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Dartplayerinwvc
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9 minutes ago, Babypants said:
Rachael has gone to the heart of it. As a lifelong incontinent, I used to be frequently asked what it was like to wear diapers. My standard reply came to be asking in return how they would describe the color red to someone blind from birth. It was a polite way of pointing out that, to me, their question was meaningless. I have had four long-term relationships, and many of shorter duration. Diapers have never been an issue, and I have always been up front about them. So, I have concluded that the problem a lot of AB/DL guys have to confront is their guilt, shame, and overall anxiety. Just about everybody has problems of their own, and it's understandable that they would not want to take someone on with these issues. So, as Rachael says, "don't beat yourself up over it." If you are comfortable in your own skin, you make it a lot easier for others to be comfortable with you.
I fear the family of my wife asking....super devout Mormons and we have had issues in the past.... and having to change at a family function and take an used one to the truck or car as not to leave it behind in THEIR trash - and them """Noticing """ even if I don't have to change..... But... as one of my wife and I's friends stated: """ It is what it is"""
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1 hour ago, pamprdguy said:
I sit here and contemplate this whole DL lifestyle. I thought that maybe I had finally found someone that I could talk to about our mutual love of diapers. We messaged back and forth frequently at first and we were honest with each other. Now, she seems to have stop writing. It is hard enough living with this fetish, especially when you feel alone. I have written a few posts on this site and have removed most of them due to replies that upset me. I have decided to write this on here (as maybe my last one) just to get this off chest.
I feel alone and am now going to sit back and think about this. It is so hard keeping this a secret for pretty much my life.
Now I have to think about Why?
I was with only one person who totally embraced it and she died from a drunk driver. My current wife dealt with it when this was a fetish and fun - but MS had other plans - now 24 -7 - and 61 years old (going on 17) I feel that it was a "chance at best" for another one.... but I am happy with what I have, we are each others best friend and even though she hates the AB style print diapers, we have had to buy them because of budgets years ago and I don't much care for the AB ones either, but they worked for what we needed to keep working and paying bills....For that, I think that my wife is better than the first one that was into it because I liked it for the fun fetish reasons.
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Did you know that being vibrated only, you don’t get hard, but still cum? At least that’s me.
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5 hours ago, northerndiapers said:
I have to agree! As a diaper lover, I’d like to see more diaper sex videos, both straight or gay, where there is more of an emphasis on the diaper and less AB.
yup - agreed - I for one wouldn't mind one with the theme of my DL parties back in Arizona - at the time I had 9 pinball machines and always ordered two difference kinds of keg beer and entrance fee was was bring your own booze to share if you didn't like beers, bring your own favorite diapers, share one at least to trade and be discretely dressed and not in any DL or AB outfit.
It was an written rule that wetting ONLY was accepted and OPEN wearing
It was an written rule that if you and someone else "started something sexual / intimate" it was hands off for others but open watching was known and accepted.
We never recorded them since video cameras were super expensive and nokia cell phones did even have a camera
A few of us always would "finish off" with a 1970s pamper -
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that should be obvious - get him close, move the diapers aside, then stick it in.
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$100.00 plus shipping - via paypal
there is only 2 sealed bags
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5 hours ago, Pilotdj said:
I dont have anymore. Been out for a long time. If you ever want to get rid of them let me know please!
you let me know when you are finished with everyone else
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50 minutes ago, Pilotdj said:
Were? So I guess you don't have anymore?
yes - still do - let me know when your done with the others
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2 hours ago, Pilotdj said:
The photos that were shared that have the white packaging attends 6 tabs Are the ones I was looking for that is plastic backed. If anybody has those message me please, and I would be happy to buy them.!!
mine are even older - well were
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mine aren't like the guy above...tech monkey.. but let me know when you want the real deal - I was first inline and that seems to not mean much.
Send me a private message if you want to continue the deal
22 hours ago, Pilotdj said:I know it's almost impossible, does anyone have any vintage/old attends plastic backed with waistband they would get rid of? I've been looking to buy some anywhere I can find
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2 hours ago, Pilotdj said:
Is is the 6 tab ones? Medium or large works. How much you want for them?
6 tabs - all or any of the attends I have are 6 tabs - I will have to dig through them and find them - hell I dont know how much - depends on how many you want - I have alot of mediums
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wish I could find a good friend for beers n diapers
20 minutes ago, Spanky said:I play with trains for a living so I can't get high. I will drink on my weekends. Beer leads to lots of wet diapers.
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I have a few - blue and white bag and then the last release they did - what size do you want?
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1 hour ago, illegal_alien47 said:
https://dp-vids.com/top-rated/
if you did not knew about this you are welcome
know
Too much spam ads - pop ups - and scat for me
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Exceeding product design capability over stressing tape tabs - USE DUCT tape or BOX tape to hold down the tapes right after application.... BEFORE adhesive contamination
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I did a review on them, I have one of each and will never use them. These are more or les VERY EXPENSIVE training pants
The review was not favorable for anyone with more than dribbles - Anyone wants them they pay shipping - Medium and large and x large sizes
They have these with "flys" that open and expect them to catch wetting? - they don't
they just came out with plastic or some sort of PVA pant... anyway - waste of time
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I use white duct tape
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Use bed pads
Search forums... Hotel Motel stays... It's a previous topic several times
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6 hours ago, deewet said:
This is a very good topic for the group here, and all the comments are worth thinking about if you are still keeping secrets from your partner. I can say from first hand experience that once you are in the open, things get much easier to deal with. ......................... best to come clean about this as it will avoid that tough discussion you will have when you other finds this out on their own.
So did you ever have that conversation about DL or ABDL?
On 1/4/2024 at 11:34 AM, Little Sherri said:Telling my wife felt like a major risk when I did it, but one that I had to take, for a plethora of reasons. Getting past that has greatly improved my quality of life, and,
Keeping it a secret was like leaving a landmine lying around that I knew was going to get stepped on someday. I decided that I preferred to be able to choose the day and the situation, rather than just waiting for it to go off unexpectedly. Probably while her parents were over, or right when I was about to go meet my buddies at a bar. "Why is there a bag of giant baby diapers stuffed in the ceiling in the basement!?!" or "What did I just see when you bent over? What have you got on?" Insert nightmare here...
So I'd say take the good advice offered by many of the people above, and just tell him that it's a "thing" for you, and that you aren't asking for him to participate, unless he wants to, but you just don't want to have any secrets between you. Own it, don't act like it's a terrible crime you're confessing to, would be my advice.
perfect advice - Life has enough DRAMA without adding to it
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Their best sales are always Black Friday - about 30 to 35 % off
@Rearz
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3 hours ago, diaperedcoach said:
wear
wearing one for fun is one thing - but once I started having issues with MS and bathroom issues more than here n there, she got used to it and didn't have to many issues with the printed ones I had gotten from manufacturers - vendors for reviews. BUT it is mainly all white diapers here
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I would mention it over a nice dinner somewhere..even over a few beers... and "wish" that he could trust you with a very personal desire. - When asked... I would just come right out and mention and not mince words.
Honesty is the best policy
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44 minutes ago, fixitboy said:
It tuck me quit awhile to master this. But I can wet rather easily know
It *Took* me awhile too but it is all MS reasons now
Does your wife complain?
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My wife's reply to your question:
Well, my secret is you have your own money to buy that stuff with. So in a sense, you have an "allowance" separate from what we pay bills and buy groceries with. I think you order A LOT but maybe it's because it's on sale, it's new or you're trying to find a type that's easier for me to deal with. Because it's honestly not an easy thing to understand why a grown person wants to wear them. You? You have MS so there's a need now but the fetish is still there too.
I'm not a fan of the baby prints on adult diapers. If you're into the baby stuff....then okay BUT when you're not, wearing for fun or have MS and need to, I think it's demeaning to the wearer. If you HAVE to wear, I think wearing baby prints is a slap in the face. Here you're having to wear a diaper and possibly feel like less of an adult or losing your ability to control your bathroom issues , now you have to wear one with baby prints. How awful.
My husband has had to buy baby prints when his money got tight and I can hardly stand it