lilstevie

Hi Paul , it`s good you`ve opened yourself up here . You never know , some special women from your area might see your post . It seems to me from what you`ve said , you dont have a problem meeting woman . I can relate to that . It`s always been easy for me also . Just a little piece of advice for all the guys . The odds of finding "Ms Perfect " are slim . But , relationships are made up of compromises. If you are open enough in the beginning ,,, it may take some time but you will find the women that`s compatible with you and also may enjoy some of the kinks you like . I wont go into details about my relationship but we are very happy . We did`nt meet online but did meet at a ageplay presentation put on by a bdsm group . Most bdsm folks are openminded about others kinks. In the past before lilshy and I met , I quess I was lucky enough to meet my share of women that were excepting of my kinks and my ab/dl side . best wishes to you and all, lilstevie

Molly , wow , you`ve got some great advice so far and look at me ,,, two post on DD from me in two days !!! I agree with the above post , being honest is the best way to be . There`s certainly a postive side for you and possibly him for telling him about your diapers . This is just a thought for you . It may be easier for you and him if you do it this way . Firstly , go to some AB/DL sites and get some information for him to read as to why people enjoy wearing .This might help him understand . If you feel like it`s difficult for you to just come right out and say it face to face , then just write a note or email to him and tell him you have something you`d like to tell him . He will ask you now because you`ve aroused his curiosity. Make sure both you and he are relaxed and not stressed about anything. Maybe tell him in your note that you`d like to tell your secret over dinner ? If you dont feel like you can tell him face to face ,,, just ease into it in your note to him . You both have apparently been thru alot in the past and weathered some storms together. He may welcome the opportunity to nurture you . Wish you the best!!! lilstevie & lilshy (wifey helped write this)

"Real girls" do masterbate in their diapers but is`nt that a personel thing most girls would`nt chat about openly with guys on the internet? My wife wears and I know she loves the feeling of how being diapered makes her feel safe and comfy . She does get aroused , sometimes it`s me doing the arousing . Regardless , what you see here online is just a small part of the AB world . She never comes here or any aB chatrooms or boards . Her AB side is very personel for her and she only shares it with me.. Is she typical of most women that might enjoy diaper wearing or being aB? I cant answer that . lilstevie "It`s never too late to be a child again"

Something fun for Mothers Day!!! If it is on, I must turn it off. If it is off, I must turn it on. If it is folded, I must unfold it. If it is a liquid, it must be shaken, then spilled. If it a solid, it must be crumbled, chewed or smeared. If it is high, it must be reached. If it is shelved, it must be unshelved. If it is pointed, it must be run with at top speed. If it has leaves, they must be picked. If it is plugged, it must be unplugged. If it is not trash, it must be thrown away. If it is in the trash, it must be removed, inspected, and thrown on the floor. If it is closed, it must be opened. If it does not open, it must be screamed at. If it has drawers, they must be rifled. If it is a pencil, it must write on the refrigerator, monitor, or table. If it is full, it will be more interesting emptied. If it is empty, it will be more interesting full. If it is a pile of dirt, it must be laid upon. If it is stroller, it must under no circumstances be ridden in without protest. It must be pushed by me instead. If it has a flat surface, it must be banged upon. If Mommy's hands are full, I must be carried. If Mommy is in a hurry and wants to carry me, I must walk alone. If it is paper, it must be torn. If it has buttons, they must be pressed. If the volume is low, it must go high. If it is toilet paper, it must be unrolled on the floor. If it is a drawer, it must be pulled upon. If it is a toothbrush, it must be inserted into my mouth. If it has a faucet, it must be turned on at full force. If it is a phone, I must talk to it. If it is a bug, it must be swallowed. If it doesn't stay on my spoon, it must be dropped on the floor. If it is not food, it must be tasted. If it IS food, it must not be tasted. If it is dry, it must be made wet with drool, milk, or toilet water. If it is a car seat, it must be protested with arched back. If it is Mommy, it must be hugged. I am a toddler!

What a great topic ! I`m sorry I did`nt see it sooner on the board . I would enjoy sharing with all of you some of our prespectives and experiances on this . My wife and I have both been in the bdsm scene actively for a number of years (7 +). We`ve attended the local munches and play parties ,,, gone out to the big national events .We have many leather friends and bdsm lifestyle friends that are like family to us.We live a Daddy / lilgirl relationship everyday. It`s a part of who we are . It`s how we have grown together. Our`s is a multi faceted relationship . She`s little and also very submissive and brat. Myself , I`m her Top , Daddy and also lil brother. I also have a little side . Hers is more 5 ish ,,, mine is 3 ish . When I`m little ,, she`s more in the big sister role. It works for us , she gets to remain in her lilspace and I get to be little also. We have friends that enjoy being unkie and auntie to the both of us. This works great for us and our friends. We both can spend time being little, they get to relive a part of their lives thats gone. It satsifies needs in both of us. I know this can sound a little confusing to some . How do we do it? It`s all about needs and satisfing them and the power exchange that comes with it. She needs to feel safe , protected , and nurtured. She brings out a strong Daddy side in me . It was there in the beginning . She`s so tiny and fragile looking ,,, you want to just hug her up and protect her. But she is a lil firecracker . Dont let her size fool ya . She`ll standup and let her voice be heard . She`s no doormat . She`s the protector and mentor of the new subs in the group. Giving them guidance and speaking up when a so called "Dom" approaches a newbie to take advantage of. She`s also a brat. A brat in a bdsm defination is a sub who "misbehaves" and pushes the limits of being respectful to her Top but in a appriate way. A "Brat" is a submissive that enjoys attempting to push her or his tops buttons and determine how far she can go before she is snatched up and given a sound spanking or other appropriate "punishment." Brats can be playful or saucy, sometimes belligerant and sometimes disobediant, but always in a respectful way. I specifically said submissive because I have never known a "slave" who was bratty. A bratty slave I believe would be an oxymoron not so much bratty sub. A playful brat is a cherished prize that is sought after by many tops.I`m so fortunate to have her . She keeps me on my toes and keeps that creativity going in the relationship. How does all this tie in to your topic? Interestingly ,,, most of the more experianced Doms or Tops I know enjoy playing with ageplayers. The schoolgirl roleplay ,,, naughty girl that gets the sound spanking for bringing in a bad note for misbehaving in class is as classic as it gets or being sent to the "principles " or "headmasters" office for some scolding. AB play is a lil different and needs to be approached carefully. Some will be turned off at the thought of changing a dirty diaper or even diapering in general . That`s not to say you cant be little or AB with a Top, just dont make a big issue over the diapering part . It may come with time. It may not. I`ve been with Tops that did enjoy the diapering part , they thought it was cute and fun. There`s a thing about being fluid bonded with someone . This is also a bdsm term . It`s an exchange of bodily fluids typically and doesnt happen in most relationships until a commitment has been reached. This has to do with AIDS and other transmittable diseases. Changing a dirty diaper might be a turn off for some because of this (whether it`s true or not) Regardless , if you approach all of this as fun play , you might find yourself with a Dom or Top that `s never experianced ab play but finds it fun and fullfilling. It maybe new ground for them and you need to explain and cummunicate . The 2 links jenniebear posted are great! A Dom or Top may have misconceptions about the ab lifestyle and need to be refered to good sites for info. I hope I have`nt rambled on too much ,,,it`s late and my spelling is going to pot. Maybe there will be a tid bit of information somewhere in this that`s useful for someone here . I wish all of you the very best , YIK and diapers ,,, lilstevie

I`ve always been called Stevie or Stevie D by some of my close friends. They`ve all seen my boyish side come out so I suppose thats how that got started. Awhile back , I told one of my girlfriends about my ab side and she paused and then laughed and said back to me " So you want to be a lilstevie ? " We both laughed and it stuck. lilstevie " When I growup , I wanna be a lilboy" " A grownup is a child with layers on"

Long story short ,we talked on the internet for several monthes and she invited me up to her home town for a ageplay presentation put on by a bdsm group. Once we met , we began seeing each other . One thing lead to another and she packed up and moved the 140 miles to be with me . We`ve been together for 4 years now and have been married two years. She`s a wonderful girl and loves being little. I can say to all that are still looking ,, it will happen for you . Take your time and look at the whole person . Just because she ageplays or likes diapers ,,, doesnt make he or she a mate. Diapers and diapering is such a small part of the relationship. Hugs ,,,, lilstevie & lilshy :-)

Hi Kimmy, Expressing your views with honesty is great! You shoot from the hip and I love your presentation. You are nowhere arrogant. Stay Pampered SoCalAB I agree 100% ,,, My take on this : Kimmie ,,, you do tell it like it is. You`re a darling person to give up your time for this and try to help or make a differance.Some people will never let it sink in what you`re trying to say. You do present your views well and with a fun humor and I like it !

Hi , I`m a guitarist . I`ve been playing for years and still try to keep my chops up .When I learned ,, you just wore out a LP playing it over and over . My how times and technology has changed!!! I`ve met so many really talented folks over the years and been fortunate enough to play with some. There`s nothing like standing up in front of a thousand people ,,,waiting to start that first song that`s going to wash away the butterflys. What a adrenlene rush!!! Interestingly , most of the AB/DL folks I`ve met have some special creative talent. Anyone else noticed this? lilstevie