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1 hour ago, barbiejoanne said:
1 change of cloths ??? Cloth diapers or *clothes*?
4th, no powder, even if its under the three ounces. sometimes they let it go, usually they wont. Not worth the *hassle.
5th, anti rash cream/ointment (a must for me) find travel size ones (amazon) - I take 2 oz tubes and Aquaphor 2 oz, medical letter and 4 x 5 bag tags
PLUS the Sunflower ID cards - NOT ever bothered or questioned anymore in sometime now -
plus a laptop bag as a diaper bag carry on
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18 hours ago, Little Sherri said:
Have you tried the Rearz/InControl Mega Inspire+?
I find the medium MegaMax's larger than most medium products on the market - I can still squeeze into a medium MegaMax, but I wear size XL in Rearz diapers, for example, and size L in some others. Try the medium Rearz/InControl diapers - if you are looking for similar capacity, the Mega Inspire+ or the BeDry Night would be comparable to a MegaMax.
My go to daily diaper Rearz/InControl Mega Inspire+
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2 hours ago, drnkrdnck said:
How is the plastic on the sunkiss vs the mega max? I thought I read someone’s comment somewhere that the sunkiss is a lot stiffer and louder than the mega max.
Read my review.... They are identical
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confidry is long out of business
Any one have recs for a more true to size high capacity diaper?
??? recommendations???
I have done several reviews - which brand do you want to know about?
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33 minutes ago, MixerOp said:
I remember the Molicare purple. I remember the blue, green, and pink polka dot colors from NS. I wonder if there's any red or yellow?
if there was I was have already reviewed it here
2 hours ago, MixerOp said:So, I accidentally got some SunKiss Pink, and it made me think. Outside of patterns (I'm only a DL), how many other colors HAVE been out there (not just what's available, now)?
Trest has pastels - my review:
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search the forum - already been asked at least 3 times
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On 5/25/2025 at 10:53 PM, Cottontailz_Tom said:
Just to clear things up — our decision not to sell in the U.S. right now isn’t political at all. We’re a new company, and we’re still figuring out the logistics of getting our products across the border.
When we started, it was a lot easier to ship internationally without worrying about tariffs. That’s the landscape we thought we’d be operating in. But things have changed. Tariffs are based on where the product is made, not where it’s shipped from, which has a big impact on our product and most products in this space. That said, we are doing everything we can to
On 6/2/2025 at 1:16 PM, Cottontailz_Tom said:Unfortunately we don't have a retail location so even for those close to us shipping works the same way; however, they should arrive much faster if you are closer! 🙂
the impact on our customers.
We’re working hard behind the scenes and hope to be ready to ship to our U.S. customers in the next few weeks. Thanks so much for your patience and support — we can’t wait to be available in the U.S. soon!
If you decide you need help in the USA shipping - let me know I might be able to lend you some advice.
I have 2 backyard storage sheds and can always use a little extra coin here n there.
not a fan of cloth backed or ABDL designs - but I can help you should you need it - reach out to me with your FB profile link and I will reply.
I have done dozens of incont product reviews and know what it takes to get shipping done.
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1 hour ago, abdlwpg said:
You clearly have no knowledge of logistics/shipping.Having to do a bunch of extra export paperwork as well as dealing with customers complaints about their actual final cost is the reason these companies aren't shipping to the US.
Sure they can raise prices across the board but why alienate the customers that don't cost you more to service?
Also it's probably hard to estimate what exactly your increased costs will be so they have to just hope they picked the right number. It's not political, they would love your money.
hey so... tell me you know about shipping without telling me you know shipping
I KNOW logistics and shipping tariffs have ZERO to do with the cost of paperwork on shipping anything across borders - IT IS A GOVERNMENT GETS MONEY - PERIOD -
ANY COMPANY that tells you that its ALOT MORE PAPERWORK is an outright LIE
NOW...since the past 28 years, driving and computers and customers - I deal with DHL on a daily basis, 2 53 ft trailers, drivers logs, and 3 26 ft box trucks shipping out Amazon and doterra and other cosmetics....
THERE IS ONE EXTRA FORM to fill out and that is IT - sign off two places with initials and sign off with THE RECIPENTS address to bill them for tariffs.
I buy have bought rearz diapers for MS management for the past 5 years - I bought 15 cases before the tariff scare and glad I did.. Why? REARZ lumps it in with shipping - ONE EXTRA FORM... nothing MORE.
If this is what @Rearz @Northshore and the diaper manufacturers / shipping companies are collecting tariffs for PLUS PAPERWORK FEES - then so be it - I have my stash now. I would love to see their "breakdown" on this.
Before the tariff scare: $509.94
After: $1198.99 - Why? - TARIFF - I refuse to let the government take my hard earned money for "My Basic needs" for their EQUALITY Tariffs. if there IS EXTRA PAPERWORK involved - then that is what ONE extra sheet to sign off on 2 or 3 places !!! - NOT a whole book to write up for the tariff PER ORDER.
Who suffers? Rearz DOES for one, the short term - who knows, maybe long term- maybe 3 min per order per one extra form - I don't need to order anything now for 14 months
2 hours ago, Dubious said:So only MegaMax then?
Even Northshore upped their rates - due to tariffs
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Wonderful photo, when you decide to do a plastic backed and or more adult pattern(s) and tapes, I can give you a fair review - see my profile for previous reviews.
Good Luck on the new business venture - I have suggestions to give you should you want or need them
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I used pampers daily except gym days - but that was just my issue
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ISO numbers that some manufacturers quote, and why In my real-world experience, I did real world tests on my reviews here and on youtube
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????????? Abel ??????
none sexual signs ??????
I’m getting older and only 26? - wait until you are 58
Sounds like to me you are wanting any or multiple babysitters all at once OR in a ABDL household (not ABEL household)
not being able to find one person to hang out with and now your wanting a whole houseful while being in diapers or role play as :Girl
Age Play Age:3-17 - I think, pretty much think you are asking for the world and everything in it and wanting it NOW.
Good luck. I never found ONE DL that was trustworthy to give my housekeys too let alone a houseful
YOU are needing more help than THOSE people, IF THEY EXIST In that setting, can EVER give you.
Seek professional help PLEASE
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blue Sunkiss small / medium diapers coming today - Mega Max and Trest Blue mediums already here, ready for photos
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absorbency, tapes and size wise.... they are identical to Mega Max, I can do a side by side if you wish.
When the mediums are back in stock I will order some with the Mega Max and Trest Blue mediums
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5 hours ago, diapergirl2244 said:
Hi, I’ve been a diaper lover/adult baby lover for as long as I can remember.. I am now 25 and I still get off to the thought of being in a wet diaper. For some reason lately, i’ve had this urge to be diapered at my place of work. I work front desk but i’m constantly standing - and would love to just release in a diaper in secret hehe. I don’t have the ability to order adult diapers, but I do have the ability for target pick up. does anyone have recs? i know only target
Im also a F, weighing around 180 pounds give or take… so goodnites XL are a no for me. I need them to be discreet under work clothes but wont leak after my first “accident”… any help??!!
buy from amazon - drop at an Amazon locker, unless you want to wear baggier clothes you're pretty limited to one time use diapers and discretion
I have done several reviews on adult diapers and well being male this might not help you, however, unless you get the guts to order from amazon and pickup at a locker - then not sure what to recommend that will last all day for YOU.
Trest, Sunkiss Masterpiece would be discreet + both plastic back diapers. Let me know if you need more info.
Also - waist size? - I will be selling off my light absorbency Germany made 6 tape diapers soon - maybe those will work for you
Tons of reviews with my user name here and I have some on FB
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gravity and mother nature ALWAYS wins - patience my Young Padawan -
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7 hours ago, Stone said:
Thanks. I’ve been listening to that podcast, really neat. I think it’s just helping me normalize all of this too. I would love to try to find someone for my wife to talk to as well as sharing this podcast with her but I’m just trying to not rush it too much. Please thank your wife for her perspective and let me know if she has any other nuggets. She says no problem , contact me PRIVATELY with your wifes FB info and I will give it to her
Micro-update:
I was sitting bed working, ??????????
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4 hours ago, Stone said:
Hey there @wellpaddedagain, yeah that sounds wonderful. Would love to connect.
YOU need to get the WIFE in a connection with someone else that "FOUND OUT" maybe that will take the edge off the razor.... YOU need to take alot of responsibility here for this since you were NOT honest to begin with. My own wife has been reading this thread and while she is NOT into AB or DL and KNEW IT ahead of time - MS Multiple Sclerosis has other plans
On 2/13/2025 at 12:45 PM, Dartplayerinwvc said:
I wish! I really don’t think that’s the case but I’ll be sure to post it here if there are any signs. Thanks for the resources, I’ll check those out.
Get on the podcasts "Love In Brief" AND TALK TO EACH OTHER make it a "DATE NIGHT" - YOUR side and then treat her to a dinner somewhere of HER choice and have some peace and quiet. Rekindle that LOVE you HAD... Love In Brief has the VERY TITLE of this situation you are looking for help with.
my wife who is following this writes:
I agree with the wife that it's not a turn on....that's why I always wanted to see you in underwear cause to me.....that's sexy). But you're situation is different now.-
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On 2/5/2025 at 9:55 AM, Stone said:
So on the way to church Sunday, I had my phone plugged in and apple car play on screen. What I didn’t notice was an audible thumbnail for an ABDL story. My wife asked what it was and I said “hmm, I don’t know,” but I realized that was really stupid and immediately said “no, no. I know what it is.” ........we got to have the dreaded conversation.
I basically reiterated and she was still shocked, she had thought the audiobook was self-help for recovering ABDLs and not some kind of literotica. You can kind of see where her mind was going as I explained further (self-help). She really didn’t have many questions which really surprised me. She assured me of her love and that I didn’t need to worry about her thinking I was a freak, but then also…she wants me to work outside of the home more and see a EMDR therapist to uncover whatever childhood trauma might have caused this. I agreed but then started to get a bad taste in my mouth.
I explained that the deception was wrong of me, and I felt really bad, but that I don’t believe there is anything inherently wrong with diapers. She argued that I must think there is something wrong with it, otherwise I wouldn’t have hidden it. And that it’s clearly wrong because “it’s not age appropriate”.
I guess a response like this should be expected but I’m a little at a loss. I’m excited for a therapist, and my wife has even recommended finding a “kink-affirming” therapist. I think this could help bridge the gap in our understanding and might even open the door to me wearing freely (on occasion or under defined circumstances) without shame. But I’m still reeling from it all. I feel very awkward and when I’m around my wife I’m always wondering if she’s derping me in her head.
I still feel that I can’t be 100% transparent. ...............................and that certain AB aspects and domination in a setup is a turn on. As we were talking through it she said at one point “What? Do you want me to be your mommy?” And while I quickly denied it, man,
if I had a chance to roleplay and be cared for like that. Idk. Sounds like heaven. But that’s my story and I would love any feedback that any of you guys could offer.
I have been reading this and Re reading this several times........... NOW referring to the bold and UNDERLINED - Question you need to ask yourself and HER is: Have you (she been researching this ABDL or AB only and or DL only on her own?) MAYBE............. SHE IS asking you if that will take a marriage a step further since MAYBE she already KNOWS about the FSA purchases - NEVER UNDER ESTIMATE a partner doing bills - what gets paid where. MAYBE she doesn't think SHE is GOOD enough for YOU and looking at ways of TAKING IT UP another level... Maybe she is too chicken to bring it up
What about website tracking on either one of your computers?
YOU BOTH NEED TO LAY THE CARDS ON THE TABLE - Get on the podcasts "Love In Brief" AND TALK TO EACH OTHER - TAKE THIS AS YOUR WAY OUT AND WAY IN - BE 110% honest - COMPLETELY.
Check out Youre Not Broken book by Dr. Rhoda
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On 2/5/2025 at 9:55 AM, Stone said:
So on the way to church Sunday.......... I would love any feedback that any of you guys could offer.
Should have been honest YEARS ago
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over 31. that's why I started doing reviews - saving others money