[Most memorable poop?]

I once did it in a prefold, pins and pull-on plastic pants.  It felt a lot more babyish, but ruined the diaper, so I was one and done with number two in cloth.

[Help with finding the right bottle]

I’ve pretty recently routinely incorporated a pacifier into my baby pretend.  Just love sucking, like on mommy’s breasts, which has got me thinking about getting a bottle.

Here’s what I consider ideal, the wide mouth type, which takes the nipple shaped more like mommy.  Can you help me find?

[What diaper are you wearing now?]

A retro Luvs, taped, but pinned, too, and worn with plastic pants.  About them, I decided to try a pair of high waist, to get the bulkier look I go for. So babyish!

[My mummy put me back in plastic pants.]

Mine uses plastic pants, even over disposables!

[More Babyish: plastic backed or cloth backed?]

On 2/13/2025 at 8:23 AM, bbtwin said:

Plastic backed for me I grew up in them. original pampers from 70s

 

Noisy plastic.  Everybody knows then.

[Vintage Pampers Again]

On 6/26/2025 at 9:30 PM, Crinklebutt1 said:

THIS would be awesome! 

The feeling I get, especially when worn to bed, is total emotional security .

[Sleeping Diapered]

With my eyes closed, how good it feels to be diapered goes way up for me.  And that feeling lasts for eight hours, a third of my life.  For eight hours I’m a baby, with as much to worry about as one, which is to say, nothing at all.

[Frugal or just sick]

Wetting diapers, to the point of saturation, is an expression of masochism. And it’s a very common diaper lover involvement.

As for being frugal, no.  You might have to wet six times before you risk leaking.  Given how long that’s going to take, no, you’re wearing that wet diaper for thrills, not to save money.

As for putting on a wet diaper, I’ve done it countless times.  No, it’s not hygienic, but it lets you indulge in that slightly masochistic act of being in diapers so wet that you feel abused, or possibly in control, of how much abuse your diaper takes.  Everyone’s different.

After, say, four wets, and 24 hours, that diaper will smell some, but sprinkle some baby powder into it, wet it a few more times, then masturbate to the longest, most powerful orgasm you’ve ever had! 😛

[Cribs]

My wife sees me as a big baby, wearing just my diaper, all the time.  There are no secrets or sugar coating it:  I pretend baby and have a diaper fetish.  All good, but when I told her I’d like to build a crib, she said she’d leave.  Obviously, I choose her.

But her reaction really surprises me.  I already sleep in another bedroom, and she absolutely knows I’m in diapers for bed.  Why is adding a crib to the scene so off limits?

[You’ve Been Doing It All Wrong!]

12 hours ago, Little Sherri said:

I guess I could count putting myself in diapers 5.5 years ago as "exceptional"... perhaps "exceptionally weird", but, "normal", it is not. 

What about: I sleep with a pacifier, because not doing so would anger my wife? My wife who, were I to tell her that I was planning to never wear another diaper, would probably say "Phew, thank God that's in the rearview mirror..." But, apparently I "click" my teeth when I'm sleeping. I use a dental night guard but she says that it actually makes the sound worse. Then, I started playing around with sleeping with a paci, and I noticed an immediate correlation with her not elbowing me awake to tell me to stop clicking my teeth (a request which I am incapable of complying with, since I only do it when I sleep). She noticed it too, so from now, until we either get divorced, she goes deaf, my teeth fall out, or one of us dies, I will have adult pacifiers in my bedside table. 

No, that’s definitely unusual:  wife doesn’t like you in diapers, but does like you sucking a pacifier, even if it’s for a good reason.

This is why I’m delighted I finally figured out how to explain my fetish as therapy.  To be precise, the fetish part isn’t therapeutic, just feels AMAZING.  Being diapered for bed, sleeping like a baby, is therapy.  Roughly comparing to what you wrote, my wife likes me diapered for bed, even when it’s just to pretend baby, not for incontinence, but doesn’t want to hear about how how incredible it feels to masturbate.

Additionally, I often wear plastic pants over my pinned Pampers, which isn’t unusual, except, remember, I’m not incontinent, and don’t even wet my diaper on purpose.  I also suck a pacifier, always at ‘playtime’ though, never at night.  Diapered for bed, yes.  Then given a pacifier, no. 

 

 

12 hours ago, Little BabyDoll Christine said:

There is nothing wrong a pair of rubber panties will not fix -- Or ANOTHER pair of rubber panties will not fix: As long as there is a good, full-coverage rubber sheet

WTF is this?!  Please don’t post off topic.

[You’ve Been Doing It All Wrong!]

The title is clickbait, sorry.  Yes, diapers are being worn incorrectly if your clothes or bedding are getting wet.  But, that aside, it’s all good.

 

The subject is really what are you doing, or not, that makes you stand out.  So I’ll go first.

 

 I wear disposable diapers, but pin them as though they were cloth!  But, wait, it gets weirder.

 

 I just wear my diaper, don’t use it, except to go number three.  I’ve got ED at this point in life, but did you know that you don’t need an erection to orgasm?  For that matter, a flaccid penis means that your product gets completely and efficiently absorbed, just like pee.

 

Lastly, I’m not the least bit incontinent, but am always diapered for bed.  Yes, it’s a bit weird to be getting up to go to the bathroom, when you don’t have to.  Like pinning disposables, and not wetting, except for ejaculate!

 

Anyone else doing the exceptional?

[When do you feel most like a toddler?]

On 10/3/2024 at 9:51 AM, 1SissyAlice said:

When I am wearing just a short T shirt, thick diapers and billowy plastic pants with tennis shoes as my outfit in nicer weather.

Those diapers on full display, pleasing all the women, satisfied as they are by checking and changing.

[Diaper Porn]

Does anyone know specific things about the diaper porn industry?  Specifically, I doubt that many of the girls are enthusiasts outside of working hours.  But, if that’s true, I also have a hard time believing they would be fine with servicing this particular kink.  After all, the completely average person immediately thinks the consumer is a pedophile.  Even the ladies who are into BDSM are highly suspicious of ABDL.

There’s one woman, in particular, Apple, who I’m confident is for real, herself into diaperism.  (And she is GORGEOUS to me.)  But I believe the vast majority are just chasing a buck.  Okay, but men dressed as babies is enough to make many women wretch.  So who are they, as in, why is making diaper porn something they choose?

[Is sucking your thumb more babyish than sucking on pacifiers?]

On 5/1/2020 at 5:36 AM, babystevie1987 said:

Pacifier for me. I just can't suck my thumb. I do like seeing girls suck their thumb though.

Same.  Although I used to enjoy pooping in my diaper, and when I did, it just felt so natural to suck my thumb at that point.  I also used to be able to get my wife to suck her thumb during sex, mostly at the time I was about to ejaculate inside of her, but she also sucked a pacifier in those moments.  Either way, I came very hard and made a big mess, which was what got her off.  So everyone was happy, but for different reasons.

 

These days, I’m the one sucking a pacifier during sex (masturbation, actually).  I’m also diapered, have a butt plug up my rear end, and am using a magic wand vibrator up front.  Honestly, it’s the best sex I’ve ever had.  Still contentedly married though, but living like brother and sister, no sex anymore.  But not hiding my diapers either.  Wear them openly all the time.

[Who Masturbates in Diapers?]

2 minutes ago, PuraVidaDip said:

Almost every night! I love the feeling of staying in my diapers after.

That’s interesting.  Most guys take them off right after ejaculating, if not throw everything away in disgust!   I take them off right afterward, but not because I’m disgusted.  They just don’t feel particularly sexy anymore.

[What was the ABDL community like pre 2000's?]

Pre-Internet, I learned I wasn’t the only one in the whole world from a medical school library.  There were a few write up of diaper fetishism in psychiatric journals.  I was also aware of the publication, Diaper Pail Friends, possibly through these scholarly writings again.

[Who Masturbates in Diapers?]

On 10/6/2024 at 10:46 PM, OneChappy said:

It's a big thing to establish with a partner of course and having that avenue established really can open up some exciting doors we'd otherwise be left on our own with. It really clicked for me when my wife and I got into some general discussion about what sort of unique stuff we've liked or experienced intimately. So I just let my diaper secret out then during that sort of "hostage exchange" of secret desires, and it went over just fine. I had her curiosity in fact. I was very afraid to get that out there with her and I imagine that's common with many folks here from what I'm reading.

My wife is sexually vanilla, completely a lady.  Fortunately, she understands that I wear diapers therapeutically, like someone would use a weighted blanket.  I sleep like a baby, literally, even though I’m not the least bit incontinent.  Being diapered in bed feels so secure.  In bed, you feel a lot more, because your eyes are closed.  At that point, it just feels amazing to be diapered, which is also very distracting, so exactly the effect of a weighted blanket.  Diapered in bed, I feel both completely relaxed, and so fixated on my diaper that I’m incapable of negative thoughts and worrying.  I used to wake up frightened with anxiety.  Not a bit anymore, thanks to pretending I’m a baby with diapers.

[Question for you all]

Oh, yeah, that’s a scam.  And adult babies are the perfect mark, too embarrassed to report being victims of crime.

[Messy How Long?]

I would think about going full toddler in my Pamper.  I’ve certainly done it dozens of times over the years.  I stopped though because I can’t enjoy the sensation long enough to make it worthwhile.  I got a painful rash once from pretending that I was being trained, mommy was frustrated, and just let me stew.  Feels amazing, like playing in the woods and not worrying about Poison Ivy. Only later do you kick yourself.

Fortunately, I’ve found something that, for me, replaces the loss, frankly, is even more thrilling.  And that is a butt plug an and masturbating with a vibrator.  I use an older Hitachi with 3x the power of the ones you can buy today.  Just one speed, but you have complete control through the pressure you apply.

I sit on the plug, working it in, and touch my diaper with the magic wand.  I suck a pacifier, look at photos, of me in diapers, and various others, and enjoy some pretend dialogue with mommy, mostly about if I’m allowed to cum in my diaper.

[Who Masturbates in Diapers?]

On 10/1/2024 at 11:51 PM, OneChappy said:

Oh yes. It's not necessary about pain but to humiliate is the goal. My wife will pull my pants down and firmly spank me in my disposable diaper. It has a nice thuddy transfer to it that feels intense and always gets me there. You could call it an effective role play. And I agree, the submissive feeling that brings is a big part of the excitement

I love the idea of women knowing that I’m diapered.  If they know, then they approve, and I feel submissive.  I understand that you can also feel submissive from a spanking.  I would accept one, but mainly on the level that, at that moment, she’s conscious that I’m wearing a diaper, that consciousness translating to approval.  I want her to want me in diapers is the bottom line.😊

[Who Masturbates in Diapers?]

1 hour ago, Little Piglet said:

Most definitely wearing diapers gives one a sense of comfort and a sense of security and you do feel safe. I am so glad wearing for you helps with you anxiety and you can sleep like a baby. There is nothing like sleeping like a baby at night. I literally missed many years of sleeping well at night and like I said at first I chose the conventional way to treat it with two unsuccessful surgeries when all I had to do is start wearing diapers and I would have remedied the situation myself. 

That is really heartbreaking.

My wife has known for 25 years, nearly the entire time we’ve been married, that I wear diapers, to pretend I’m a baby, to address anxiety.  It wasn’t until fairly recently that I understood the trauma I went through—-toilet training that I mistook for mommy distancing herself—-is why I’m ‘desperate for diapers’.  At that point, I told her that I wanted the therapy to include wearing diapers, and just a diaper, in front of her, so that I might benefit from being able to rewrite history, basically get mommy to stop training and continue diapering.

Fortunately, by this time, my wife couldn’t be rattled, even though she’s pretty vanilla.  She absolutely knows that I masturbate in diapers, but was able to understand that being a baby in front of her isn’t foreplay, but another angle from which to attack my anxiety.  But I also see her as my wife in these moments, mostly as we both move about the kitchen getting breakfast in the morning, which is to say that our relationship is now stronger because I’m not hiding, and she’s not ignoring, something that is very unusual, but also very beneficial, similar to medicinal leeches.

[Who Masturbates in Diapers?]

16 hours ago, Little Piglet said:

I am probably one of the only members on here that does NOT masturbate with a diaper or without a diaper on. Here is my reason why. Just over 15 years ago I had a surgery on my prostate because I was going to the bathroom to pee way too often and especially at night. To make a long story short the surgery did not correct the frequent urination issue at all and it also screwed up my ability to ejaculate.

Now I can still get an erection and even reach an orgasm, but the ejaculation from what the Urologist told me instead of expelling itself like every male does it goes back into my bladder and until I urinate it is not a very comfortable feeling at all. So it is not worth it at all for me to even go there anymore. One good thing if there is a good thing from all of this is it keeps me more in tune with my little/toddler side. I am never tempted to masturbate nor even get an erection because it does cause some discomfort. Of course there are times that an erection does happen like when I wake up in the morning and I have one, but that is extremely rare. 

Also the reason I started wearing diapers every night was because of the issue of going to the bathroom frequently. I wish I would have just chosen to start wearing diapers first before I went and had this unsuccessful prostate surgery that didn't work. Wearing the diapers daily over the years have given me so much security and much better sleep throughout the night. 

I’ve begun to wear a diaper to bed, to literally sleep like a baby.  It’s a therapy for anxiety.  For all those hours, I feel super safe and secure, like meditating.  Of course, I turned to such an unconventional therapy because my anxiety, I realized, was rooted in toilet training trauma.  Basically, I mistook training as mommy distancing herself.

It turns out that even my adult anxiety can be addressed through still being in diapers.  If I’d been allowed to wear diapers longer as a child, I would have reached a point where I didn’t confuse training with abandonment.  I’m just wearing diapers longer, even at almost 63, because anxiety is anxiety, on a basic level.  Yes, it came from a mistaken fear long ago, not now.  But effective treatment doesn’t necessarily depend on everything being the same.  That’s certainly what my situation seems to say.

[Who Masturbates in Diapers?]

On 9/14/2024 at 11:52 PM, OneChappy said:

Getting spanked in my diaper always gets me there. That's my favorite DL scenario.

Seriously?  Who spanks you, a woman?  I’m not into physicality, but love how wearing a diaper makes me feel submissive, which wearing just a diaper in the presence of my vanilla wife does very effectively.  Then, when I masturbate, I’m with mommy, who I describe my feelings to and ask if it’s okay if I cum in my diaper if that’s where I end up.  I always get the okay, of course, good to go, because it’s the diaper’s job, she reassures.

[Who Masturbates in Diapers?]

On 9/22/2024 at 10:51 PM, wellpaddedagain said:

I haven’t read all the replies but I’ll just say I absolutely LOVE masturbating in diapers. Favorite way:  pink 6” dildo in my ass, adult sized pacifier in my mouth and my wife’s magic wand on the outside of the diaper massaging my penis. It doesn’t take long and feels amazing!

I could have written what you wrote, including the part about the 6” pink dildo!  I can cum with just the wand, but sitting on a dildo is far sexier.  I call it mommy toilet training me, as I’m very turned on by a woman being involved and in control of the session.

[Anyone Else Making Own Disposables?]

1 hour ago, Rachael-Little said:

When I first wanted to wear as a young teen yes taping two pampers together was the way, they didn’t really fit but I so loved the old style plastic back pampers and how they crinkled. You always knew a child was in a diaper with that sound and now I want others to know if I wear in public which is very rare.

Your very fortunate to have accepting wife. I would love a mommy or daddy to baby me IRL 

My wife is pure vanilla, too.  We had anal sex once, about as adventurous as she gets.  It definitely helps that I am not gratified by peeing and pooping my diaper.  I would, but don’t because of how long it takes to make one of my diapers, as well as cleaning up from a bm in one.  At this point, I’m completely satisfied with just cumming in my diaper, which occurs frequently.  She knows I do this, but it comes across as normal compared to pee and poop, which sounds completely backwards, I know.  On the other hand, I am a grown man, so it makes sense that she would better understand masturbating in a diaper than being a baby in one.  Still, I know I’m very lucky, as she is still quite attractive, for being quite a bit younger than me, and financially completely capable of leaving if she wants to.  She also knows my mental history, prone to anxiety, and that wearing a diaper to bed, sleeping like a baby, literally, is genuine therapy, for me, at least.  This legitimate side to me pretending to be a baby definitely reassures her, keeps her from catastrophizing.  It also really helps that I have absolutely no desire to daddy her.  She’s okay with me role playing, passively involving her, by wearing just a diaper, because that’s clearly part of my therapy.  I also never ask her to pat my butt, change me, etc.  That’s active, and crosses the line.  I do, however, like to ask her, now and again, things like, “I’m still in diapers, aren’t I?”, and to hear her answer that I am, that it’s okay to want to wear diapers a little longer, etc.