Hello Sunshinebright9, I am with my girlfriend for a little over a year. I told her pretty quickly. She tried right away and it sparked her curiosity. She is now regularly in them and we have a lot of fun together with it. ;-) I am living only an hour + away from Wurzburg. What kind of diapers are you guys using? I loved the Bambinos when I was in CA. Unfortunately I left before the Bellissimos came out.