i've been in a relationship for two years now with the women i love. i want to spend the rest of my life with her and she feels the same. she doesnt know about my fetish because im afraid to scare her off. we have a very close and open relationship and many times ive felt like i could tell her but chickened out. i want her to know about my fetish not because i want to force her to be involved in it but because its part of my life and so is she and i dont want to feel like im hiding something from her. i love this girl very much, do you think i should tell her and if so how?