is the most amazing man I've ever met and I truly love him with all my heart. I guess for the last two years, he's been trying to hint at his DL side, and I've just been so.. blind I never even suspected. So, the other day, I was checking his email for an email he needed and I saw an email from an online ABDL site. At first I didn't know what it was, I was angry because I couldn't figure out who he was buying diapers for, he had told me he was a virgin when we met and here he was buying diapers for some kid somewhere. Then I went to the site.. and realized they were adult diapers. So then I started wondering if he had a medical problem he had kept from me, or if it was a sexual thing. I was so.. nervous to ask him because I didn't want him to be embarrassed and I didn't want him to be mad and thing I was snooping I was also a little hurt that he had kept something like this from me, considering how open I have been with my kink. In any case, I tried to gently confront him about it, and after him getting over the initial mortification, we talked about it. I knew, even before he admitted it was a sexual thing, that if that was the case, it didn't matter to me. I love him the way he is, and knowing this about him does not change who he is. To be honest, while I don't understand it, It doesn't bother me for the most part. I've always been a very open person sexually, and if thats what floats his boat, thats ok with me. That said, there is one aspect of it that I cant seem to get past right now. He told me he voids in them. He doesn't do number 2, but he does urinate. I don't know why this one aspect of it seems to bother me so much. I know that they don't leak, so I have no reason to be weirded out by it really, but inexplicably it bothers me and I need some advice on how to get past that. I want him to be comfortable and I don't want him to feel like he has to hide anything or be ashamed of anything. Its my problem, not his. He shouldn't have to change who he is because of something that logically I know is so trivial. He doesn't want me to change him or clean him or anything, so its not even an issue of me having to come into contact with it, it just.. is. I don't know. Help please! I want him to feel like he is safe and has nothing to be embarrassed about.