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    Diapered In Public

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    lets be honest here, unless you're trying REALLY hard no one really cares what your ass looks like. XD

    so many people have this imagined trepidation with being diapered in public. 'x was examing my butt as i left', 'a kid gave me this look', 'an elderly woman asked me if i was OK'... these are all things that people probably do to you every single day, regardless of what your underwear choice is. unless there's some external sign like the smell of urine or fecal matter or a significant amount of diaper exposure (like your pants are pulled down below your cheeks or something) there's really almost no chance of someone who isn't already familiar with diapers to pick up on what you're doing. the issue is in your head; its completely natural. its like stage fright. it causes you to be super-sensitive to social cues and over analyze everything.

    it always helped me a lot to remember that if someone called me out about diapers under normal circumstances (not showing off, not messy or strong urine-smelling) chances are they're either in a similar situation or otherwise have an interest. in which case i've just made a friend! :)

    in 3 years of wearing in public occasionally with similar fears, i can tell you that never once have i been 'caught'. i've eaten thanksgiving dinner with my extended family in wet diapers (extremely close proximity, prolonged time). i've gone to the laundry in wet diapers with surrogate mess (oatmeal) in my diapers, with a visible droop in my PJ pants if you really wanted to look at my ass. i've folded laundry with my back/butt to my housemate who was less than 4 feet away in that same condition. i've sat through multiple lecture classes in wet diapers, wetting during class. students were less than 2 feet away from me. i have walked down busy streets and public libraries, campus computer labs, restaurants, in my car with others present... NEVER ONCE was this issue addressed.

    we may hear this deafening crinkle but i assure you there are a billion and three things people attribute that to before they jump to the assumption that "oh, that person is wearing a diaper". clanking keys, rustling pants, other environmental noises, papers in a bag... diapers isn't mainstream enough to even enter the thought process of your average person on the street.

    so dont worry, being paranoid about wearing in public is completely normal. but i cant stress enough that the more you try the more you'll see that people really dont give a f@$%. :)

    wow dude, you win! :thumbsup: great post

    Diapered In Public

    in Diaper Lovers

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    i've worn in public a few times before with great results.

    hell, i even wore once when my brother was home. i had already wet, so the diaper was a bit swollen when he came in. i had to make sure i didnt walk funny, but other than that it went fine. i know if he had noticed anything, he definitely would've said something.

    Leaking While Seated?

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    At the risk of being distastefully practical, perhaps plastic bloomers would work better? Plastic pants have a hem which runs under the hip. This is a hard region to seal. Bloomers protect better by moving this hem down towards the knee. This will keep a fresh wetting from running out behind the hip, and holding it in until it is absorbed. However if it isn't absorbed eventually, it will still run out. For example, if you are wearing bloomers over leaky disposables, the urine will stay in the bloomer, unabsorbed, until you stand up. Then it will try to run down the leg.

    The drawback to bloomers is that they aren't babylike by any measure. They are practical for use when sitting or laying down, but being babylike is more important for some of us.

    hmm... up until this i hadn't even heard of plastic bloomers, i'll have to look into them. i may go with plastic undies though, so i can explore my AB side a bit. or just get both and try it all.

    Leaking While Seated?

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    thank you all for the replies. i have a lot to try next time i wear!

    i havent tried the depends boosts yet, i've only seen them for sale at one store. i know too many people there to buy them. however, i have tried adding another, smaller sized depends into my regular one. that worked great, but added a lot of bulk between my thighs. thats ok if im just sitting around, but walking in it was so difficult it became kind of annoying. i wonder if the depends boost pads have a similar effect?

    i agree that putting a diaper on correctly isnt easy. i've tried several different ways, and had different results each time.

    Leaking While Seated?

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    i guess i could always flood for the first wetting in a diaper, and if it doesnt leak, then i could just go every so often. im sure a depends with some kind of stuffer could handle a decent sized flood, right? at least until i can get some premium diapers to try.

    Leaking While Seated?

    in Product Reviews and Info

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    I have that problem, too. I get awful cases of the leakies. I find that if I don't give it enough time to absorb before I sit or if I have wet a lot, then when I do sit, it leaks. It's not a problem exclusive to cheaper diapers. It happens to me in Abena X Pluses. I always paranoid when I'm out somewhere, diapered, cause I'm afraid I'll leak. Well, it's usually obvious I have a diaper on cause apparently I have a longer than average torso and my shirts usually don't cover the top of my diaper, which is sticking out of my pants.

    Ok, I'm rambly, sorry. My point: I have that issue, too. Don't flood them. That's my advice. Hope I helped.

    glad to see im not the only one having problems with this. however, i am disappointed that it happens to you with premium diapers.

    aside from fixing my leaking problem, i want to find a diaper that i can absolutely flood. really dont know why though. guess that'll have to be just a fantasy though, unless there is some sort of super diaper out there i havent heard of.

    Leaking While Seated?

    in Product Reviews and Info

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    better diapers would definitely be part of the solution, but will have to wait. im too chicken to go to a medical supply store, and i wont order online because i dont know who'd be here when ups would come.

    plastic pants would help too, but i dont think i'll be getting those any time soon either. do the major pharmacy chains carry those?

    i guess for now i'll just have to pee standing up. kinda defeats the purpose of wearing a diaper for me though, as i like to lounge around without getting up. ah well, i guess nothing is perfect.

    Leaking While Seated?

    in Product Reviews and Info

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    so i've noticed the few times a diaper has leaked on me i've been seated. last night it happened really bad, and it was only the second wetting in that particular diaper (depends fitted maximum protection). day before yesterday i was able to pee in one 5-6 times and it still didnt leak. it sure was soaked though.

    am i taping these things on right? each time i've had a diaper leak, it always happens right around where my thighs meet my butt. any help would be greatly appreciated.

    Doubleing Depends

    in Diaper Lovers

    Posted

    i've had good luck with doubling depends using this method: i take a medium depends and cut a slit down the middle of the outside of the diaper. i cut off everything that wont absorb liquid, and place the modified diaper inside a large depends. i then tape on the large, and voila! its a supper diaper. works really well, especially if you like to flood a diaper.

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