[Who Likes To Go Shopping?]

If you're on a tight budget try the thrift stores. Seriously. I have a sissy that bought a wonderful wedding dress for 15.00! He also buys shoes. Of course he's a woman's 10 so its not too hard to find them there.

I'm a bit of a humiliation slut so I love sending sissies shopping with special instructions. I am often on the phone with them and I do talk to sales people all the time. I sent one sissy to a dress shop the other day. He's older, balding, hairy legs. I told the girl to help him pick out a dress and shoes then throw his male clothes away and make him drive home that way. I also told her he was my hubby and cheated on me. They were all too happy to help me teach him a lesson.

[Custom-Sized Sissy Outfits?]

http://stores.ebay.com/BBT-SISSY-CLOSET

she is pricy but very nice dresses.

also

http://www.sissyheaven.com/

or you can do what I make my sissies do, get the Flirty Girl Fitness DVD. It's super sexy and I just love watching my sissies on cam performing Flirty Girl. One of my sissies was on my sissy diet plan and flirty girl and lost 30 pounds in a month. I was so proud of him. Then again he gave me complete control of everything, cummies, food, spending, dressing.

[Diaper Girl At Walmart]

ill be the lone dissenter, you shouldnt talk to her. you should tell me where that store is specifically and ill be there in about 10 hours to talk to her for ya, i got ya covered, so no worries.

lol - funny I bet you would too!

If her diapers are poking out, she knows and wants others to know IMO

[Bisexuality]

That's pretty darned interesting. I am pretty wide open as far as my sexual tastes go, but the way in which I relate to men leads me to be put off by the sight of them in diapers typically. There's just something about the hard and rigid masculine frame that clashes with diapers on an aesthetic level for me. Not only that, but I only rarely find myself feeling a need to be dominant toward men. The kind of affection I feel for men is somewhat selfish in that I don't really want to see them exhibit a lot of weakness. I don't really mean that in the classical sense either. It's not like I would think less of a guy if I he shared his emotions or cried even. Quite the opposite in a lot of cases even, macho men usually come across as insecure and out of control in most cases. I like the guys who don't have anything to prove.

I make some exception for younger guys who haven't fully 'squared out' yet however. Guys that are in their late teens or early twenties that look pretty young still can be cute as submissives to me. It's kinda weird really, I almost relate to them as an entirely different gender than more mature men altogether. Not as women/tg or anything like that of course, but something unique unto itself. There's something about their sense of inexperience and shyness that I really like.

I"m like this too. I am bisexual and naturally alpha. I don't feel dominant towards my women lovers. I have a few bottoms that erotically enjoy role-play but for the most part I am different with women. I enjoy cuckolding so even my bulls, the men I fuck are normally submissive at least in bed. I prefer a nerdy shy submissive guy.

[Hello Mommy Josephine]

So...What are you looking for here?

Learn more, meet friends and have fun. I've already learned so much. It's a great site.

[What Exactly Is A Sissy?]

Ok, the following is not carved it stone but as long as I have been one, this covers it pretty good.

• Sissies ~ Sissy is an umbrella word that originally means young sister. It can be used for affection and friendship for girls. Sissy is used so persuasively it can replace any given name. The actress Sissy Spacek, whose name is actually Mary Elizabeth, is a well known person known as Sissy. Others that thought in a pretty sexist way started using it on guys who they thought were weak because they thought being effeminate is somehow weak but transgender women who love being effeminate turned that around and use it as a compliment for what it should be used as. Like gay people did with queer. Both Transgender women and Non-Transgender women can use it for its original meaning or to say they love being very girly fem or baby girly fem. They take the word sissy as a compliment because lovely feminity is a wonderful thing if thats how someone loves to express themselves as!
• Adult Baby Girls ~ Adult Baby Girls can be any girls that love to be in touch with their inner babygirl. Which can also be called AB or infantilism.
• Sissy Baby Girls ~ Sissy Baby Girls can be any Adult Baby Girls that like to wear uber fem baby outfits.
• Sissy Baby Boys ~ Sissy Baby Boys are almost the simular to Sissy Baby Girls except they identify as males. Sissy Baby Boys often like to express themselves in wonderfully creative outfits spanning both genders, but almost always in childlike styles. They mostly appreciate outfits that are as pretty and feminine as possible while still retaining a "boy" quality, as well as ballet costumes.
• Trangender ~ Transgender It is an umbrella word too that can include anybody with a various gender identity. Like transvestites, transsexuals, etc. Transsexual people are people with a different gender identity that is written on their original birth certificate. Recently scientists have found they are literally born with the brain of the opposite sex (in various ways depending on each individual) that people saw them as before.
• Adult Little Girls ~ Adult Little Girls love to be young girls that are a few years past babies.
• AB Fem ~ AB Fem is a mixture of the love of Adult Babies (AB) and Feminization (Fem)
• Lolita Fashion ~ Lolita Fashion is another word for adults that like to dress as little girls. Especially styles inspired by the Victorian and Rococo period. This meaning is distinctive because it originated from a fashion style in Japan.

Very insightful.

I am often asked the difference between CD and sissy. My answer and opinion is;

a CD enjoys lingerie and feeling feminine. There is no great desire to be female, just feminine.

a sissy is a very animated femme. It is an umbrella, as with most, sometimes inspired by submission, age regression and humiliation.

[Hello Mommy Josephine]

Wow, you're one hot mommy!

<smile> thank you but although hot this mommy has many sides to her personality.

If anyone has questions please feel free to ask here. To answer some private messages-

I was always interested in bdsm-fetish. I sissified and cuckolded my college sweetheart. Later I began doing phone sex as a side job to help pay for college. I really got into it and was further exposed to various roles. I found that sissy and adult baby became my favs and enjoy exploring and learning more about it not only for my callers but my personal preference.

[How Did You Become A Little Girl?]

Same thing here. I have always played the Little Girl as it relates to being and Adult Baby. Sometimes I don play a little older 8-12 without diapers. I don't go for any of the real frilly stuff you see in the Sissy community. Satin doesn't do it for me. I wear regular girls clothes, I try to find stuff in the Juniors departments that looks youngish but sometimes that does not matter (One exception to this is I would love to have one of those Sweet Lolita dresses).

In any case what is new for me now is I think about being a girl a lot lately. I want to go out dressed as one. I don't feel that I AM a girl as a TG would and I don't feel like I belong in the CD group either. Even if I dressed and went out (I would dress age appropriate not in baby stuff) I would still be young inside I just feel like it would be fun wandering around NYC this way. I am not sure what this means and where it is going and I am hoping there are others that have been through this and have some idea of what this is about.

Also I am wondering if anyone knows of a good place to do this in NYC for the first time? Keep in mind I would not go out as a baby/toddler.

I spent several hours on the phone the other day with someone just like you. Clearly wanted to be feminine but didn't feel comfortable in any category or label- CD or sissy. I think its cool to have many aspects and learn how to not only balance them but let them have front stage when the needs arises. Frustration builds from stifling and ignoring. I am a phone sex operator, however I specialize in fetishes-role-play. At least half of my clients are more inteested in talking and exploring the emotional and spiritual aspects of their alters.

Most babies/toddler sissies come out at a young age or start with panties and later regress. I hear this a lot.

NYC is a fun city! New Yorkers are very tolerant of things. You can dress and go almost anywhere. In fact I took a sissy, petticoat and all into a store there. People looked but no one made comments. I love public stuff. what a rush.

[How Did You Become A Little Girl?]

I had the most in interesting conversation with a sissy baby today. I found her to be intelligent, articulate and knew who she was. she spend a good lifetime trying to identify who she was, poor dear, always being labeled as gay or the girlie boy. It was by far the most fascinating conversation I've ever had because she told me about a a man, daddy she had that nurtured the relationship. But to make a long story short, he left her for a woman. I swear to god I cried real tears as she talked about it. This man loved her in diapers and making a mess. He often jerked off in her diapers. they had such a bond and it was so romantic it brought me to tears.

Now she is left longing, in bambinos praying for her next daddy.

[Rhumbas]

I love rumba panties. By far these are my favs. nothing spells sissy baby more than these.

[Hello Mommy Josephine]

Welcome!

Thank you!

[Hello Mommy Josephine]

Just popping by to say hello