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I was driving a moving van and got stuck in a traffic jam for two hours. I had to go really REALLY bad after the first hour! I knew I had some pull-up style diapers in a duffel in the front seat next to me. While I wasn't going anywhere I managed to pull my pants down, pull up a diaper, put my pants back on (I was nervous about truckers seeing thru the windows) and pee VERY slowly. I was nervous about how much it would hold, as I don't usually pee in my diapers. Everything was just fine, and I was finally able to pull into a gas station and change.

At work. Wearing Depends fitted briefs, size small/medium and boxer briefs over to muffle the crinkle. Over that I'm wearing normal work clothes.

What is a "purposed logo"? A logo with a purpose? I should be a good boy and play nice. I think the word you are looking for is "proposed". I like your logo!

Most people don't NEED to see a therapist. That is a common misunderstanding about the uses and benefits of a therapeutic relationship. In many cases, therapists just provide an outlet for discussion in a confidential setting. I agree it wouldn't be easy to hear "you need to go to a therapist", therefore I wouldn't ever tell anyone that. I was lucky that my wife decided it would be better to consult with a therapist rather than talking with her mother or sister. She was the one who suggested it, and she did it for both of us. I guess this is just more proof of how lucky I actually am! Counseling can be an excellent tool for anyone who needs to understand a problem, but doesn't know where to go. It's a good thing.

Pad, Thanks for starting this thread. It lead me to make my first post, talk with my wife, and come much closer to diaper happiness! Our conversation went really well. I no longer have to ask permission to wear a diaper. She will no longer keep a count of how many are in the house. I can go to the store and buy diapers whenever I want (money permitting). I found out the reason we were uncomfortable was that she felt pressured to participate. I assured her that diapers were my fetish, and that she could participate if she wanted to. Isn't it strange that I felt judged for liking diapers, and she felt judged for not liking them? Once we cleared the air, things were much better. No diapers in the house yet. The store near my house is out of the brand I want. As soon as they get another shipment I'll spend a night warm, padded, comfy, and safe in the arms of my wife. YAY!

I'm so happy that you have been able to consider the advice people have been giving you. I know it's hard when it seems like people are criticizing your belief system. From what I have read, many people have been giving excellent advice. It seems you are moving away from judgment and toward acceptance. I hope that your wife can learn by your example and you can build more accepting relationship with each other, and more importantly, the rest of the world! It is inspiring. My back story... About 6 months before my wife and I got married I came out as an DL. She was terrified, and considered ending our relationship. It was scary for me, but that's exactly why I chose to come out then. Our relationship was strong, but we didn't have a binding commitment. I didn't want her to feel trapped once she had married me, a "freak". It's unfortunate you weren't able to come out earlier, but you seem to be handling it well. Now for my advise... Can you encourage her to speak with a therapist? Would you consider speaking to a therapist? Do it separately, with different therapists, so that you can have an individual experience. Your therapist can help you figure out all the issues going through your mind. Her therapist can help her understand your situation in a judgment free environment. Best of all, no-one you know will ever find out! My wife and I both saw psychologists last year, and we still talk about the things we learned about ourselves. It was all covered by our insurance! I know many Christians will prefer to speak to their pastors for guidance, but that can lead to awkward situations. Many therapists are sensitive to religious beliefs, and may even incorporate some of them into your conversations. I still struggle with the conflict wearing diapers around my wife creates. I still feel judged sometimes. She is trying her best, and I love her more for that. I know in my heart she wants me to be happy. I'm sorry, I won't pray for you. I will think of you and hope the best for you. You deserve it.

I have been married for 2 1/2 years. Before I married my wife I told her about my diaper fetish. She was horrified and briefly considered breaking up with me. Fortunately she realize she loved me enough to accept me for who I am. Since then I haven't felt comfortable wearing diapers around her. I have tried a few times, but I always felt judged. She even tried it once, but it was clear that it wasn't fun for her. I have been miserable, because wearing diapers is a joy for me. Since getting married I haven't been able to enjoy myself freely and openly. Should I suck it up and do what makes me happy, regardless of what it may do to my relationship? Or should I continue putting my wife's comfort before my own? I know what I have to do, but it's really scary.