I've tried them all and my favorite is attends # 10 with a pameper # 7 insert. I like the bambino and the secure plus but there is something about the attends that they don't have . maybe it's the movement. either way. I use an attends # 10 with a pamper insert (see pamperchu video on how to add pampers) with a diaper tape. this is the closest ive come to a real diaper. I download pamperchus diaper tapes and add them too my attends. These attends are white with three tapes on either side. I cut one of them off and end up with the closest thing I've ever come to a real baby diaper. You should all try it. I have to drive 30 miles just to get these attends and let me tell you it is completely worth it.