[My Participation On Dd (Please Read)]

Hi all, I have been a member on here for a little while and there seems to be some misunderstanding as to what I am here for. I tried out chat, and for many reasons did not get along well in there at all. I've been asked why do I go into chat if not to be social? Why am I on DD? Well to clear the air, I am a Mommy to a wonderful AB. (My fiancee BabyRavey) Both of us are new to this lifestyle and practice it every day. She was looking to make friends on here. I am her Mommy joined to protect her and to try my hand at blogging, posting on forums, and reviews on different products..Thats it. I did not originally come on here to make friends like my little one did.

I have a few friends yes on here, but my main idea to being on here was strictly for my girl and posting reviews, threads and blogs. People assumed that I went into chat to socialize and such when really I go in there to wait for friends who want to talk to me in pm on there or have a review for me. As a result of alot thats gone on and a private situation where my screename was left up but I was away and something happened. I will only be in chat sporadically to check for those friends.

If you see me in chat or anywhere on here, please do not address me or talk to me unless I talk to you. If you don't like me I'm okay with that also, just don't deduct me or my baby reputation just because we reply to something. If you disagree with me ok but if I'm not rude please do not do it. (Same goes for BabyRavey) If you all would like to see my reviews, they are in my blog here. Really all BabyRavey and I want is a peaceful time on here. No trouble no drama. Now that you know my intention I hope to have a more enjoyable time here, and to the mod that got mixed up in my screen name being in chat without me attached to it, I apologize for the misunderstanding.

I know... i just wanted new friends........ and talk about the life style since we are new to it...... just want that is all but I hope people wont continue to judge. I dont mind if people want to now be nice but its hard when people gang up on you I love you mommy.

[I Can'T Wait To Get My Abu Cushies!]

Yeah we do wear the same size, I like to get one size up from what we are just for comforts sakes, and that helps also for hot days which we have alot of. I find they breathe better and don't get as hot. Free samples are a good thing, but to your credit sometimes its hard to pick two different sizes. I think we will really like the Cushies, but I don't want it to be a situation where we get used to a great diaper and then the company goes out of business which would be my luck.

I love the look and the BabyFresh availability as well as the one tape idea. We get a set number like twelve or in this case ten diapers and split them up evenly. Five and five will be good to see if we like them and then if we do I'm getting more. Perhaps if you like the samples, you can buy two packs in the different sizes that way and surprise her then.

I love them and not just because they are cute. They are comfortable and roomy. Not to snug not to lose thank you mommy for getting them for me--hugs--

[What Is The Most Important Thing In Your Life(Ab Or Other Wise)]

Well I was wondering what is the most important things in your life. Whether its being with a mommy and daddy and being an AB or is it more than that? Me I have my mommy and my dog. And most of a all a reason to live on. What is it for you? I hope all your lives have someone or something good in it.

[Baby Cradles, Bottles, And Other Baby Things.]

Well I am hoping some time soon that I will get all that I need to become a full AB. I am curious of where would be a good place to purchase a crib for an adult and bottles and such.

[What Is The Top Five Things You Like In Your Mommy Or Daddy?]

Well me and my mommy love each other. But the top things I love about her is

she comforts me, she cares for me, helps me embrace that side of me,And she is kind. I am glad we are in this. what do you like about your mommy or daddy(or about your ab)

[Sometimes Bening An Ab Is Good When You Are Under Stress.]

Only problem with being the daddy in my relationship, I'm stuck having to shoulder the load when I feel like it's pushing me under.

I feel for people show be equal not one should care for other. My mommy cares for me and I care for her.... I hope things get better for you.

[Sometimes Bening An Ab Is Good When You Are Under Stress.]

curiosity I feel wronged for you. A part of you needs to falter and have some type of mommy/daddy to be there for you. I wish I could..

Personally Ravet/Gwennie.......deal with it. If your her mommy you will provide a safe inveronment....if not.....maybe Ravey should move on?

I was with someone before who couldnt. It caused distress and havok. I am still bothered by the whole ordeal....but one must do what one must do.

I'm just sayin..........

We cant my car isnt working and her family cannot help at the moment and this person is supposed to be my mommys aid since she is disabled..... its not a cut where you put a band aid on it and forget about it...... thats all I will say.

[Sometimes Bening An Ab Is Good When You Are Under Stress.]

Babygirl I know *Hugs and snuggles* Hes just a narcisstic jerk that wants to try to control us, well he will NEVER control me. Its ok if you want to be a baby 24/7 to rid of stress I will take care of you and keep you safe. I love you so much sshhhhhh don't cry oks? I've got you..

I know its just he doesn't know how to budget or anything then wants to blame others because he is in his 40s and doesn't know how to even budget for a mortgage . He wants to pick on people that are disabled and supposedly weaker than him because hes a control freak and wants things to be his way and he is never wrong and the other one........dong even get my started--gets bottle and curls up-- I just want this stress to go away,.....

[Sometimes Bening An Ab Is Good When You Are Under Stress.]

Well me and my mommy are going through some hard times. Someone of the people we live with are making us very unhappy and moving out is not an option at the moment. I feel myself becoming more of a baby because of it. I sometimes just want to curl into a ball and cry and my mommy with all thats going on in her life its hard to not lose our minds. I dont know what to do because though being a baby does help with stress........ its not easy when people threaten over things that were just for fun or seems to think that something was done to them when it was.t........Im trying to stay in this mode for a long time because having my mommy is all that I have. ...

[Being A Ab Is It With You For A Life Time?]

Well I know people are into the life style of being an adult baby. But is it something you all want for the rest of your life? Well I believe I will...... I know its hard to sometimes to be this way when society looks down sometimes on things. But is it something you all wish to do forever? I am curious of what your stories are and what your thoughts are.

[Greetings From Finland]

Hello everyone.

I decided to post here and greet everyone. =) I joined the site to make new friends, so everyone who is also looking for new friends can come and chat with me at Paha_elukka@hotmail.com. You don't need to worry, i can behave myself...most of the time.

Aww your great. We are friends already just be your sweet self

[Would You Ever Trade Places With Your Ab Or Mommy Or Daddy]

We all know the mommas and daddies take care of us ABs(and if you are a parent mommy or daddy that you take care of your AB) But would you ever trade places with them? A baby perhaps could take care of their mommy or daddy? And vice versa. Me and my mommy have done this because sometimes people need to taken care of and babied. What do you think?

[I Am So Sick And Tired Of Immature People...]

Very well said sweetheart, although my head is pounding right now. I will type enough to say thank you and I love you too, after this point I will ignore them but after whats happened tonight...these silly people that get on me needed to be put in their place. You look sooo cute by the way!

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I know besides we live with the AC Nazi....... Im trying to circulate the air enough to where your head calms down.. how bad is the hydro? Is the CSF fluid bad?

[I Am So Sick And Tired Of Immature People...]

Who want to start trouble, stalk my profile and deduct precious reputation like their opinions or views mean anything to me. I have real life problems to address without giving to darns about what people like Darkfinn, NaughtyAshes, and Diamondback whoever the hecht that is to care about what they have to say or do to my reputation! I came on here to be peaceful and right when I get on Darkfinn wants to act like a jerk and put me down for actions on another site, like I actually care about reputation! You people need to get educated and grow up.If you don't like me, don't post your trash talk and ignore me and for goodness sake stop visiting my profile! I could care less also about my signature size or if people like me. If you want to be immature and get on me go ahead, but I assure you three in particular you will be ignored! Got it? Good!

............I thought this site was for support and getting along. How immature is it for people to gang up on someone. You follow someone that is a........ jerk...... making childish comments. I know this is for people being adult babies but gwenie has been stalked......... and was provoked in all of this. Yes she may of said things but when people use you as a scapegoat......... Yes it takes two to tango but she stopped for a long time not respoding to people but when you keep posting on my threads or her comments ans call her out and insulting her........ with a signature??????? Is that all people have to do with their times say ohhh thats tooo big. I have seen bigger yet no one gets on them. And for those who want to poke a sharp stick at her maybe youd like to know HER GRANDMOTHER IS DYING. !!!!!! Slow and painful since before damn Easter! I dont get mad often but when you are picking on someone that is A disabled and B has someone dying in their family..... makes you lower than scum.... If you dont like her posts DONT READ THEM!!! If you dont like what she says IGNORE HER!!!! The fact is that darkfinn, naughty ashes and others have posted on her posts and mine repeatedly and visited our profiles. I know they will more likely continue and that its easier for people to go with the crowd then to say hey i think you guys are being a little harsh. ( HALF OF THE COMMENTS ON ONE OF MY THREADS WAS JUST ON HOW BIG MY ORIGINAL SIG WAS!!!_ This is for people who are into a life style not a popularity contest..... Those who have been kind haven't found a reason to bash me or her in thank you for acting maturely. And to those who have kindly disagreed thank you for doing so in a mature manner........I hope those who have been causing trouble will be mature but I cant say that because I am not them. We just want to enjoy it here but you can take my rep away all you want......... that doesn't matter to me I just want to be in a place were me and my mommy can express our side.......... that is if people will actually respond to posts..... instead of being instigators. Like I said this doesnt apply to everyone but it those who have done this since we joined. Mommy Gwneiebear..... I love you and just ignore the jerks.

[Okay...Since My And My Ab'S Signatures Were Questioned For Being To Big...]

dude.....

she was only saying she got a new one because you didnt like her other one....why ya'll gotta be all up in her grill fo?! lol

nah but really its not like she was purposely being rude. Reviewing the whole thread it looks as though she was provoked.

I'm jus sayin.....

who gave her two negs for talking about her little mermaid sig?

like....really? really folks? are you that bored?

its just kinda petty imo

Thank you........people have been picking on my mommy since we joined...... if its not her signature its her post. If its not her post people just stalk her site and deduct points for no reason. Thank you and thank you to those who have been kind instead of the people trying to find a scapegoat.... Thank you again.

[Care For An Adult Baby]

Well as we know an adult baby needs to be taken care of just like a real baby would. Wipes, fresh diapers and such. What are the best brands or sites to buy from for lotion, diaper rash cream, wipes, powder and so on.

[How Did You Become An Ab(Or Mommy Or Daddy)]

Im curious of how you all realized this side of you. Whether your a an AB, Mommy,Daddy or supporter. What made you want to explore this side. I believe I already told mine but in a nutshell I told my now mommy I wanted to do this because I felt that my sense of self wasnt complete and that I wanted a more baby type persona. What is your story?

[Pacifiers ,Bottles, And Footie Pjs]

My favorite bottles are the Dr. Browns, the Nuk bottles and the Playtex drop ins. I have pacis but ddo not use them much, I am more of a thumb girl. My daddy/husband bought me some footie jammies for Christmas one year of the internet, and I have a few onsies that I got on Ebay.

Oh the thumb hehe I do that too. Im just going all out to be a baby hehe

[What Is The Best Thing When You Are An Ab(Or A Mommy Or Daddy)]

Well for me its the snuggling and playing with toys. Coloring and such. When you are in that zone, what makes you happiest? What is the best thing(Like I said this is for everyone AB or other wise. Cant wait to hear your thoughts

[Pacifiers ,Bottles, And Footie Pjs]

For the bottle, just go to the supermarket and pick up whatever you figure looks the best!

Then go and buy yourself a Nuk5 paci and most places that sell the nuk5 paci's also sell the same sized bottle nipples!

Thank you. I will look at that.

[Pacifiers ,Bottles, And Footie Pjs]

I still struggle with my lil side, however you can get bottles virtually anywhere and after you get past the What am I doing moment, it's easy. Onsies and Fotties are sold at a variety of places online and your best bet is to just chalk up the dough and get a nuk 5 pacifier. I got most of my gear off of fetware.com

Oh thank you that is a great help.

[Pacifiers ,Bottles, And Footie Pjs]

I wish to dawn the attire of a true baby. The PJs, the Binky, the bottle. And of course the diaper, but Im not sure how to become a baby again. I want to wear the diaper for a while but eventually I want to use it. What is the best way to.... I suppose regress to the point of being able to go in a diaper? Also where would be the best place to get bottles and pacifiers ?

[Being An Adult Baby]

Wow, hope everyone calms down. As an impartial observer allow me to say that the comments about two people being one just sounded like harmless teasing to me. However, if there is a back story I am unaware of I can understand that context is king, so... back to the thread question.

How has it changed my life? For me it is frustrating! I was into some things. Found someone fun and experimental, and then she changed to almost plain vanilla. I love her and don't want to leave her, so now I can't fulfill a whole side of my wants and desires. I come to sites like this, and read posts, make friends, and occasionally have some on-line relationships (don't have one right now, but believe I have one prospect that looks good to me, here's hoping it works out)to get my fix of being "daddy" &/or "Master". Of course most people want the real thing, so my on-line relationships usually end when the person on the other end of the computer finds a live (read in person) daddy. Then even more frustration for what I have lost. Well, I guess putting my needs second and being frustrated is all part of being a good daddy (yeah, that's what I'll tell myself;-)...

I enjoy the questions that you post to the forum...

-MX Gangrel

Again thank you for your great input. I am glad you enjoy my posts.

[Curious If This Is Normal For Being An Ab]

I'm glad you liked my reply. As I mentioned in another thread you started, I like your questions. They are stimulating (I mean mentally!) I hope you find some better roommates....

thank you me too

[Curious If This Is Normal For Being An Ab]

I feel completely the same way. And yes, this seems to be completely normal, thus more healthy (i guess).

Thank you. I guess i just wanted to make sure. Thank you again