diapergirl marie

Hey! Thanks a lot for the answers! I really started thinking I might be the only dl in this part of the world! @ diaperhenk: actually, your german's quite good! At any rate it's better than my dutch! I can understand a little when I know what the conversation is about, but other than that I'm pretty much lost! Anyways, I don't mind chatting in english, just it feels a little different once you know the person you're talking to isn't living on the other side of the world! So far I didn't buy any diapers either, I just went to different pharmacies and asked for free samples. Whenever I was not the only person in there I pretended to get them for my grandma who recently had surgery and now needs them, telling the shop assistant that we wanted to try the different types of "protection" that exist. That way I ended up having a huge variety of types (pull ups, tena flex, normal diapers, ...) and different brands. Actually I quite enjoy having such a wide range to choose from. A couple of times, when the pharmacy was empty and I was sure there's nobody around who might know me, my family or friends of mine I explained that I recently started to wet my bed. You wouldn't believe how understanding they were, providing me with just what I wanted! But I'd definitely recommend going to pharmacies that are not too close to where you live! After all, gossip is travelling fast! @rob_2e: I as well feel a little strange about wearing diapers, I've been attracted by them for quite a while but thought I'm just weird and tried to push the thoughts away. Right now I wouldn't want to wear 24/7, I consider it to be my private thing and I don't want friends or family to know about it. But at least I can live out my thoughts finally and don't feel like a complete idiot anymore. Do you wear in public, and does anybody know of your dl side? Hope to talk to you two again soon! And to any others who want to join in. You may also write me a personal message if you want! diapergirl marie

Morv, you just said what I was about to say, I totally agree! The direct way is most times the best. Me saying that means quite a lot since I'm one of those stupid girls who usually think you can get a boy to read your thoughts if you only "drop a variety of indecipherable hints", but after all it's not working that well! I wouldn't wait for your gf to bring up the subject. Obviously there's not everything going smooth in your relationship, sounds like there are more things that would need a honest discussion, not only your ab side. Approach her when you both are as relaxed as possible (for me that's usually shortly before I go to bed) and just try to discuss those points matter-of-factly. Make sure you tell the facts that are most important to you, explain your feelings (women like that )and give her the chance to express her thoughts, feelings and fears. Confess how hard it is for you to see her ignoring your needs completely and also how sad you are to see her struggle w/ this knowledge in the way she does. Offer her to ask freely whatever she wants and be honest w/ the answers. You'd be surprised what girls can handle when confronted with problems directly. Just give them the feeling they are involved and that their support is very important for you. Never lie, but make sure she understands the importance your ab side has for you! Wish you luck!

I'm really glad you decided to tell your gf in person, a written message is about the most unappropriate way I could think of! Your gf seems to be a quite understanding person, she might even be a little proud if you "let down your guard" and trust her. Since I'm a girl myself I can tell you that lots of girls would like their boyfriends to confide in them, to show emotions and most of all to be honest, to talk to them freely when there are problems or just things that need to be discussed. After 2 years I guess you know your gf, and I'm sure you wouldn't even be thinking about telling her if you didn't have the feeling she might be able to handle it. Whenever there is something difficult I want to tell my boyfriend I wait till we go to bed. Shortly before we turn out the light I tell him that there is something on my mind that I really need to tell him but that I don't really know how and that I'm afraid how he might react. We both realised at nights we are relaxed enough to cope with whatever problems there might be. It is a time where you usually don't have hundreds of other thoughts in your mind, and after the "cofession" you can cuddle up together and things just don't seem to be that serious anymore. So far this always worked fine for me, maybe it does for you, too! Wish you good luck!

Well, I'm clever enough to put the used nappies in dark plastic bags, but that's not the main problem I have. Thanks for the suggestion with the airfrehener tho, sometimes I just can't think of the simplest sollutions! My main problem: my nosy neighbor. Whenever she puts her stuff in the garbage I know she kinda looks what's already in there. That way she'll notice pretty soon that the amount of garbage I put in doubled, and I'm just afraid she might go and investigate why and what that could be! Once I've thrown away a potted plant because I didn't like it anymore. I put it in a seethrough garbage bag with all the rest of my garbage. She actually went and got it out, now that stupid plant is standing on a windowsill in the staircase! Well, I guess you understand now that my fear is not just coming out of nowhere! And I live in a quiet neighborhood where everybody knows everybody and I really don't want anybody to know my secret, so if my neighbour finds out everybody else will know also. And I can't pretend the diapers are from my grandma or something like that since I'm living here alone, I moved out a few years ago and my family lives about 400 miles away. See the problem? Thanks for all your answers so far, and I'm still happy for any more suggestions you might have to help me! diapergirl marie

So far never wore a diaper outside my own flat. ...till today! Woke up kinda late today, and pretty wet. Realized that I only had 10 minutes till the shop closed and really had to go, otherwise I wouldn't have had anything to eat for today (little explanation: in germany shops are generally not open on sundays, only some bakeries open in the morning hours, so if you need anything, you'll have to go then). Well, that fact didn't give me enough time for a diaper change either! Just jumped in my jeans with my wet diaper and off I went! Ever tried running in a really wet diaper? Gotta try it, feels kinda funny! Gosh, I was so afraid anybody would notice. Don't really think they did, tho. Felt quite good wearing a diaper outside, think I'll do it again. Guess I'll go in a dry one sometime soon, I don't want to have to waddle again, that's just a bit too obvious, I think. After all I'm just doing it for my personal fun and really don't want anybody to notice what I'm doing! diapergirl marie

Hi LightFolf! guess I kinda know how you feel! I'd also love to meet people, but the thougt of anybody expecting me to do all kind of stuff with them scares me. I'd love to just talk about what I feel, what I'm doing all day, just normal things, you know. Sitting somewhere and having somebody to talk to who doesn't think you're all crazy and weird because you love to wear diapers, someone who can understand how you feel. So far I've not found anybody I could tell my little secret except here at dailydiapers. By the way, so far I've only had boyfriends, but had a crush on a girl several times. It never worked out, they only went for boys. Right now there's a close female friend of whom I know she made out with a girl once. I'm quite tempted to tell her I'd love to go out with her, but I'm as well afraid that our friendship might be destroyed that way. Oh, and the thougt of her changing my diaper and putting powder all over my butt is quite thrilling! Gosh, I'm afraid that would be too much for her! See, you're not alone! diapergirl marie

Hi folks! So far I always was too afraid to buy diapers, I just sneaked them from my grandma whenever I got a chance, which, of course, was not very often since I didn't want anybody to know. That's why so far I only knew molicare, which I like, but always wanted to try different diapers. Thanks to your encouraging words in my "I'm new and a bit afraid"-post I went out today and got myself all kinds of different diapers. I still can't really believe I did, but I just walked into some pharmacies and asked for free samples. Best part: they really did give me alot, I now have tena flex, pants, super, euron form, a new supply of different types of molicare and a few more I can't remember now. Gosh, how I'm looking forward to trying them all! I never imagined it would be so easy to get hold of diapers, I really should have tried that earlier! Since I now have quite a supply of diapers that brings me to a question: how can I dispose all those messy diapers without the old lady living in the flat in the basement noticing? Do you just throw them in your trash can?? But then, what about the smell while they are in there? I can't throw them directly into the garbage can outside the house, my neighbour is using that one as well and she's kind of nosy. So, what do you do with them? Help me! diapergirl marie

I was just wondering if there are german guys and girls on this site as well. If there are, I'd love to get into contact!