[New Nappies Today!]

They look homemade, any idea what diaper they used as a base?

[Woo Hoo, First In Wyoming!]

There's probably only 10 people in all of Wyoming and you're the only AB.

Hugs,

Freta

HEY! There are at least 20 people in wyoming

I am sure there are more AB/DLs here, but I am not exactly sure if they are on DD

[How To Make Biggest Mess In Diaper?]

No, I think that because you'll be ingesting it DIRECTLY into the bloodstream, rather than through the process of normal digestion, it's possible that you'd run into problems with much less alcohol than would normally take to get you drunk.

Good point Rawr; however how much of the alcohol is actually broke down in digestion? Wouldn't this simply be a timing issue? Meaning you should feel the effects MUCH more quickly as it will be absorbed quicker.

I'd suggest steering clear of this altogether. If you want to get drunk... why not just have a drink?

I don't really like that taste Plus I am intrigued by the idea of it hitting that fast, making me lose my adult faculties and be more child like (ironic that alcohol, which is an adult thing, would make one more childish).

If you *insist* that you want to try it, I think you should work up from a very tiny amount - say, half a shot. Have half a shot, wait for an hour, if it's not enough, have another half a shot, wait for an hour. Two shots is a pretty arbitrary amount, and you have no idea how your body will react to that much alcohol instantly hitting your bloodstream.

Agreed, can always add more and better safe than sorry. Out of curiosity where did you come up with an hour? Seems like one should feel the effects way before then (as you feel them sooner than an hour when you ingest). However now that I am typing I assume you are referring to the hour it takes for the liver to metabolize the alcohol?

EDIT: Found this Go Ask Alice article on the subject.

[Woo Hoo, First In Wyoming!]

I always felt like I was the only one in wyoming.....

I am sure there are some in Laramie.

[Irc Chat?]

Me too. Use Google Chrome for anything I don't want popping up by accident!

I didn't think they had released chrome for OSX yet...

There is also another browser, like camino, but it is based on webkit for OSX, can't remember the name of it off the top of my head.

Is the chat on there any good? been a while since I've been on any decent IRC channels...

It is ok, if you are bored. I think it would be better spent time looking for older interesting topics on DD.

[How/when Did You Accept That You Were Into / Wanted To Wear Diapers]

Could you picture Arnold in a wet nappy and baby booties? LOL

I am not sure that would do us much good: <best arnold voice> "I am the diapinator"

[How/when Did You Accept That You Were Into / Wanted To Wear Diapers]

I am glad you find it helpful. The brother to guilt is anger which is also common to our situation. Calvin's theory on anger is that you feel anger when you have been wronged/slighted. So if your family/friends were to shun you then you would feel anger at them (it is still the same you, nothing has changed).

I haven't actually read the book yet, which I regret; however he does have a podcast but it is geared toward professional hypnotists. I am a hobbyist so I enjoy it, but just FYI.

As I was searching for a link to the podcast I found an older podcast of his that looks abandoned but it is an actual secret language of feeling podcast, Here (itunes) it is.

EDIT: Here is the official website. I have downloaded all the podcasts and I am refreshing, good stuff.

[Irc Chat?]

It works fine in Safari, just FYI. Safari 4 is so much faster than Firefox/Camino, I've switched back to it.

I use it normally also. But for things that I want to keep private (such as DD) I use an alternate browser.

[Help Me Make A Fun Experience Funner.]

Are there any kinds of pills that will make my bowels release about 2 1/2 or 3 hours in?

I want to have an accident

You might want to see this thread it has an ongoing discussion on messing your diapers.

[Age/baby Play And The Line....]

I don't think we can provide the justification you are looking for, i think this is something you need to figure out by yourself. All I'm preaching mate is self acceptance. You know you haven't done anything illegal, and looking at AB/DL pornography is not illegal.

Yes I know this. More than anything I just wanted to 'talk it out' Like I have stated several times before I am going in circles. You know how sometimes you can try and explain something over and over to someone and then someone else says something you wouldn't even think of and then it just clicks. A lot of times that click happens after I absorb things people have said and I keep going over and over it in my head.

I thank you all for indulging my circular logic and bumps.

[Age/baby Play And The Line....]

I am a little confused by your response Tris. Are you saying that being sexual with children is normal and we dont do it because it is illegal?

I do not think I would. That is not fair to her, it is not my innocence to take and she is in no position to give it.

What I like are adults acting like LGs, there is a difference [at least in my mind], and I do see a line. However what I am having trouble with is justifying how I feel. What makes me any better than a guy who wants to goto Thailand [as you put it]?

I guess one of the big differences that I see now [by thinking through this reply] is the mindset of LG. I guess it really comes down to an adult that acts (dresses, etc) like a LG. There is a small attitude difference.

I am not sure if this helps my guilt or not, but it is definatley progress. Thank you Tris.

[Age/baby Play And The Line....]

Well put.

@OP: When I thought I wanted to be a daddy, I also went through some guilt over differentiating my feelings about adults vs children, in much the same way you described. You depict a logical line of thought that is very much worthwhile pondering. How is it possible to like the idea of something more than you like the thing itself? In this case, the answer is pretty simple: One's illegal and the other isn't. You probably wanna stay out of jail, so you're gonna go with the safe choice. But, in the back of your mind, only you know what you'd really do. (That can go either way.)

I know what I would (or wouldn't in this case) do. The thing is that I only know this (it is a feeling) and I can not explain why my wife dressed as a LG turns me on to no end, but an actual LG there is pure innocence which I would obviously never touch. I *know* how I feel but I can not describe it to someone else.

Plus what makes me any better than someone on the internet who never actually harms anyone but looks at pictures? Would most people [us included] not classify them as a pervert? How am I different? When one looks exactly (or the goal is to get them as close as possible) like the other (pigtails, clothes, thumb sucking, etc) how can you tell from a picture? What makes me any better?

Again going in circles, thanks for listening.

[Irc Chat?]

there is a diaper chat on irc (irc.diaperchat.org), but i don't think it's associated with this site.

Thanks momma bear, I am connected now

I just prefer IRC to web based

[Irc Chat?]

The chat applet will not work for me (FF on Mac)

I was wondering if there was an IRC option available? It looked like there might be based on port numbers but I don't know the connection information.

Thanks.

[How To Make Biggest Mess In Diaper?]

There's a thread on here somewhere about someone who gave themselves an enema with some kind a spirit (I think). It was fatal.

Edit: It was sherry.

http://www.dailydiapers.com/board/index.ph...l=alcohol+enema

http://www.sfgate.com/cgi-bin/article.cgi?.../a184743D12.DTL

Thank you for the links AutieAB, I was searchign around, got sidetracked by some interesting topics and then your edit showed up in the search results

I would think that [and feel free to correct me if I am wrong here] that it would be damn near impossible to kill yourself if you didn't put in more than you would normally ingest.

I am a lightweight here so I would start with two shots and see how much/fast it affected me.

Obviously I wouldn't put in a whole lot, and I imagine where people get into trouble is that two shots (especially diluted for the delivery) wouldn't seem like that much so people 'add just a little more'.

[If You Became Hitler]

Not all problems can be solved peacefully. There are some people who're so screwed up that they either literally can't be reformed, or don't want to be reformed. To straighten out those people's problems, you'll have to kill them. Exile isn't a solution. It's simply passing the buck to someone else.

So what happens when someone decides that gays are so screwed up that they either literally can't be reformed, or don't want to be reformed? What happens when it is not the gays, but the trans-gendered, or people who don't attend XYZ church, or people who don't give to charity, or people who don't think that XYZ would be a good president, or people that taken medication to make their headaches go away, or (gasp) grown adults who choose to wear diapers?

My [overstated] point is: I think killing them is a little overkill [haha]. Look at Australia. A penal colony and now a major player in the world economy.

[If You Became Hitler]

1. No dropping out of high school and going on welfare. You'd have two options if you drop out: Go to jail or Military service.

Or get a job. I dropped out of high school and [ironically] make more than most of my fellow 'classmates'. However I agree that most drop outs are worthless, just providing the missing option.

3. No druggies or alcoholics. Don't get rid of the people; just get rid of the drugs and alcohol that cause the problems. Do you have any idea how much society pays to rehabilitate people that have abused alcohol or drugs, and how that money could be put to better use than to help people straighten out their lives after THEY MESSED UP THEMSELVES? (Nobody pays for my mistakes except ME)

Statements like this piss me off something awful. Drugs and alcohol do not cause the problems, people do. Just like getting rid of guns will never make anyone safer. Criminals, by definition, already break the law so making laws to stop them makes about as much sense and [something really stupid, GW Bush maybe?]. If you remove the drugs and alcohol then these people will just get addicted to something else? Work? TV? Food? Internet Porn?

4. No more rap music or violent movies. (I know I offended a large number of people on this one, but it isn't necessary to dwell on negative aspects of life in music or cinema--let's spread positive vibes, man!) Don't believe I'm right about unnecessary violence and negativity? Just wait until Hollywood releases a 911 movie showing how "the terrorists could have done it better."

For the record, I am not a fan of rap music; however what ever happened to free speech? Who is to decide what is violent or 'unfit'? And for the record I believe that hollywoods stupid ideas could probably keep us safer than the TSA on their best day.

5. Enforce the golden rule of "Do unto others as we would have others do unto us." Then you probably wouldn't need the other four.

100% Agree. The problem is that people have no respect for anyone anymore. It is always about THEM and never anyone else. We [as a society] have become a bunch of sniveling self centered assholes.

[Got Diapers? Stickers]

i know a LOT of nondiapered folks who would immediately recognize the acronym ABDL. i would never even consider having that acronym on my person.

How do they recognize is? I am intrigued by this.

[How To Make Biggest Mess In Diaper?]

Please remember that whatever you place up your anus into your bowels will be absorbed faster into your bloodstream than if you ate that substance.

I had thought about this... injecting an alcohol mixture to be absorbed by the anus to get you drunk without drinking.

Have others tried this?

[What Liquids Will Make You Pee?]

As some have mentioned tea itself is a diuretic so combined with caffeine and the fact that brewed tea is mostly water that is why tea is so good. Plus it is not carbonated (like soda or beer) it can be put into a bottle.

Coffee obviously works because of the caffeine but it also makes me go #2 if that is your thing.

This is along the dangerous side of things and you can really screw up your body chemistry so BE CAREFUL: I have heard that your body needs a 2:1 ratio to flush exxess sodium from your system. So (assuming your body didn't absorb any of it) you would need to pee two cups to flush 1 cup of salt water. Tastes awful and doesn't work as fast as tea (for me) so I wouldn't recommend it.

[Sex In Diapers]

When you poke a hole in a disposable diaper, the padding is going to come out. I'd be concerned that the padding, which is fibrous and contains SAP crystals, will get into the vagina and possibly be an irritant. It's also going to make a bit of a mess. While I haven't tried it myself (my girlfriend presently has an out-of-sight-out-of-mind view of my diaper interests), I think pulling the diaper aside after loosening the tapes is the better solution.

I have been concerned as the SAP crystals get everywhere and, as we know, react vigorously to moisture.

My wife also gets UTIs fairly easy and I am sure that would not help

[Inside Your Diaper]

does my hand count?

HAHAHAHA!!!!

[Almost A Disaster]

She probably thought that you didn't feel well or something.

Still funny as hell.

[Being A Dl And Pacifiers]

hehe, thats how i sarted out...

Me too. I still consider myself on the DL side of things, but I most definatley enjoy some baby things (footed sleepers, bottles, thumb sucking, etc.)

[How/when Did You Accept That You Were Into / Wanted To Wear Diapers]

I find it interesting the apparent correlation between people who 'discovered' this earlier in life to the guilt factor.

I think that two things are in play here.

1) The age at which our personality is most susceptible we are dealing with this on top of everything else. I have been out of school for awhile, but from what I heard it has gotten worse, not better. All you want to do is fit in or be accepted and then there is this diaper thing in the back of your head that you KNOW sets you apart.

We are taught in every aspect of (American at least) society that you should hide your sexual desires. It comes out on TV that such and such saw a young girl (something we are BIOLOGICALLY programmed to do) and it is huge, such and such is shamed.

Most of us are taught that masturbation is bad (although it has gotten better), and that something is 'wrong' with you if you want/need to do it yourself.

2) There is a book called The Secret Language of Feelings. Basically it tried to detail root causes for emotions and the author (Calvin Banyan) has had some excellent results so I tend to give him credit. Also every time I have attempted to apply his theories they have been successful (for me anyway).

He theorizes that guilt is caused by the inner feeling that you have wronged someone. This is meant to be a very generalized statement so it does not mean that you kicked someone (or some other thing). It is also what your SUBCONSCIOUS (SC) thinks. So.....

Most of us hide this from everyone, friends, family, significant others, etc. These are people that are supposed to be our support and we are hiding this from them. I think this has [and continues to] cause and enormous amount of guilt for us. Especially those of us who are lifestylers, this is who you are so if you are hiding it your SC has trouble with that.

Remember that your SC has no logic (literally) so it doesn't analyze things like: 'Mom really has no need to know about what i do in my bedroom, infact it would probably be in-appropriate for me to tell her' It just 'knows' that [for example] you have always gone to your mom for acceptance and support and now you are hiding it.

I think it gets even more tangled when dealing with SOs. Most of us would feel hurt or betrayed if our SOs kept something this big from us, even if it were not our thing we know we would love and accept them. This translates and combines with our fear in our SC to: 'If my wife divorces me or thinks I am a freak then she really doesn't love ME' and most of us can't mentally take that so we isolate it, which causes more guilt because your SC knows that if it were the other way around (your SO hiding from you) that you would feel betrayed, hence you have wronged them (in your SC's eyes) so you have guilt.

What do others think of this theory?