Well, i might not have described our situation in enough detail. I am a very open minded individual and nothing about AB lifestyle makes me uncomfortable. I have fed, bathed, clothed, diapered and changed him. i am a nurse, changing a diaper doesn't bother me and i have experience with bathing and feeding adults. But i don't know how to make him feel like a baby. I don't know how to talk to him. I know know how to change a diaper in an AB fashion. I have some fetishes of my own and i know how frustrating it is to be with someone who isn't into what your into and it doesn't matter how hard they try, they can't do it right. I don't want to be that for him... and when i ask him questions he usually says something like, "no,no you're doing fine." But it doesn't feel like it.