The pronoun nonsense drove me up the wall, when I came out. WHether they did it on purpose or not I really don't know but it stifled my growth inside and amde me constantly check myself. Being on cross hormones when you are beginning is hard enough but then being told not to use the ladies room when you are dressed as a woman was the pits.
I left as soon as I could and now am a trucker and live by myself in diapers. Love the feel of cloth between my legs it is just so cozy. I am a female by surgery now and live the way I choose but it is still hard out there.