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A lot of people on here are 24/7 and I'm curious what all the fuss is about so this weekend when I have the house to myself I'm going to wear Goodnites for a full day, using them for everything. I'll post in a blog the results. I don't believe this will make me want to be 24/7 but I'm curious so I'm giving it a go. Anyone tried this that can tell me what to expect?

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Yeah, used to be a lot more of a thing for me. Now they don't so much turn me on as relax. I wear and use them whereas before I just wore. Little things like that.

There's no way you found DPF in 1997 when you were 12 and are 22 now. That was 13 years ago, so your lying somewhere. Just thought I'd point it out.

Wow, I really didn't mean to start a war on here. All I meant was personally, I find that it's easier to discuss things going on in my life, such as my interest in diapers, as well as other things with people of my own age group. I never said that I couldn't learn something from an older person all I said was for me, I find conversing with someone my age to take away some of the pressure. As for the flame war above, that was part of the point I was making earlier, stupid arguments that don't need to happen, or if you are bent on picking a fight do it one on one. I understand this is a sounding board but how the heck is pulling Wiki facts, clamming them 100% correct, and skewing them to your point helpful? Everyone has an opinion and no one here seems to manage to respectfully disagree with someone. One wrong remark and the whole damn thing comes apart.

However, it was a different era. I just find it easier to discuss my diaper likes and dislikes with someone my own age, or near to it at least.

It's harder to relate.

I just feel that the younger DL's sometimes don't have a place to go without having older onces around who offten act like parents. And I personally would like to have a space where some of the younger DL's could go and not be bothered by older ones. I know, won't happen.

I'm not saying disagreement is a bad thing. But the cut throat way it offten happens on this site is a little overboard. Who cares if because someone likes when their diapers wet and another when its dry that they can't share their experiences without totally ripping eachother apart. This is just an example FYI.

Was just wondering how many people here are like me and think it'd be cool to wear a diaper that is just like a baby's only designed for us in the DL community.

This may be the internet where no one has a real identity and therefore no accountability of their actions but why should that stop us from respecting each other for our own individual diapered interests. Just because we all don't have the same beliefs doesn't mean we can't respect each other. If you disagree with someone just ignore them, it's not that hard.

That's what I don't get, we're a minority in society yet we act like some sort of high school cliche where only people who do certain things with their diapers hold rather vocal opinions on here. Would it kill some of us to start are own thread where we can just talk about what diapers we like, things we like to do in our diapers, and share questions with one another without being torn to shreds by someone who has been wearing since 1970 and thinks that entitles them to a high ranking opinion on this site.

I've been meaning to write this for a while and now I finally have the time for once to write it. Dear DL Community, It seems to me, a rather new addition to the world of wearing diapers, that many of you are overly judgmental even though many judge you for wearing diapers. I have found that many disagree with the way others go about their wearing, what they do diapered, weather they wet, mess, or wear 24/7. We all can't seem to be able to accept that wearing a diaper is different for each person and many try to press their style of diaper wearing on newbies who don't know what they like just yet, it is something each person should be able to find for themselves. It's been hard for me and I'm sure that I'm not the only one, to accept that I sometimes enjoy being diapered. That the desire will come and go and that it is just a part of my life. And I believe that this site does a poor job much of the time in welcoming newbies and allowing them to openly ask questions if they have them. We are all here because we have a common thread, we love our diapers. Why can't we be more welcoming, extend a clean diaper and handshake, and be more civil with one another?

It doesn't feel like it's hurting my relationships. My girlfriend is fine with it and she's about the only friend I have that's close 'cause college makes it hard to keep friends that you had in high school.

So I'm back, hopefully for good this time. But accepting that I'm a diaper lover has been really hard on me and I'd love to have some people to talk to to help me make it through this time. Thanks.

This is another reason, right here. This community is often the most judgemental people I've ever met in my life. I just honestly don't want this to be part of me anymore. And whoever called me youthful you're three years older shut the hell up. I just am so sick of everyone on here telling me how I feel, what I think and applying things that may be how they feel to my situation. The reason I posted this was so that maybe, just maybe, someone would reach out and say they too wanted this to not be in their lives anymore. All of you can have your diaper parties, wet and mess 'til your bowls explode. I. Don't. Care. This was simply meant to be an aid to someone who wanted it not a board for you all to bash how I feel and the fact that for the first time in my life someone was okay with me doing this. However, I no longer want to and I wanted to be supportive to anyone else who had the same desire I do. To leave diapers to babies. Then again I guess it's fitting, one person wants to leave and it's what you all start acting like. I'll be watching this post as I'm sure it's going to explode with this remark or get totally ignored but this is the last time I'll be posting on this site. I honestly don't care what you all think it just really pisses me off that as soon as someone genuenly wants to leave your little diaper club you're all up in arms about it. So screw all of you, you've made it that much easier to want to quit, I have no desire to be associated with the likes of all of you.

I've tried but I just don't like the person I am. I always feel like I'm on the outside looking into a better life I could have. I know it may always be a part of me but there are better things I can do then buy diapers and wet them. It just isn't something I want anymore.

Because I don't like who I am when I wear. I just don't like the feeling anymore. Someone not something filled that void and even though she supported my interest I just don't have a need for them in my life anymore. To the rest of you. Glad to see your all up in arms over something I said was my own two cents, seems as though you all can't stand the thought that someone would want to grow up and move on with their lives because they didn't like the person they were. This was only my own thoughts to someone else who might be looking for help on trying to quit. How about everyone pull their diapers out of their ass and relax.

I'm aware I posted this as a blog so please don't bother telling me. This is just my two cents on the things I believe are helping me quit wearing diapers. I know there aren't many on this site who want to quit but if this helps one person its worth my time to write. I'm aware this may not be how someone else would but it's my own way. Prerequisite: - Make sure quitting is your decision, if it's not then it won't ever stick. - Also if you don't have control over your bladder or bowl you may want to gain that control back. Lest you wet your pants or make a stinky. Step 1: - Get rid of all your diapers. Wear them, wet them, mess them, do whatever you want just get them out of where you live. It may just seem like a purge but you're in it for the long hall so even one diaper could ruin your chances. Step 2: - Try to avoid things that make you think of diapers as much as you can. Even going near the diapers in the store could end in disaster. It's rather hard, I've nearly bought some more than once but if you're invested in this then will power should hopefully get you through. Step 3: - If anyone knows you wear diapers make them aware you're trying to quit so that they can support you during this hard time. Habits can be broken if you try hard enough. Step 4: - Find things to do instead of wearing diapers. Video games, movies, time with those you love. I know all of this can be done diapered but it can be easier if you have something to keep your mind off wanting a nice soft diaper to wet, mess, or just enjoy. Step 5: - Will power. A lot of this is just plan will power forcing yourself to not think about it. That's basically it, I know it's not really helpful but it's how I've been trying to quit. I haven't worn a diaper in over a month as of writing this. I personally wore for a way to relax and unwind. I've just been finding other ways to pass my time instead of putting on a GoodNite and wetting myself. There are other ways to re-leave stress. This is not easy and I knew it wasn't going to be. I wore diapers on and off for almost eight years so to go cold turkey isn't fun but every point I made above helps. So if you have no intention of quitting then don't bother posting your thoughts on here unless they're supportive. I'd be willing to become part of a support network for anyone who wants to quit. Just email me and we can talk about the struggle it is.

Well I have to retract my last post on this thread. I am trying to quit wearing diapers. It's not easy but as cool as my girlfriend is with me wanting to wear diapers, I want to quit. So for me it's time to put the big boy pants on again, toss my dirty diaper into the diaper pail and move on with my life. Hopefully, the next time I see a diaper it'll be on my first born.

Just be careful about it. Do it when your roommates are gone home for the weekend or out and you know when they'll be back. Just be smart.

I can't sleep in a diaper either. Can't get my brain to stop focusing on that and relax enough to sleep.

When I'm wearing I just wet the diaper.

Was just a phase in my diaper life. Now I buy my own.

Never used either. I'm a fan of GoodNites myself 'cause I don't mind the idea of pull-ups. But from what I've read either Tena or Bambino's would be the way to go.