I hate to be the bearer of bad news but with a 28 inch waist Underjams still tear way too easily it's not tearing because it stretches...
pampers tried to make it soft... they made it too delicate...as soon as pampers fixes the side issues underjams win hands down...they are sligtly bulkier, much softer just as crinkly and the low cut is so nice for wearing in public discreetly... as for absorbing...underjams does it faster but that's useless when the side tears... if you're curious about trying underjams google free sample underjams...
it takes some time but you dont need to pay pampers money to test their inferior product...
hope that helps