Don't know whether this is the right place, but many years ago we (several AB's) went to the Sex Maniacs Ball. A charity ball for various fetishists.
We went wearing our bestest baby outfits.
And I was changed by complete strangers as well as the nanny we took with us.
It is surprising how easy people really are with it.
I believe at least my next door neighbour knows I wear nappies. Neither he nor his wife have mentioned it. And they sign for my Molicare nappies when they are delivered.
No one at work has mentioned anything either.
BJ