I was able to hold it in place for a good 5 hours today before I finally decided it was enough for one day. My rear is somewhat sore, not only around my anus but also around my tailbone like it's bruised inside, which has caused me to gingerly sit down or stand up tonight. Other than that, so far so good. I don't think I've torn anything, just a lot larger than I'm use to for my skinny frame. Plus the Huse rings are hard plastic and has no give whatsoever. As Creepymouse said, practice makes perfect. I might wait a few days before I make another attempt. I like how once it's in it stays put and I don't want to over do it so much that it begins to slip out. I've been messing around with solid plugs for the past year. And although I did bleed the first few times when I first started, it hasn't happened in a while. I do try to be careful. Unfortunately I think I've lost a little elasticity along the way which could be from too much stretching combined with my age. I'd rather not become permanently incontinent, but it's a risk I guess I'm willing to take. Even after reading other people's posting who have no choice in the matter,and hearing how difficult life is for them. Still, I'm hooked. Plus I like to wear diapers. It's comforting to wear one, whether I actually use it or not. BTW - this is the first time I reached out to anyone regarding my pastime. I appreciate both your concern and advice, thanks. It's nice to be able to talk to other people who have the same interests without feeling weird or ashamed.