[Do Not Buy From Drylife]

Hi All

I just want to let you know that it is not safe to buy from drylife , they time and time again do not come up with the goods and make excuses , a friend of mine recentley got his money back , as the company kept on delaying the order , so that is one good thing

cheers

ELO

[Diapered Christian Conclusion]

I wrote a post this past week about Christians having this fetish, and whether it was OK or not. Almost all of the answers I received said it was OK. Very few were only unsure. I listened to what everyone said, prayed a lot, read a lot, and thought a lot. I have come to a conclusion, and I know this is long but PLEASE take the time to read this and consider what I have to say.

A little about myself: I have like diapers for as long as I can remember, and I have tried to stop many times but have not been able to because I didn’t exactly know why I thought it was wrong, so I was always able to convince myself that it was fine. Finally I decided to see what others online said about it, whether it was OK or not. And everyone said they thought it was. But what was I to expect from a bunch of people doing it, that they would think it wrong? Of course not. Honestly, I was hoping to find the truth, one way or the other. However, I was greatly unimpressed by almost every argument I heard. Most of them were very shallow or weak. But many people nowadays look for an argument that sides with what they think or do, so as to justify it. I have been guilty of that myself. But I want more than that. God knows whether we really seek His will and truth or not, so I suggest we really do it. Not just because He knows, but because we are meant to know and love Him, and seeking His will and truth is the only way.

So I did reading and thinking and praying, and decided something. Obviously I have known a lot of this before about sex and sexuality, but this week during prayer it all came together and made sense. Please read it and let me know what you think.

Some people have said that God has more to be concerned about than our choice of underwear. I would agree with this if diapers (for most of us) were only a choice of underwear or a recreation. If you just like wearing them better than using the toilet, or enjoy them like you enjoy recreation (reading, taking walks, sports) then I do not think there is anything wrong with diapers. There is nothing wrong in wearing diapers in and of themselves. But I know that’s not how it is for me. The problem is when they are a sexual stimulant or desire. This is where it matters. So what I am going to be saying is directed toward any Christian, like myself, who get sexually aroused when wearing diapers, or seeing other people wear them, or fanaticizing about them. So, to those who says God does not care about your underwear choice: you are right – unless it is more than just an underwear choice.

As Christians we believe God created humans, man and woman, and he created sexuality and therefore made it for a specific purpose. Sex is a good and wonderful thing. Christianity has always taught this and still does. The reason Christianity seems so concerned with sex is because it’s so good, and therefore needs to protect it and keep it sacred. In our society we have been mislead and taught that we can do whatever we want with our bodies. They are ours and no one else’s. So, when we hear the word chastity we think of it as something bad, and something restricting. It keeps us from being happy and doing what we want – or at least that’s what I thought. But I never really knew what chastity was. Chastity is the “successful integration of sexuality within the person.

[Any Diaper Christians?]

I am a Christian and that is something that makes me want to rethink what I am doing. I am curious if there are other Christians out there who wear diapers who do not see or do see it as a problems that we wear diapers. I do not know the answer to this but would love to hear what others think and dialogue about it. Of course non-Christians are always welcome to contribute also, and if you want we could dialogue about Christianity if you are curious. Thanks everyone!

Hi I think it is very brave to say you are a Christian and you wear diapers I am also a Christian and I have fought and fought for a way not too have this desire , and like some of the other posts I have come to except it as a part of me however I know that the more I desire to wear the more I desire to become incontinent , and thats where I think it becomes a serious problem , because I really want to become incontinent , and that means me changing the way I was made . I have asked the Lord to help me stop , but then I know I need to be willing and without wishing to make excuses , Faith is something I must believe in order to stop these desires , yet I continue to enjoy wearing nappoes to the point that I wear in public , yet I will not wear in church , and also sometimes I feel guilty to the point where I feel I should be punished for this desire it is has become more than a fetish to me .

regards Elo

[Incontinent Desire ?]

I'm with 1repaid:

You shouldn't suddenly be pooping yourself for no reason -- there *is* a reason, and if you don't know it, time to visit the Dr. Reasons can include:

changes in psychiatric drugs

change in diet (like suddenly eating lots of veggies)

trauma (like wrecking a car)

problems in your body, like cancer, etc.

It is for the latter reason that you discuss the situation with your Dr. I'm not sure what the threat level is, but it's worth discussing.

Dill Pickle

Hi

Thank you also for your advise , I do believe I am fairly physically fit , I do not take any tablets , it happened again this morning , but very slowly and in the end I decided to sit on the toilet , I did notice some tension in my stomach , whether this was me trying not to force it I do not know , but I will keep an eye on it , it is interesting that most of the people on this site including yourself try to be unbiased and helpful without judging .

thanks

Elo

[Incontinent Desire ?]

What did you do to have this happen? Anything besides just wearing diapers? Just wondering. Incontinent people (mostly) know at least that they have to go..just unable to do anything about it. Are you saying wearing diapers for the time that you have has caused this???..I would my friend go to a Doctor and discuss this, as I can tell you this is not the Norm...Just say'n.

While everyone is different, I have wore diapers for 30 years and it has yet to happen to me.

Hi

That is a very good question which I am unable to answer , other than I cannot think of anything other than I wear diapers but I am unable to always wear 24 hours , however when I wear 24 hours I can pee up to 15 times in a day or more , but obviously thats not been incontinent , but I Kind of feel if I carry on I can become incontinent , but it does seem strange that my bowel behaves the way it does , well certainly unexpected

Thanks for your concerns if it does continue then I will have to be brave and see my Dr and say that it is real

cheers Elo

[Incontinent Desire ?]

Elo,

I would definitely think about seeing a doc about this. Generally speaking unless you have made a conscious effort to mess over a period of time, your bowel sphincter shouldn't have loosened enough that you would be having full-blown bowel movements with a minimum of effort. Even bladder incontinence takes time and training....just wearing diapers won't do it unless you only use the diaper for your bladder relief over a period of time. If on the other hand you HAVE been messing yourself purposefully for awhile now, it is possible that your body has started to recognize that you are wearing a diaper and that its ok to release. Don't know what to tell you for sure on that route, I've never really messed in my diapers more than once in a blue moon, and never tried to develop any level of consistency in it.

Hi

Thank you for your advice , it happened to me today again , but the interesting thing is that I have not been purposefully messing myself , so maybe I am becoming bowel incontinent , the thing is that was not my intention , and I can not go to my Dr , because I told her that I wanted to be incontinent and to cut a long story short she said fine just make sure I wash my areas when I change my pad , she may not believe me?

regards elo

[Incontinent Desire ?]

Hi

I must admit that I am finding it more and more difficult to resist the urge to wear nappies , in the hope that I will eventually become incontinent , but what I have found interesting that a few times over the last few weeks , I have pooped myself without any effort , and though I do not wish to become bowel incontinent , is this a problem I should get checked out or is it maybe because I am wearing nappies frequently that this is another sign of me becoming incontinent .

cheers elo

[Japanese Diapers]

Tried some of the old links on past threads and some didn't work so I won't point them out....guess google is your friend if someone doesn't have any new info!

Hi

thanks for checking it out it seems the best ones are the most elusive , and the language is definately a barrier

cheers ELO

[Japanese Diapers]

Hi I know I have asked this question before , but why are there not any sites selling japanese diapers and covers well there was one American site but it never has any stock , does anyone out there no where the best place to order these diapers and covers and also where is the best place in japan to get the variety

cheers ELO

[Telling Dr]

Well elo in one aspect of it you did do a good thing by letting the doctor know, in my opinion, for further improved treatment. Your doc. has to be good to say that she couldn't give advice because part if their oath "to do no harm" applies in anything they do. This includes the offering to help you seek psychological advice (but we all know you don't need it right ). Also, on a second thought, that includes the advice to keep stuff as clean as possible.

The other counterpoint to this was what was the point of doing that except to creep out the doctor. However, I also know, they experience a lot more odd and sickening stuff than that.

Overall I'd say you are a brave person def. to tell your doc.

Take it easy elo

Hi

thanks for your honest response but I should point out that what she meant when she said clean was that she excepted that I said I was incontinent and explained that I should change my pad regularly , and wash the areas so no infection happens , the reason she initially offered psycholgical help was if I wanted to change my behaviour, and clearly she saw that I did not , so I know now that when I visit again i can wear a nappy as it is a need for me

cheers ELO

[Telling Dr]

GOOD LUCK!!! I can't wait to hear what he has to say. I know we would love to have my baby incon.

Well I finally plucked up the courage to see the Dr and I explained everything to her , she was very good and said that she could not advise me on how to become in continent but said she can help me if I wanted treatment ie psychology , however she did then say , which was interesting that if I am incontinent that I should make sure to change my pad and keep myself clean .

cheers ELO

[Telling Dr]

Hi and thank you for your comments , I will be seeing the Dr tomorrow to explain that my desire to become incontinent is strong and that can I have help or advise on how to go about becoming incontinent , I am under no illusions that it may not be what I want to hear , but nevertheless , if you do not ask you will never know ,

elo

[Telling Dr]

Hi

I finally plucked up the courage to tell my Dr about my desire to become incontinent , the response I got was fair to say the least , the Dr said did I want to see a psychologist , I said no as the last time I saw them they did not see it as a problem they could help me with , my main question is would it be wrong for me to ask the Dr to help me say to have a catheter put in ? because to me I wouldl ike to experience incontinence temporarily , and then if I am happy with that then seek to go full time .

cheers elo

[Drylife.co.uk]

I have had some problems with the quilty of there onesies recently. They are not worth the money and feel awful and they look nothing like the one's in the pictures.

Hi Baby banker and the rest of the people who commented on drylife

I appreciate the advise , and I think I will stay clear of Drylife

cheers elo

[Drylife.co.uk]

Hi

I was wondering has drylife improved its image , as I read a while ago , not sure if this forum or somewhere else that people had to wait ages for their products to arrive ,. Is this still the case or has anyone out there recentley bought from them ? and the service been prompt

cheers elo

[Hypnosis Does It Really Work?]

Elo:

Drop the guilt...you are not harming anyone by wearing diapers, whether they are clean, dirty, wet, or dry. But the guilt WILL harm your general health and well-being. And you don't need to be incontinent to drop the guilt, either. I'm wet right now, by choice, and I cherish that choice, as do most of the thoughtful members of this DailyDi who are mostly continent. And I feel absolutely no guilt about my choice to wear padding on myself.

I agree with others who tell you to live like you are incontinent for a while if you want to know what it would be like. Wear your diapers, don't pee anywhere else. If you need a reason, it is because I challenge you to do so for a month, and bet (Hmm, what?) that you cannot do so and have it remain fun. If you need a reason for someone else, say you were dared by an incontinent friend you met online who said you have no idea.....I'm sure there's no shortage of incontinent people here who would concur with me.

As for the hypnosis: It will work for you when you feel safe being out and about and peeing in your diapers, not before...and the only way that will happen is if you practice being out and about and peeing in your diapers, which won't happen in your hypnotists office. If you want to keep up the hypnotism, I suggest you find yourself a meditation group and practice with them. I personally have exposure to T'ai Chi (a martial art, practiced in slow motion) and to Mindfulness meditation, (look up www.uvamindfulness.org). They are not bad ways to take care of your mind and body.

There are places I go where diapers would be much more hassle than they are worth: I fell in a stream yesterday while hiking (and I don't like getting chafed in any case), and I would rather simply jump in the river and pee when I'm canoeing...camping is another place diapers would be more hassle than they are worth.

Hi Dill

Thank you very much for your opinion, there is a lot of points , that get me thinking , and I appreciate the pluses and the negatives when choosing this lifestyle

I think that as much of a part of me wants to be incontinent , there is a part that says no and just have it as some fun as you said ,all in all I am confused with this desire , and maybe that is the reason one has to be careful when making a choice , because once you become incontinent by choice it is a lot harder to change , but if it is just fun then you have the best of both , though those people who are incontinent do not have a choice , and I hope that you are not offended by my thoughts on this

cheers

Elo

[Hypnosis Does It Really Work?]

Both babyfur, and BiaperBoyKR are somewhat correct in that hypnotisym can not force you to do something that you do not want, but if you have paid money to get hypnotized, then this diagnosis can not be correct, as it is obviously something you DO want. The problem is that you also have to convince your mind that your body will not be in any danger/discomfort as a result of this - the prime reason that drove you to become toilet trained - comfort / dry warm bed / dry pants etc

To get the hypnosis to work, you have to wear 24/7/365 and use your diapers exclusively. What I mean by this is when you need to evacuate, you do not wait/move/shift your body in any way, you just evacuate and trust that what you are wearing will handle it. This applies to wherever you are/whatever you are doing/what ever you are wearing at the time. With the aid of hypnosis, the body will stop telling you of its need to evacuate, and you will become incontinent only feeling you have wet/messed either during, and later, after the event. Do you REALLY want this?

Hi

Yes I agree with you , I think it is more to do with the fact that if I was incontinent then I would not be lying anymore then again it would be one big lie , because I am not so sure how I could then tell friends that I made myself become in continent so I could justify wearing a nappy

Thanks for your imput and others

cheers Elo

[Hypnosis Does It Really Work?]

I hope you're right about the judgement elo. I am incontinent and many who share my condition get upset when others talk about wanting to become incontinent. Hypnotism for this usually takes many sessions, because you would have to overcome memories buried deep within, memories of mommy's coaching and her pleasure when you mastered potty training. Don't give up on it. HOWEVER! I must warn you that wearing diapers 24/7 isn't all you hope it's going to be.

Hi

Yes I fully appreciate what you say , and that if I was in your position I would be the same , I do not think that the hypnotism worked for me , and I also think that maybe the desire comes and goes depending on my emotions , however it has always been there since I was a child , and I was never really brought up by my Mum as such though she did play a part in my life , all in all I feel comfort wearing nappies , why I do not really know , and given some of the other fetishes or what ever someone wants to call it I am happy with it to a point .

cheers

Elo

[Hypnosis Does It Really Work?]

Where is the guilt coming from?

Hi

I believe the guilt comes from sometimes lying to friends that I wet the bed when infact I do not , and also I am a Christian , and that does play a big part in my life , however I am growing to except it is a part of me , and in so doing I am more comfortable with it , but whether it is right or wrong , I think we all deal with this in our own way , sometimes through circumstances, sometimes emotions, and other times when I for one get sick of it .

Cheers Elo

[Hypnosis Does It Really Work?]

Hypnosis is only as good as you mind will let it be. Some people are by nature extremely suggestive, and those are the ones that hypnosis works on. For the better chunk of humanity, the brain struggles to retain some degree of control that prevents the suggestions from taking root. Basically, the brain realizes that there is an invader and responds to it as your white blood cells do to infections in your blood stream. Hypnosis relies on the power of your brain to make you do what the suggestions tell you to do. However, it works both ways. If your mind is strong enough to force suggestions on you, then it is strong enough to resist the outside suggestions.

That said, if you repeatedly listen to it repeatedly, there is the possibility that you may see some success. But I doubt it would be the full-blown no control that you are looking for. Your body has taken years to train itself to control your bladder and bowel muscles....it will take a similar amount of dedicated retraining to make them reverse course.

In short, hypnosis isnt a quick route from point a to point b. You still have to go through the middle steps. It might shorten the journey or it might not....it all depends on your brain.

Hi

Thank you for your opinion , all in all it gives me something to think about , maybe I should just except that I wear a nappy , and eventually I will be come incontinent

Thanks Elo

[Hypnosis Does It Really Work?]

It could be alot of things. You cannot hypnotise someone if they don't want to be hypnotised or they don't trust you, at least not with out the help of certain drugs. Also you can't hypnotise somone into doing something that goes against their values/beliefs and you cannot hypnotise someone and give them talents they don't have FYI.

Hi

Yes I think you are right in what you say , and I do have a very strong belief system , maybe I am just trying to find a way where it can happen so I do not have to pretend all the time .

cheers

elo

[Hypnosis Does It Really Work?]

You'd be better off spending your money on Doors tapes.

Peace,

Vic

No I think that my brain does not want to agree to wetting , but hey thanks for the tip

elo

[Hypnosis Does It Really Work?]

Hi

I have always had a desire to be come incontinent , and no matter how much I fight it , it gets stronger so I went to an hypnotist who will remain anounymous , and they tried to help me but as yet no succsess , whether the suggestions are not strong enough I do not know , or maybe my subconcious is not willing to allow me to become incontinent .

I think over the years that I have had this desire that I want to become it , and being really incontinent even though it is my choice will help me to feel less guilty and not having to pretend to some people that I wet the bed .

Well thats my feelings and this community I believe is very understanding and not judgemental when passing advise

thanks

elo

[Question]

lil'ricky,

well I guess it all comes from the way someone asks...

basically I don't like posts just saying: "how can I become a bedwetter" or "how can I become incontinent"... but if someone posts his/hers concerns, or has legit. questions / doens't know where he/she stands ... needs some help in a difficult moment or just some input - well that is another story.

and I feel like such a question deserves a honest "non-judgemental" answer.

I often am amazed here how "mature" replies are to some questions - especially if compared to other forums.

Hi Eric D

I do read some of your posts and I find them to be very honest , and to the point , I think with forums like this , most people , including myself are looking for understanding and support in coming to terms with the need to wear diapers , or not as the case maybe , however in my case I am beginning to except my need to wear diapers , though at times I wished I did not have this desire ,

have a good weekend

elo

[Question]

Just a comment: I am very impressed by the responces to your question / dilema Elo. Without passing judgement on either side, I thought the inquiry and advice to be thoughtful and enlightening. Should I ever have a need to explore something personal here, I hope I recieve the same reasoned and non-judgemetal discourse.

Hi Lilricky

I think that sometimes that there is enough problems we all face giving how stressed life is sometimes with work , and relationships , that when you come into a forum like this , you seek understanding and support , and though sometimes people form opinions without even knowing you , you still try to reflect on what they say without attacking them back if poss.

This need of mine to wear diapers has been with me most of my life , and I am trying to except it , which is not easy , as all sorts of thoughts of guilt , shame and ridicule come to mind , but everytime I go out , unless you actually tell someone you are wearing a nappy , they will not know

have a good weekend

elo