sweetnewmommy

In my experience...acceptance is a huge factor. I have been involved with someone for almost a year now. He's not just the love of my life, he's my best friend. I found out about his 'lifestyle' when we first started talking. My view then, as it is now with anyone, is...whatever floats your boat. I'm not someone who likes to be judged so what gives me the right to judge others. Could you accept him and this on a daily basis? Are you still comfortable with and around him? I'm sure things are strange but if you really love him, this is something you will get used to. Im sure you will even enjoy it. It takes two to make things work. He needs to be patient with you just as you do with him for when ever your ready to give this a try, if you do. Trust is HUGE. He must really truly care for you to be able to open up to you in such a way. Most people turn their tails and run. For me, I learned everything I could. I read so many articles. Even the stories on this website. I've seen that there are many different wants and needs when it comes to this. Not everyone is the same. Ask a lot of questions. Try to be open minded. How old is his age play? Is this infant play as a boy or as a girl? What kind of things does he like/dislike? Does he just want to role play or does he want a 'mommy'? You may not truly understsnd it but if he's told you this much, you can learn what all he wants and or needs. Things may be strange at first for you if you decide to adventure into this with him. It does get better. I can still remember the first diaper I changed (mind you, I have two children). How clumsy things seemed. The intamcy shared is amazing. I'm not speaking the sexualy aspect. But the two of you will share a bond unlike any other. It's so very special. So very unique! i'd love to help..so if you have any other questions...ask away!

I guess you can say...i've got the best of both worlds. I fell in love with a man. He is my life. Now being a 'mommy' to the infant girl...WOW. it's unconditional. In my short experience, you are absolutely correct! If asked, I don't think there is a word out there for me to be able to describe this. It's just that unique to me. Trust is huge. The life they are sharing with the person is something so kept hidden it seems. I would never dream of hurting my baby in any way and i'm always wanting to make her happy. The openness...well for me...he had to go slow as i knew nothing. As the parent I was willing to try but one needs to communicate likes and dislikes. The love...well...i'm old enough to know from experience what it means and honestly, its a love unlike any other!

I've been visiting this website for a few months now. I can't say how many stories or posts i've read. Every bit of info helped me along the way so my THANKS go out to all those authors!!! This lifestyle is so very new to me. So new, that, I was clueless when I first clicked on the 18 yr old/older icon. I met someone 8 months ago who quickly became my best friend. I knew his lifestyle was unlike anything I have ever encountered but ...I have always viewed things with a 'whatever floats your boat' kind of mindset. If it made him happy and it didn't harm anyone, than who was I to pass judgement? He and I don't live in the same state at the moment and let me just say when he went home....I was devastated. I realized I was in love with a man that I didn't want to spend another day without and this unconditional bond was forming with a baby! A baby so very unique and precious to my heart!!! 8 months later....my boyfriend now has the 'mommy' of his dreams. There is absolutely nothing in this world I wouldn't do for him. There is nothing about him that I don't love whole heartedly! I think in the process of becoming a mommy to a 2yr old lil girl whom I call my princess...Something inside me woke up! Im not a pretty in pink kind of woman nor am I one of those emotional characters. Yet every time we are alone or my mind wanders off....my baby is always pretty in pink and I can't see without the diapers! The love I feel for this one person is unlike any other. It's rare and truly is a amazing! for other new mommies like me...go slow, communicate, and have an open mind. The reward? A love so sincere that it takes your breath away! Just when you think it can't get better??? If you really are with that right person....it gets that much stronger.