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Thanks CBD. Some really good tips there, some I certainly wouldn't have thought of (such as food to eat / avoid

Although my girlfriend now knows about my liking for nappies, it's still in its early days. before telling her, the only time I was able to wear was when she went away for a few days, and usually involved tenas from the local mobility store (they suck!), although managed a few bambinos as well. She is away for a week and a half to visit her parents soon, and I will be making 100% use of this time! Because she knows I'm into nappies, I've been able to order some extra suppies. I've got a big bag of Molicare Mazi - the cloth backed ones, which are OK, and are what I wear at home when she's here. But I've also ordered 10 different nappies from airoliver.de. can't remember them all, but includes Attends Special Care 10 (Used these before and love them!), Abena X-Plus - heard so much about these, can't wait to try them, Lille Supreme - another I've been dying to try for ages - i think the fact they fold in half rather than thirds - like a 'real' nappy, just has some appeal to it! Also got Beesna stretch - which are a 1 tape nappy, Euron nappies, ID, Perfect (these look a lot of fun - quite babyish!) - and some others - can't even remember them all! I've also ordered (and got today!) my first onesie - I can barely wait until next week, but not sure my gf is ready to see me in a onesie, plus waiting till next week will make it more exciting. I need to order some more nappies, as I don't think I'll have enough ( I only ordered 2 x each of the different ones). Not sure which to order, as I'll need to order them before trying out the new ones, but will probably go with x-plus - hear so much about them! I'm also going to try a few new things. I want to try pooping (as per my other thread!). Done it once before, but was YEARS ago, at my parents, and using a drynite. It wasn't a great experience, but am willing to give it another go!. I might also try 'pubic wetting' (without nappy). done this once before, but was very drunk, and don't really remember it. I'll do it when near my home, and dark - but want to do it again! I might, depending on how the other bits go, try pee & poop in public without nappy. Not sure about this one though - we'll see! Again, I wont be far from home when / if I do. Slightly non AB/DL related, but I also want to try a bit of self anal play. Never really done this, other than using a lubbed up toothbrush (I got rid of it after lol!) - but do fancy it. Any suggestions on this? Might pop to the adult store and get a but plug or something! Anyone got any other ideas to try - I'm fairly open minded lol. oh, I will probably get a dummy as well! Like I say - it's going to br a gooooood week and can't wait! But got to wait until next wednesday arrghhh!

No problem, it's great to have sparked such as interesting set of responses!

So is that a saying from Texas or Tennassee?

Wonder what their new product 'coming 15th March' will be? Shame we can't get them in europe anymore

Jeez, US employment right are a little on the thin side! In UK, everyone is entitled to 4 weeks fully paid holiday per annum, and many give more - I get close to 5 weeks. Sick leave is a 'funny' one. My law, after 3 days off sick, you're entitled to 'SSP' - statatory sick pay, which is a rubbish amount, however, most eomplyers give full paid sick pay (well, all companies I work for - and I too work in the retail industry, although I'm no longr in stores). Oh, and our health care is free (and I get additional private insurance paid for by my company) What are these 'personal days'? I've heard of some companies offering 'bed days', which are days where you can simply phone in before work and tell them you can't be bothered to go in - these the same thing? Like you sarah_ab, we're encouraged to take time off if ill - stops everyone else getting it. As for being at work in a restaurant when ill; in the UK, depending on the illness, it's illigal for your employer to keep you at work - same goes for any shop selling food.

I've just had some of the these delivered the other day - can't wait to try them. They are indeed called Perfect. you can get them from airoliver.de http://www.airoliver.de/save/index.php?list=101010 Tell you what though, I first spotted this nappy after seeing on the above site, and was looking forward to trying them, but after seeing these pictures, I really can't wait. Got to wait a couple of weeks though, until my gf goes on holiday for a week, so I can enjoy them properly!

I've enjoyed reading the responses - I'm really looking forward to my week of fun, and am liking the suggestions so far. Are there any 'everyday' items which can act as a laxative? I love overseas and don't speak much of the local language, to trying to explain to the pharmacist that I want a laxative could be tricky

Sorry to go off topic a little, but can I ask something? Several people have mentioned that the OP's mother will likely take him to the doctor and a psychologist / shrink. I'm just curious why one would be sent to a shrink when you have a medical condition. Never really got this whole see a shrink thing.

I have to agree with everyone else. It's not fair (on you, your mother or anyone with a genuine illness) to claim you have an illness you don't just for your own pleasure. Just find a good hiding place or wait until you move out. Sorry it's not the answer you were looking for, but it's not the right thing to do.

Thanks tcc. I'm certainly up for experimenting - hence the post really. Not sure about the banana thing though - I've only 'played' once or twice before, and whilst I would 'go there' again, not sure I'm up to getting a banana in there - and I hate bananas anyway (smell makes me feel sick!). Anyhow, how to you get it up there? Doesn't it just splat everywhere? Really curious now lol!

lol, I know it's an odd title / a bit crude, but didn't know how best to ask, so thought I'd ask it straight! What is the best / easiest / funnest poo when it comes to pooping a nappy? I've only done it once before - a long time ago, but I'm having a nappy week in a couple of weeks (ordered samples of 10 different nappies to play with!) and fancy trying it again. So, is firm poo the best to go with (ie 'normal poo'), or is 'runnier' poo more fun? And if so, how do I best achieve this? Will a laxative sort this out? thanks for your input!

Hello, does anyone know any UK or Europe based online stores which sells plain onesies but not a polo-shirt? I'm after a plain white or blue (or neutral colour) onesie that I can wear to bed! Had a look around & can't find any. Something like these http://store.nexternal.com/shared/StoreFro...CS=acd&All= but UK/EU based. thanks!

Hello. It's been over a month since my last 'update', so thought I'd let you all know how it's going. So, just over a month ago, I had a good discussion with my girlfriend about wanting to wear nappies, and she said she was fine with it. So a couple of days later, i went out and bought a pack of Molicare Maxi nappies. Sadly of the cloth-backed variety, but either them or tenas - and I hate tenas - and they've turned out to be quite comfy! So since then, I've worn many times whilst with her (we live together, but I also have the odd business trip which allows me to wear). The way it's worked out is that I've mostly worn them during my gf's monthly visit. This works out quite well really, as i don't need to wear all the time, and my gf is quite the nympho, so it suits both of us. I've mostly worn at night, although I'm still too nervous to wet at night (don't you just hate wasting a good nappy!) but it's still great to wake up with a nappy on. I would like to start wearing during the day / evening more, but need to wait until my gf is more comfortable with it. She's only actually seen me in my nappy once, as most times I've left the room, changed, and returned in nappy + pyjamas, so she doesn't see it. The other day she did - and I think she wanted to, as she knew I was 'getting changed' (as I've been calling it) into a nappy whilst she was in the loo, but I couldn't find my shorts to put on - turns out she'd hidden them under the duvet. I think she is getting more comfortable with the idea. After the first night, she admitted it 'freaked her out' a bit more than she thought it would, but she seems a lot more comfortable about it now, and perhaps quite curious. I've been keeping the bag in a room we don't really use (office / chill zone), but I've been keeping a couple in our clothes cupboard near my underwear, just so she gets used to seeing them, and means she can have a closer look at them should she wish whilst I'm at work. It has made a few things a little awkward - for some reason, I still can't call them nappies or diapers in front of her - it's just 'my things'. Silly really, and hopefully I'll get more comfortable about talking about them to her. So what next? Well, I'd LOVE for her to want to wear, and would LOVE for her to change me. I don't see either happening anytime soon, but I'm OK with that. I reckon I'm close to getting her to help me put one on, as long as she's not changing me from a wet nappy. My biggest one though is that I'd love to get a onesie. I've wanted one for years and am dying to try it. My gf has already expressed that she isn't keen on the 'baby' side of things. I think this is because she's confused about it (bloody TV shows), but I respect her wishes. I think the way I'm going to approach it, is whilst wearing, comment how annoying it is that they always slip down / don't stay in place, and suggest I get 'one of those t-shirts that does up at the bottom' - and see where we go from there. I'm happy with a plain 'adult style' onesie - anything really! Well, thanks for reading, and I'll try and do another update in the future!

Thanks Flexigirl. I had read that thread. Unfortunatly, most places close at 17:00 or 17:30, so I wouldn't be able to get their before they closed I'll have to see what I can pick up in boots or superdrug, but really don't want tena, so might be out of luck. Never mind.

Hello, I wonder if there is anyone living near North London who may be able to 'hook me up'? Where I live, there is little choice of adult nappies (I don't live in England) - I currently have some clothed backed molicares, which are pretty good, but it's mostly tena here. I am in the UK for a few days on business next week, and wondering if anyone had some decent brands they could sell to me. I'm after something high quality, and super absorbant, such as Bambino (Ideally plain white, due to my gf not being keen on the 'b' part of 'ab'!), Abena X-Plus (never tried, but sound amazing), Attends Special Care 10 (one of my faves), Molicare Super Plus (another of my faves!), or Lille Supreme (Never used these, but am dying to try them!). Or any other nappy which is very absorbant, comfy, and ideally plastic backed!. I generally take a size medium, a I'm about a 34inch / 87cm waist. I'll be staying near St Albans, but will have a car so can probably travel about 30 miles or so from their. I fly in on Wednesday evening (28th Jan, into Stansted), so would ideally like to collect (either from your place, or we can meet somewhere) on Wednesday evening. I don't really need a full pack, and indeed, couldn't get a full pack of 24-30 back with me, but a smaller pack of about 15 I could, or would be perfectly happy with half a dozen or so - anything! I will of course pay full price, plus any associated costs (shipping costs incurred when you purchased) plus a bit on top to say thanks! Please let me know if you can help (here or PM me!) thanks!

Pot calling kettle black

Thanks for everyones responses and kind words. curiositykilledthecat: Telling her again when sober, is exactly what I did the other day - I originally posted this about 6 months ago, as it took me a while sit down and have a heart to heart with her on the subject. dl_aslee: I do think that now she's 'expecting' it, she won't be freaked out by it, but she did mention that it would freak her out if I just got into bed wearing it without her knowing, so I will respect her wishes on that. AZDiapers: I would imagine it's CSI she's seen - sort of show she watches. I will try and watch that show, but in what light does it shoe AB? (positive, negative, neutral) babylin / sarah_ab: I do agree that getting her to read about it online will really benefit her, and should we find ourselves talking about it again, I will certainly suggest it. I am, however a little cautious about pointing her towards this site. I truly value the help & know everyone on this site would offer her, I really do, but it wouldn't be hard for her to find what posts are mine on here, and I've confided in a lot on here in the past, and whilst I don't have a problem with her knowing (much of it she already will), it's not how I want her to find out these things. Well, I also took another step today. I knew my girlfriend would be out the house this afternoon / evening (we live together), so I went to the local mobility store and picked up a pack of molicare super nappies. She tried giving me tena, but I don't get on with the tapes very well, and prefer plastic back to cloth back. How disapointed was I when I got in and found they were cloth backed molicares?! The last time I bought molicares (super plus) they were plastic, but got them elsewhere. So, after dinner, I'll remind her of our conversation, and tell her I went and bought some, and see what happens! All being well, I'll be able to wear one this evening. Wearing to bed or wetting is a doubt, but anything is better than not wearing at all! I'll keep you posted!

Yeah, I was bullied at school a lot. But I used answer back at them, which tended to make things worse, but made me feel better. Why? Heck knows, but I was pretty smart, into computers & stuff, and ... I'm 'ginger' (to be honest, it's more blonde / brown, but a hint of red, and you're doomed!). However, I truly believe I'm a better person now for it, as I'm very tollerent. Not just of people, but of life, situations etc.

When I worked in a bar, we were often asked to dress up for fun. Usually as superheroes or something. for New Year one year, the guys were 'encouraged' to dress as women. so I obliged. But being someone who tries not to do things in halves, decided to go further and wore matching undies too. Not very comfortable mind - they just don't support anything! Other than that, I've not really done any girly stuff. Although when I was a young teen / pre-teen I used to sometimes put on a leatard, usually with a nappy taped to me as well lol. But, something that may be of interest, and can try and find a link if anyone would like me to, but historically, pink was the 'male' colour, and blue the 'female' colour. This was espesially true in young children & babies. This was because pink was seen as a bold colour, likened to red, whereas blue was a softer colour. This was true up until the 1960's really (I think, certianly the early parts of the 20th Century), when it started to go the other way around. When you add to that, the fact that most children including boys were in dresses until they were fully toilet trained - and often even after that - then you had the situation where you had young males running around in pink dresses - and no one battered an eyelid!

Well, I don't know. If my gf suggested it, it would be a tad unfair to straight up turn her down, after how understanding she has been towards the nappies and everything, but I would want to start off with somethng a little tamer than a full blown strap-on I think - it might me a bit of a shock to the system otherwise! But, anal play doesn't interest her in the slightest, in either direction, so dont see it happening

Well, it's been a while now, but thought I would update you on the latest. Although I've been on here a bit, I've been avoiding it intentionally, as I didn't want to 'tease' myself about a lifestyle I've not been able to take part in. So, if you've read any or all of the above, you will see that 6 months ago, I mentioned the whole nappies thing to my gf. Nothing has been said since about it - combination of being too chicken and there being too much has been going on in the last 6 months to get some quality time with her before bringing it up again. Well, I put an end to that last night, and after talking about all sorts of stuff for hours, like talking about our childhoods etc, I asked her if she remembered me telling her about the whole nappy thing, what she made of it and basically how she feels about the whole thing, giving the strong hint that it was something I wanted to 'try out' again. She did indeed remember, and gave the same initial statement as before. I dug a little deeper, as she seemed a little uncomfortable / embarrassed about talking about it, but figured if I didn't, it would be another 6 months until on comes up again. She asked if it was something I wanted to do all the time, which I explained it wasn't, just whenever it was right to do so. She asked if it was a sexual thing, and told her it wasn't (which it isn't really any more) but that it's more a comfort thing. I asked if it was something she had come across before, which she said she had, although only through TV programs (any idea what these could be), and I think it was because of these that she was under the impression that the sexual side of thing and the being babied aspect were one and the same thing, and this was something she was not keen on. I did try and explain the difference between AB & DL, but didn't really want to go too much into it. I did tell her that I'm not looking to be treated like a baby, although in reality, a little babying would be nice - I just want to wear a onesie, be changed once on a while would be amazing, but we'll take 1 step at a time! I did point out that in many ways, me wanting to wear nappies was similar to how she sucks her thumb still, and she agreed, so it was good to have that reference point to infantilism for both of us - that helped a lot. I'm not sure where she stands on the wetting thing though - but suspect she may be a bit weird about to begin with, but hopefully she'll come around to the idea, maybe even suggest it, so it sounds like her idea. Not sure if she'd change me - maybe, again its a wait & see. And of course, (for me) the holy grail would be her trying out the nappies. Not sure if this would ever happen - I guess it depends how comfortable she feels about me wearing them, then maybe I'll suggest it further down the line. So what next? Well, I took much of how the conversation went as an open invitation to go out & buy. I'm thinking, give it a couple of days (so as not to seem too eager!), then bring some home one day. Allow her to see them / look at them and take it from there. She's already stated that just finding me wearing them would be a little weird for her, so I already know not to take that route! Sorry it's a bit long. Just thought it would be nice to share what is hopefully not the ending of the 'story', but just the beginning. I would also just like to add, the members of this forum have been a great help to me over the years (even before I actually joined), and could probably not have got to where I am now without the support & advice I've received here - thank you.

You're joking, right? No? could you perhaps them backup your claim on this? I've just had a look at the UK pampers website. The largest size of ANY nappy is a size 6, which is 16KG+. These are the same sizes used by pampers across europe (I happen to live in Central / Eastern Europe and can vouch for that) I then had a look at the US pampers site, which also supplies a pampers size 6 for 16KG+, but also does a size 7, for 19KG+. So I'm not really sure where you get that impression from. I quick google will show that US & EU potty training ages are pretty much in line. In fact, here is a US - originating article on the matter, and the history of potty training HERE -->Just a quick edit to apologies to the OP for going off topic a bit there. I too am intrigued to know the origins of this nappy - I live in Central Europe and have never seen anything like this, but it looks great!

erm - that's inflation for you. Happens to pretty much all products over time. Either the price goes up, size goes down, or bit of both.

Hello, I live just over the boarder from Vienna, and if it's anything like here (or any of the other Central Europe countries) then you will struggle to find them anywhere other than a dedicated mobility / disability store. Brands tend to be Tena or Molicare, and usually have a good supply in terms of style / absorbency - but here they are only is specialist shops - not even big hypermarkets or pharmacists. Good luck though & do let me know if you manage to find them elsewhere! (Will be visiting Vienna myself at some point soon!)