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I understand where your coming from on this, Necare, but let me present you with scenario 3 that you have forgotten to mention... Your mom finds out that you have a fetish, and for years is not really able to approach it because, though she is very open minded, you are her son and she did not anticipate something like this being "so close to home". There comes a time that she wants to understand (as it is more than just a sexual fetish to me, so therefore the sole grounds of a sexual fetish no longer apply), however because of the fact I am her son and she is "walking blind" at the moment she cannot talk to me. But...because she wants to understand so she can get closer to me and understand me as a whole person, and not just shunning this out, she asks to talk to someone else who is involved that can help her to understand. That is called taking the time to step into unfamiliar ground regardless of how you feel. I don't mind discussing it with her, personally, but not until she is comfortable with talking to me about it, which will come in time. So what this boils down to is simple... She is a mother who is trying to understand her son, draw closer, and is willing to do what she needs to do to understand in her time and her way. People are not black and white in this world, so different people have different needs according to their comfort level and personality. Sophie, I will also give her a reminder. She's slow responding right now because, as I said before, we have 2 major performances coming up (Talk Like a Pirate Day which is next week Thursday, and also next month we're performing for one of Baltimore's most historic ships...Pride II). She has a great punny sense of humor, and I think you'll like her. She mentioned to me your e-mail, too. Everyone have a wonderful night! Luvs, Your Baby Pirate Boy

thank you very much. that will be very useful. i will pass it on.

Sophie, She should be e-mailing you tonight, as I reminded her that she needs to check her gmail. so plan on receiving a mail from her this evening.

Hey there, I should have mentioned this before...but it may take her some time to respond. The reason being is she's been really busy lately in preparations for our (Pirates for Sail, LLC) Talk Like a Pirate Day performance in Silver Spring, MD. She also has a condition called Fibromyalsia that makes it difficult for her, at times, to be able to sit down and focus. She will get back to you, and I did make sure she knew that there should be an e-mail from you in her inbox. Thank you so much again for that. A little quick blurb explanation on the TLPD bit I said...when I'm not in diapers I am typically doing musical and theatrical entertainment as an 18th Century Pyrate. I, personally, specialize in black powder demonstration/handling, steel-on-steel sword fighting as well as free-style brawling/grappling, and theatrical skit work. Thus a more detailed reason why I like to consider myself a Baby Pirate Boy. For those who might be curious...www.piratesforsail.com is our website. if you go to the crew page my mother is Captain Mad Molly Mudd, and I myself am QuickHands Rob. hehe. Ok...probably a dumb question...can someone clue me in on thorp? I've been curious about that... I do hope everyone is having a wonderful morning this morning. I know I will once I finish some coffee this morning...lol. I will remind her today that she does have that e-mail in her inbox, and encourage her to check it before she gets too involved in rehearsal prep for tonight. Everyone have a wonderful day! Luvs, Your Baby Pirate Boy

Hey all, I appreciate that curiosity. I agree...if us men did behave ourselves it would be much better. It would also look better for people looking in from the outside. Stick together I say, and respect each other and each other's wishes. I haven't really encountered the mis-behaviors of men (of course I'm a man myself...so for obvious reasons...lol), but my guess is there are those guys that are like "why won't women who are into diapers talk to me". I think the first thing to look at is our approach, even under the knowledge of what the women have been through with this. We are a bunch of horn dogs, it's true. But we need to control ourselves...hehe. Sophie, progress reports are perfectly alright me think. She expressed to me, when I told her you would be contacting her last night, that she just doesn't want any conversations posted. I know no one would do that, but just to note it anyways...grin. With CASEC I only encountered one case personally. The National Director I worked with, Dean Winiarski, however had seen more. One major thing he was involved in was the prosecution of the [That OTHER site] owner. Some of you may be familiar with that site. That is a perfect example of why people are able to commit these acts without too much legal opposition so to speak. Most state laws state that if photography of a minor is not a. sexually explicit (according to written law, and not just personal or shared views), and if privates are not exposed, then it is legal. Well...[That OTHER site] violated neither of those, but the implications were there. The FBI wasn't even able to secure the servers because of that. The owner, however, finally saw the wrong that he did (he even had photographers that did custom sets involving minors for those that were willing to pay for them) and actually accompanied the FBI to Michigan where the Servers were and turned the hard drives over himself. Simply because they went to confiscate them and the state turned and said "we understand...we sympathize, but no...no law was broken, so you take nothing out of here". I, myself, was involved lightly in investigating one person. What disturbed me about it was I was investigating a US Navy Commissioned Officer based here in Maryland. Unfortunately I couldn't get much on him cause all his records were highly classified. I think they are a bit more common than we realize because they hide themselves. And I think that's also part of what makes the public more skeptical of us...or at least part of it. But just my opinion. That's the kind of stuff they see. But...in a lighter note...I think that AB/DLs are a fun loving bunch, and really probably some of the kindest people you'll ever meet. We know what it's like to be "set aside" because of who we are, and that helps us to remember not to judge others, and show kindness. It's funny how people involved in...alternative activities can prove themselves the best friends you could have. Thus part of the reason I am happily part of this community. Anyhow, as I am just waking up I'll stop otherwise I might keep going on and on and on. Don't want to do that to you guys. Have a great day, and that ab/dl in the media section (might have the name wrong...but you guys know what area i'm talking about) has some interesting stuff. So have a great day, and stay diapered everyone! Luvs, Your Baby Pirate Boy

Ok...first thing...thank you Sophie. I apologize about the "no need to be your female role" comment, and I will keep that in mind for the future. I will forward her e-mail to you via dailydiaper private message in a moment from the time I'm typing this...hehe. For everyone else... I, by no means (and believe I've said this multiple times), mean to say that people shouldn't be skeptical of me. I understand, and know a bit (though not nearly as much as you guys) what this community has gone through. I knew someone who was developing an organization (and I'm sorry that it didn't take off...as the site is no longer up) called C.A.S.E.C. or Citizens Against the Sexual Exploitation of Children. One of the areas I specialized in was assisting to prosecute people who involve pre-teen girls and boys in the AB/DL lifestyle if you will. I say if you will because I do understand that different people view this in different ways. Although, as I have not been on these boards much at all, I do stress that you guys know alot more than I do about that. The only thing I would ask is give me a chance and feel me out before you come out and say that I'm intending to do this or that. I, for one, believe in respecting people's privacy. I do apologize, though, if I came off too strong. I may have mis-understood people, as I sometimes do. My mother knows about me being a DL because she stumbled upon it long ago. For years she couldn't even speak to me of it in any respect, and it is just recent that she decided she wants to have a better understanding. She prefers talking to someone because she wants to be able to ask questions according to what she does and does not understand, but won't come on a forum such as this to ask because it is too much for her to handle at once. Perhaps she will in the future...perhaps not. We shall see. I, personally, hope she does. I think that talking to diverse people from different walks of life helps to understand things as a whole. I, personally, felt like my intentions were being outright challenged by some...and that was what I didn't take well to. But again...if I mis-interpreted that I apologize. She is one of two family members that know about me and my wearing diapers (my sister being the other...but she has no problem talking to me about it). The reason she won't talk to me, as I said before, is because I am her son and she doesn't feel comfortable with talking to me about it just yet. She has trouble with that...which I can understand. But none the less, my point is this...if you are skeptical of me I would expect nothing less, and considering what this community has been through over time I would be surprised it you weren't. This is my first time posting, and I make my first post by making this request. Just please talk to me in the sense of getting to know me. I think we all can agree that if I was to try and make something up or lie that it would come into the light fairly quickly, as my guess is you guys can tell if someone is being genuine by talking to them. As you said, this forum has seen alot...and the people here as well. That's why I noted in my second post that I saw, at the end of my first post, the e-mail notification and would be keeping an eye on this. But...if anyone has any questions about me, I welcome you to ask. I said in my introduction in the intro area (which I admit I should have introduced myself first, and for that I apologize as well) I am an open book. I don't believe in hiding things from people, as that creates dis-trust. And in this community trust is everything. So with that said, I thank you for your patience with me...hehe...as I guess I'm kinda feeling people out here as well. Thus why I also got a bit defensive. So...now that I have said that...if you have any other questions please don't hesitate to ask, and I do hope to be able to have some good conversations with everyone here as we go. I don't mind earning my trust here, and do look forward to the challenge. Challenges make us stronger, no? So have a great day all, and I look forward to (hopefully) getting to know people here as we go. Stay diapered! Luvs, Your Baby Pirate Boy they call...Robert?

Hey all, Some of you have already seen a few posts from me. For those who haven't, and even for those who have, my name is Robert. You'll often see me sign as "Your Baby Pirate Boy", however, due to the fact I am also an 18th Century Pirate (Improv Actor), and my Mommy got me started on referring to myself as a baby pirate. I've been a Diaper Lover for about 19 years. I've explored the DL life for a bit, and not really sure that I would refer to it as a "fetish" or even an "alternative lifestyle". To me it's just a part of what makes a person who they are, and makes them unique in their own way. I haven't really gotten very much into wetting/messing, although exploring wetting is kind of appealing to me. But I also rent from someone, so keeping some aspects aside for now is also kind of important for me. But exploration into new things comes in time...and I'm sure it will be quite fun to explore...hehe. Other than that I am always looking for new friends to chat with, and am an open book. So if your curious, wanna chat, or whatever the cause I'm always open. But for now that's a bit of an intro about myself, as I'm typically not that great at introductions...lol. So have a great day all, and stay diapered! Luvs, Your Baby Pirate Boy

Sophie, I talked to her about speaking to you. She said that will be alright. As long as I can figure out...lol...sending a private message on here I will forward her e-mail to you via that route. And to those who did not judge or make assumptions thank you very much. And for those of you curious about me and my "validity" I will be, shortly from now, posting more about me in the introductions section. If I seemed strong I apologize, but I just feel that this is a community and a person should not assume that they know what I'm about when they know nothing of me. I am a very open person, and more than willing to validate myself however I must. I understand the skepticism, as I noted several times, and don't blame the ladies on the board. Please understand that I believe very strongly in respecting other people, as the ignorance of some males (i.e. trying to trick females into letting their guard down) makes it more difficult for people such as myself to be able to chat with females as I would males. So yeah...I'll contact you privately through Daily diapers, Sophie. So if you could just confirm that you got this message I'll forward you her e-mail through the private messaging system on Daily Diapers. No need to play a female role, as she knows your a guy. Have a great day, and if I don't hear back from you in the next couple hours I'll go ahead and forward it...I just want to make sure that private messaging you will be alright. Have a great day! luvs, Your Baby Pirate Boy

one note to clarify: me being her son and her hard to accept...clarification would be that she is too close to me to be able to talk to me directly, atleast for now. right now she just needs to understand from someone she is comfortable talking to. if you were in this position, wouldn't you want to talk to someone you feel comfortable with? Thanks.

Everyone, Ok...I understand the skepticism...however I expected a little more of a positive response than this. I will give you that yes, one person's likes may be different than others. And yes I know and understand that there are those horny guys that just want to find a way to get people to drop their defenses. I am not going to go into length to defend myself, or my cause. And really...I will respond to one thing on this in short, despite what I just said about not responding: She cannot talk to me because I am the one that is involved and close to her. She has trouble talking to me because I am her son, and she is finding it hard to understand and accept it. I would think that it would be clear by now that "general information" may not be what she is looking for. That's all I'm going to say on that. Sophie, I will talk to her to see if she minds talking to a guy...especially considering this way not as well received as I thought it might be. Again, I understand the skepticism, but can we try being inquisitive instead of assuming "you've seen it all"? Obviously you have not, as you seem to assume that I am some crazed guy that just wants to harrass people. Perhaps I need to look for someone where this is a little better accepted, as obviously people are being way too quick to pass judgment on me. Being someone who has had little communication with other AB/DLs through forums and such I am not impressed with people's responses here. If you are looking to judge, criticize, or otherwise accuse me of anything please refrain. I did not post this to get flamed. I posted this to help a family member, upon their request, understand the scene as a whole by talking to someone they would be comfortable with. If you can't accept this, please don't post any replies. To those of you who are just reading, or perhaps understanding, I apologize if this seems "aggressive" in any sense, but I just don't like people assuming they know me. Get to know more about me before you assume my intentions. If you think I'm up to something feel free to probe by asking questions...that I don't mind, and am always willing to answer questions whether posted here, messaged to me through dailydiapers forum in private, or by e-mail. Any of those works. For those of you who want to judge me...I'm sorry you feel that way, and I'm sorry you feel that after just 2 or 3 messages you have me figured out. I hope you see, whether now or in time, that you are wrong about me. None the less I wish you all a wonderful day, and hope that some people who are non-judgmental, and are willing to listen post to this thread. Luvs, Your Baby Pirate

Beth, I understand and agree with you. I don't necessarily require that anyone e-mail me, posting on here is just fine with me. I can understand females being on their guard, as I know how aggressive males can be. So let me do my best to answer you questions... The reason she cannot speak to me is because I am, as she put it, "too close to the situation". She wants to talk to someone who is separate from the matter, and can help her to understand better. I would actually give the person who speaks to her her direct e-mail that she asked me to have them contact her at, but I am a bit guarded myself...which is why I asked to be contacted either here or by e-mail first. I, personally, want to make sure that whoever talks to her is someone I am comfortable with (and as of Aug 18 am 29 now...wink wink). I do respect anyone and everyone's privacy here, and actually have my e-mail notification on (which I noticed AFTER writing my first message, go figure...hehe. Pirate?), so I will know quickly when someone responds to me here. So contacted me via e-mail is not needed at all unless you feel comfortable with it. My first priority is the comfort of whomever would talk to her. She is somewhat familiar with AB/DL, but I'm sure you can understand when I say that though she may know the "definition aspects" of the AB/DL community she would want to speak to someone who would be able to give her more personal understanding, and answer questions she might have. As to why she prefers a female...in a more detailed (but assuming, as I have not inquired why...but based on my 29 years of knowing her...) notation: probably the same reason that if I talk to a therapist about my lifestyle I prefer a female...I'm more comfortable with them, and can open up better. If you have any other questions please do not hesitate to ask. Again, I do understand and respect a female having her guard up, as I know you guys have had alot of inappropriate harassment and treatment from male AB/DLs. Oh, and on the other inquiry...she does not come onto this board because it would be too much of an overload. She needs to take it a bit at a time. Do feel free to ask any and all questions you might have for me, as anyone who might assist in this I want to be comfortable with the matter. I wish you all a wonderful day, and once again...stay diapered...hehe. Luvs, Your Baby Pirate

Hey all, Thanks for the quick responses. It needs to be a female because she feels more comfortable talking to a female. I will ask her, though, if a male would be alright Sophie. I do really appreciate you stepping up and offering so quickly. I read some of your posts in the diaper punishment ideas, too...and all i have to say on that...eeeeeeeeeevil. I wouldn't mind experiencing a few of those, though. but yeah... As far as the wikepedia, I believe I gave her that link already. But she needs someone she can talk to who is part of the scene that can help her understand a bit better by answering questions she might have, and just...well...helping her understand that this isn't some <insert derrogatory term here> fetish. Again, thank you to those who have, and to those who will, respond to this request. Everyone have a wonderful day and stay diapered! Luvs, Your Baby Pirate

Greetings All, I haven't really posted on here before...hehe...I'm sometimes a bit shy with other AB/DLs. I have no idea why, to be honest, but yeah. Hopefully this will be the first of many posts on this forum...as I could definitely use more like minded people to chat with. wink wink. This message, though, has a particular purpose... My mother has known that I am a DL for a good bit now (I never really got into wetting and such, mostly just wearing and attraction to females in diapers...but who knows...hehe), but she doesn't really understand it. She expressed to me recently that she wants to understand, but she can't really talk to me, which I understand. I told her I would see about finding someone that might be able to help her understand a little better, and would like to see if any ladies out there would be willing to help out on this one. If so feel free to reply to this message, or e-mail me at quickhandsrob@yahoo.com. The e-mail is probably quicker, but I'll do my best to keep close track here. I would like to find someone, if possible, who might be able to give her a better understanding of what it is to be a DL. I know that's probably redundant...so my apologies but, in this message, we'll have to deal with a bit of redundancy in this message. Anywho, yeah. If any women out there are up for the job please let me know...hehe. It would be nice for her to understand a little better what this is about. Thank you all for reading my madness, and stay dry (or wet if you prefer...hehe). Luvs to all, Your Baby Pirate