DiaperDan From Femmedomme

Yeah, I hear you. I'm cheap when it comes to a lot of things as well. Nothing wrong with being cheap. I just kind of figure if you want it badly enough to spend time chatting about it online, it might just be worth treating yourself to an in-person experience with a real flesh & blood partner. For about the cost of a night away and less than a weekend junket you can actually live it as opposed to simply wishing and whacking. But that's just me. DD

It's not luck. I seek out the right pro domme, negotiate and pay for it.

When I do extended sessions, I will frequently pre-negotiate the following scenario. At some point during our play I will be strapped down and gagged and induced to climax in my diapers. And yes, immediately after, my reaction is to want to say "okay, time-out. Lets go have a glass of wine and re-charge". But no. I can't do anything but drool helplessly around my gag as my caretaker changes me and smirks at my predicament. While this is happening, I honestly want it to stop. I feel genuinely embarrassed, and a little ashamed. Not profoundly so, but just enough to be uncomfortable. But she does not unstrap me. She continues to change me. And then I am left for a period of forced confinement in bed; exposed in my diapers; drooling away. It's even worse if she brings in a friend to watch. Unable to plea bargain or negotiate, I can only gaze at her helplessly. And she slips a pear of headphones on and turns out the light. I am alone. Until I recharge...and all hot & bothered again. A wonderful cylce.

Well we're probably hijacking the thread a bit here with a discussion of simulated messes. But if I can just leave you with one word... "cornstarch". Okay, a sentence or two: Put about 1 cup of cornstarch in a soup pan and add about 3 cups of water and turn the heat up high. Stir constantly - I cannot over-stress this: keep stirring as the water heats up. For the first few minutes you'll think "this is stupid. nothing's happening. looks like milk". Then right before it starts to boil you'll see it magically begin to thicken. It usually happens quite quickly at this point. Reduce the heat to low and keep stirring and stirring. It's white and has zeo smell, so if you're looking for some realistic color add some canned pumpkin or marmalaide. But the first time through, just do it straight so you can get used to the sensation and water/cornstarch ration that's best for you. Pour it onto a cookie sheet and allow it to cool. When it's cooled enough to pour down your pants, use a spatula (or your hands) to scrape it all up and place in a large plastic bag. When you're ready, simply pour into your diapers and enjoy. It is an amazingly erotic sensation, and has a consistency that is extremely close to the real thing. Best news is that (a) it does not stain and ( is water-based, meaning it rinses down the tub with nothing but water. As I said, if you're playing with someone else and you want the humiliation of something that looks brown, then experiment with adding some banana (for smell), some mincemeat filling (sold in jars), and/or some really dark marmalaides for added stickiness and a sickening realistic color. I swear...if you were a special effects director doing this for Hollywood, this would be your recipe. Once you use cornstarch, you will never turn back. Diaper Dan

Allen, my friend - If you are not up to stuff being up your butt this is altogether the wrong kind of play for you LOL... But I'm proud of you for giving it a shot. Cheers, DD

That's kind of you to say and a flattering suggestion, DiaperedBaby. But I am quite content to let the good folks at places like DD Forum and FetLife.com do the site hosting for their respective communities. FetLife.com's design provides me with a decent platform for share my writings, reflections and ideas with other members of various Diaper Groups, and I love DD because everyone here is definitely diaper-centric, and that's pretty fun. Cheers, Diaper Dan

Yea...MandyLou... you definitely gotit!! Ride the waves, baby!!! And thanks for the video, ElectTech. Very funny.

This is the kind of subject that very much varies from person to person, but two things work really well for me (I know all to well, because I love both of these items, but I frequently wake up in the middle of the night with a gurgling stomach): * Chicken wings - Take a few packages of chicken wings, place them on broiler pan and bake them at 425 degrees for the better part of an hour. Take them out and dunk them in the sauce that you prepare in the following manner: - two cubes margarine (not butter, but margarine) dropped into a pan; add two bottles of Trappey's Louisiana hot sauce and add tabasco and lemon extract to taste. bring it almost to boil then turn off heat and set it to one side until the chicken is done. Eat this tasty chicken recipe (maybe 20 wings or so) over a nice big bed of white rice. (great with beer). Then put on your favorite diaper and plastic pants. * Dried Apricots - eat a large bag for desert right after the chicken wing dinner above Enjoy!! Diaper Dan

I have to say that I am both amused and flattered to see this topic getting the attention it has. My handle in the community is Diaper Dan (although when I tried to create an account just now, I found that it was taken). I've been sharing it with friends and dommes since the early 90's but first posted this on Femmedomme.com back in 2001 I believe. That's where Protection got the recipe from that he posted here back on 10/3/7. I later became the moderator for the domestic and medical forum on femmedomme.com and revived the thread around this recipe; again, generating lots of interesting responses. In fact, as I browsed through this thread just now, I noticed several very familiar handles. Nice to see you all. Femmedomme.com was abruptly and quite regrettably shut down last Spring (but I swear, my recipe wasn't to blame). I invested so much time and energy into that community over 7 years and was so disappointed to see all of my work (as well as that of a lot of friends) go up in smoke that I haven't been spending much time posting to online sites since then. But I was researching something for a friend just now and found this thread, came in an discovered a whole new audience being entertained by this wholly disgusting stunt. Why you all ought to be ashamed of yourselves. Didn't your mothers ever teach you not to play with food I think it's interesting to notice the shift in people's reactions over time. Most people are appalled (and with good cause) when they first read this. And then...pervs that they are...just can't leave well enough alone and soon find themselves on the bathroom floor shoving mashed 'nana halves up their pipe. I tell you...I still get a lot of emails from folks who have finally worked up the nerve to try this. Some folks fail to follow directions and are possibly a little disappointed, but the vast majority of peeps are blown away by the physical and emotional rush of this. I myself still find the waves of contractions are incredible. Recently I did this one evening, and then lay down on a rubber sheeted bed and put on the Bose headset and listened to Yo-Yo-Ma's latest album. Absolutely surreal. (the banana part too). Anyway, friends... nice to see so many familiar and new diaper pervs all getting along in here. Peace, Diaper Dan