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hello again! I'm looking for presents for my gf for her upcoming birthday (21st!) and was thinking of getting her a cute footed sleeper. I have (once, drunkenly) told her about my diaper enjoyment side, though it has never since been brought up (though I do hope to do so in the future) I think she would be OK with me buying her a sleeper, and I don't think she would connect the two together. We live in Czech Republic, and have very harsh winters, and brought up the subject of needing nice warm PJ's for the upcoming winter (it's already starting to drop in temp). She them promptly said she needs a pair of footed PJ's, 'like she had when she was a younger teen' - and went on to describe how much she liked it. So I think I'm safe getting her one. She also loves Disney Characters etc. But here is where I'm not sure what route to take... There are two types of sleepers out there - ones which are 'by adults for adults', in that they're plain, with a zip going up one leg and up to the top. But, there are some out there which may be deemed a bit more babyish, in that they have Winnie the Pooh on it (not a problem) but then has full poppers down the front and along the crotch, just like a baby sleeper would, to help with nappy changes - Like This So, do I play is safe, or just go for it? Either way, i'm going to love seeing her in it - she still sucks her thumb when in her PJ's already, and would be so cute to see her in a sleeper. I guess getting the babyish one, it may be easier to bring up the conversation of nappies with her again, but I don't really want her to think that was my motivation behind getting it for her!

Hello everyone. I'm wondering if anyone knows anywhere online that ships to Europe that sells adult onsies - but plain ones. I need one that could be worn out & about as if it were a normal t-shirt. Ideally round neck as opposed to polo. There used to be a really good eBay seller, based in UK which did all manner of both babyish and 'wear to work' (as they were described) onsies. I've search all over eBay and haven't found anything similar. Any suggestions? thanks!

I totally agree with you Aleia. As it happens, I was browsing eBay for nappies & stuff, and was also, well, disappointed with the regularity 'normal' incon products were marketed as being 'Sissy' / 'Fetish' etc. If someone is into that sort of thing, then they're going to find it just as well by searching 'Adult Nappy' - probably more so, than 'Sissy'. Of course there are some products that really couldn't really be described as anything *but* sissy lol!

Has anyone else seen the new MTV advert? It's on the UK version of MTV that I saw it on, and was actually an MTV branded advert It basically scrolls through though people partaking in various 'interests', such as BDSM, dressing up, latex etc. It's basically an advert promoting the use of condoms, with the tag line 'Whatever you're into, be into condoms' (or something like that!). However, one the the 'interests' it shows is an AB guy in a nappy crawling - (think he was also being whipped!). Just wondered what you all made of it? Nice to see that it's now being 'correctly' viewed as a 'fetish' type thing rather than 'perverted' type thing (if that makes sense?!)

Thanks very much for your thoughts & advice so far. It's all still sinking in that I told her about it, so I expect it must be for her too! With regards to 'what I want from it', well, I don't need to be diapered, and I don't need to be mummied. In fact, I do recall her saying as the time that 'as long as you don't expect me to change you or anything'. Which is fine, would never expect her to, and is actually a good thing, as it shows that she is indeed thinking what I'm thinking. For me, I would be content with being able to wear (and ideally use, though not poop) my nappy - around the house & to bed would do me fine. And would also be happy doing it more as a once in a while thing (I'm so used to it that way now anyway!). So that will hopefully work in my favour should she be interested in learning more about it. Any more that that, and I would be very happy, but it's not what I need to be happy. diaperedkitten3, you raise a very good point - that is, do you chose your partner or nappies. At the moment, I would certainly say I can live without nappies - I've done so for much of my life, but I'm happier with them. But as it stands, my girlfriend makes me much happier (although in different ways!), so that's not really something for me to think about at the moment! Thanks again for your support!

Hello everyone! I'm an in-frequent poster here, so I'll start with a quick background summary.. I'm 23, and since early teens / late pre-teen, I've wanted to wear nappies / diapers. As a teenager, I did so, mostly with drynites etc. Although it started off more of a sexual fetish (DL), it's now more a AB thing, but just nappies, wetting etc, though would like to get into it a bit more. It then stopped for a few years, but in the last couple of years, it's come back with a vengeance. I don't get to partake very often. I live with my girlfriend, who I've been with for over a year. From time to time she returns home for a few weeks (we live overseas) and that period tends to be my only chance to enjoy them. I've been wanting to tell her about it for about 6 months, but just haven't had the balls to do it. Well, the other night, walking back home from a night out, we were both pretty drunk. In fact, I was very drunk, and ended up telling her about it. I explained that I'd had bed wetting problems as a child, which I dealt with by wearing nappies. I explained that over time I became attached to them, and saw them as a source of comfort. Then, just so there could be no question in her mind about what I was telling her, I said that I enjoy wearing nappies 'for fun'. Her reaction was fairly stunned, didn't really know what to say. She asked a couple of questions about it and pointed out that at least we now know each others 'big' secret - I already knew hers (completely unrelated). Now, although we were both drunk, I'm pretty certain she hasn't forgotten the conversation (well, it's not the sort of thing you're going to forget, is it?) but she's not said anything or brought it up since. So I'm just wondering what my next move should be? Should I bring it up again, leave it a while, or should I wait for her to bring it up in her own time? What's your experience in this situation? thanks for your help! me

Yes, but you what else I'd like to see, and i know it's a minor point, but I'd like them to come only folded once - just in half, not twice like most are, so they're packaged like a real baby nappy.

Hi, does anyone have any experience buying from www.saveexpress.de? Just wondering how quick their delivery is & what courier service they use (Shipping to Czech Republic, so it's not a domestic service). I've look at their site, but a lot of the shipping information is in German, which I don't understand much of. Do you know any other online stores that ship within Europe? Thanks

Well surely, for that, you should see your doctor, as that sounds like a problem itself! I generally find that if i drink a *huge* amount of water before going to bed (I'm talking a couple of litres) then I sometimes wet without waking up. If I do wake up, i just let go & as i'm still half as sleep, when I wake in the morning, I still have that 'I wet myself' feeling!

Well done - it takes a lot of gut to tell someone you trust something like that! Hope it all works out ok for you.

I guess if you cooked him dinner & doesn't eat it all - suggest to him that if he doesn't eat all his dinner, he'll have to spent the reszt of the evening in nothing but I diaper. If that doesn't take him by purprise, nothing will Or better still, depending on how you feel about it, when he gets in, be wearing a diaper yourself & ask him to treat you how he wants to be babied.

Hmm, I'll have to remember that - I live in Prague, and it gets very cold here! Was -5 this morning on my walk to work!

Never thought if it that wat! Maybe I'm greedy, but I'll never be able to do it as often as I want to though (24/7/365)

My understanding is that urine is sterile - so it will do you no harm to sit in it all you want. However, poop isn't, and you should avoid sitting in it longer than you really need to!

Well, i dont poop my diaper - done it once & didn't enjoy it much, though may give it another chance. As for pee, I could sit it a sodding wet diaper all day no problem, and the 'warm wet' feeling stays pretty much the same. Does start to get a bit cold, but as long as you keep 'topping it up' - it's fine!

Thanks for the tip! wish I'd seen that place before - would have saved myself a fortune! Ah well. I think I'm going to go for some of the Abri-Let Maxi as you suggest. But could you answer something for me? Are these the type of pads which are designed on their own? ie, do they have plastic backing which needs cutting, or are they desgined to be used as stuffers? Thanks

Hey, if you liked that - you'll love this http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/scotland/glasgo...est/7095134.stm "A man caught trying to have sex with his bicycle has been sentenced to three years on probation." But like a lot of others are saying, it's a matter of 'what ever floats your boat'. I like to think I'm open minded, and provided people are not doing something to harm others (unless they want to be), or involving underage or otherwise vulnerable people, they should be left to it. As for AB/DL - ok it's not somthing you introduce to your partner on a first date, there is a lot worse going on out there! I personally think a lot of the negative image is down to the association of diapers & children, and that it's perverted - but of course this couldn't be further from the truth.

I did want to get some stuffers, but although I'm from the UK, I'm currently living in Prague, Czech Republic - and there is even less available than the UK! I'm having to buy everything from eBay Germany & get it shipped over, and couldn't find any stuffers on ebay

Hi puck, welcome to DD board! I'm new here too, so if you get stuck with anything, I'm probably not the best person to ask! (Though will laways help where I can!)

thanks! I'll be sure to let everyone how I get on. I also think I might tell my GF about it all this week - though will pose it in Past tense rather than present, to test her reaction!

My point exactly. Now you have a use for it!

Thanks for the advice! I don't intend changing tooo often, afterall being in a wet nappy half the fun of it! Plus I'm not yet 100% decided if i'm boycoting the loo alltogether whilst in them - only ever done that once, and it was very smelly & very messy lol, but I might try again see how i feel with it - think it was quite a tight fit last time, and was living with my parents, so the whole experience wasn't too great!

I know there are ways out for for people to identify other ABDL's (Pin flag etc), but how about this one (unless someone already tried it). They say people are carrying mobile phones / cell phones younger than ever, so why should AB's be any different? And what is one feature most mobiles have these days? Bluetooth! So how about everyone pre-fixes their phones' Bluetooth Name with AB - such as mine would be AB-Biggs. Then, when your out & about, think someone might be AB, Use Bluetooth to scan for devices and see what names come up! Just a though, but I've changed mine already!

I’m looking to spend 24/7 (or as near to it as I can) fully in nappies for about 3 / 4 weeks soon. It’ll be the first time I’ve been in nappies for several years, and the first time wearing them for more than a few hours since I was a real baby – and even then they were terry, not disposable, so this will be a whole new experience for my body I’m going to wear them all night, anytime I’m at home, anytime I’m out & about, and intend to try out wearing them to work, but probably wont utilize the added convenience!! (But you never know, might give it go!) I’ve picked out what I think is the rest of the rest when it comes to thick, absorbent nappies: • Pack of Molicare Super Plus (14pc) • Pack of Attends Special Care 10 (14pc) • Pack of Abena Abri-Form X-Plus Air-Plus (14pc) (Didn’t really want the Air ones, but they’re the only ones I can get, so they’ll do!) • Pack of Tena Pants Super (12pc) (For wearing to work) • Plus a couple of what I think are DryNites for Girls – just for fun Plus picking up a pair of plastic pants, powder, wipes etc for the complete experience. Would you consider this to be a good mix? Also, do you think I’ve got enough here to last at least 3 weeks? How often to they need changing? 5 days a week I’ll be working, and as I’ll not be ‘using’ the Tena (until I get home I expect), there are enough of these. Otherwise, how many changes would you have a day? Which of the above are best for…? 1) Nighttime use 2) Daytime at home use 3) Out & About use Any other tips on how to make the time extra special? May even take a couple of pics of me going around Prague in a Nappy!

Yes, I have used goodnites in the past, but with all the cheap beer & food out here I'm not sure I'll get in them anymore ( Depends pull-ups sound like a grand idea & will take a look at them - thanks