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Hi All I just want to let you know that it is not safe to buy from drylife , they time and time again do not come up with the goods and make excuses , a friend of mine recentley got his money back , as the company kept on delaying the order , so that is one good thing cheers ELO

Hi I think it is very brave to say you are a Christian and you wear diapers I am also a Christian and I have fought and fought for a way not too have this desire , and like some of the other posts I have come to except it as a part of me however I know that the more I desire to wear the more I desire to become incontinent , and thats where I think it becomes a serious problem , because I really want to become incontinent , and that means me changing the way I was made . I have asked the Lord to help me stop , but then I know I need to be willing and without wishing to make excuses , Faith is something I must believe in order to stop these desires , yet I continue to enjoy wearing nappoes to the point that I wear in public , yet I will not wear in church , and also sometimes I feel guilty to the point where I feel I should be punished for this desire it is has become more than a fetish to me . regards Elo

Hi Thank you also for your advise , I do believe I am fairly physically fit , I do not take any tablets , it happened again this morning , but very slowly and in the end I decided to sit on the toilet , I did notice some tension in my stomach , whether this was me trying not to force it I do not know , but I will keep an eye on it , it is interesting that most of the people on this site including yourself try to be unbiased and helpful without judging . thanks Elo

Hi That is a very good question which I am unable to answer , other than I cannot think of anything other than I wear diapers but I am unable to always wear 24 hours , however when I wear 24 hours I can pee up to 15 times in a day or more , but obviously thats not been incontinent , but I Kind of feel if I carry on I can become incontinent , but it does seem strange that my bowel behaves the way it does , well certainly unexpected Thanks for your concerns if it does continue then I will have to be brave and see my Dr and say that it is real cheers Elo

Hi Thank you for your advice , it happened to me today again , but the interesting thing is that I have not been purposefully messing myself , so maybe I am becoming bowel incontinent , the thing is that was not my intention , and I can not go to my Dr , because I told her that I wanted to be incontinent and to cut a long story short she said fine just make sure I wash my areas when I change my pad , she may not believe me? regards elo

Hi I must admit that I am finding it more and more difficult to resist the urge to wear nappies , in the hope that I will eventually become incontinent , but what I have found interesting that a few times over the last few weeks , I have pooped myself without any effort , and though I do not wish to become bowel incontinent , is this a problem I should get checked out or is it maybe because I am wearing nappies frequently that this is another sign of me becoming incontinent . cheers elo

Hi thanks for checking it out it seems the best ones are the most elusive , and the language is definately a barrier cheers ELO

Hi I know I have asked this question before , but why are there not any sites selling japanese diapers and covers well there was one American site but it never has any stock , does anyone out there no where the best place to order these diapers and covers and also where is the best place in japan to get the variety cheers ELO

Hi thanks for your honest response but I should point out that what she meant when she said clean was that she excepted that I said I was incontinent and explained that I should change my pad regularly , and wash the areas so no infection happens , the reason she initially offered psycholgical help was if I wanted to change my behaviour, and clearly she saw that I did not , so I know now that when I visit again i can wear a nappy as it is a need for me cheers ELO

Well I finally plucked up the courage to see the Dr and I explained everything to her , she was very good and said that she could not advise me on how to become in continent but said she can help me if I wanted treatment ie psychology , however she did then say , which was interesting that if I am incontinent that I should make sure to change my pad and keep myself clean . cheers ELO

Hi and thank you for your comments , I will be seeing the Dr tomorrow to explain that my desire to become incontinent is strong and that can I have help or advise on how to go about becoming incontinent , I am under no illusions that it may not be what I want to hear , but nevertheless , if you do not ask you will never know , elo

Hi I finally plucked up the courage to tell my Dr about my desire to become incontinent , the response I got was fair to say the least , the Dr said did I want to see a psychologist , I said no as the last time I saw them they did not see it as a problem they could help me with , my main question is would it be wrong for me to ask the Dr to help me say to have a catheter put in ? because to me I wouldl ike to experience incontinence temporarily , and then if I am happy with that then seek to go full time . cheers elo

Hi Baby banker and the rest of the people who commented on drylife I appreciate the advise , and I think I will stay clear of Drylife cheers elo

Hi I was wondering has drylife improved its image , as I read a while ago , not sure if this forum or somewhere else that people had to wait ages for their products to arrive ,. Is this still the case or has anyone out there recentley bought from them ? and the service been prompt cheers elo

Hi Dill Thank you very much for your opinion, there is a lot of points , that get me thinking , and I appreciate the pluses and the negatives when choosing this lifestyle I think that as much of a part of me wants to be incontinent , there is a part that says no and just have it as some fun as you said ,all in all I am confused with this desire , and maybe that is the reason one has to be careful when making a choice , because once you become incontinent by choice it is a lot harder to change , but if it is just fun then you have the best of both , though those people who are incontinent do not have a choice , and I hope that you are not offended by my thoughts on this cheers Elo

Hi Yes I agree with you , I think it is more to do with the fact that if I was incontinent then I would not be lying anymore then again it would be one big lie , because I am not so sure how I could then tell friends that I made myself become in continent so I could justify wearing a nappy Thanks for your imput and others cheers Elo

Hi Yes I fully appreciate what you say , and that if I was in your position I would be the same , I do not think that the hypnotism worked for me , and I also think that maybe the desire comes and goes depending on my emotions , however it has always been there since I was a child , and I was never really brought up by my Mum as such though she did play a part in my life , all in all I feel comfort wearing nappies , why I do not really know , and given some of the other fetishes or what ever someone wants to call it I am happy with it to a point . cheers Elo

Hi I believe the guilt comes from sometimes lying to friends that I wet the bed when infact I do not , and also I am a Christian , and that does play a big part in my life , however I am growing to except it is a part of me , and in so doing I am more comfortable with it , but whether it is right or wrong , I think we all deal with this in our own way , sometimes through circumstances, sometimes emotions, and other times when I for one get sick of it . Cheers Elo

Hi Thank you for your opinion , all in all it gives me something to think about , maybe I should just except that I wear a nappy , and eventually I will be come incontinent Thanks Elo

Hi Yes I think you are right in what you say , and I do have a very strong belief system , maybe I am just trying to find a way where it can happen so I do not have to pretend all the time . cheers elo

No I think that my brain does not want to agree to wetting , but hey thanks for the tip elo

Hi I have always had a desire to be come incontinent , and no matter how much I fight it , it gets stronger so I went to an hypnotist who will remain anounymous , and they tried to help me but as yet no succsess , whether the suggestions are not strong enough I do not know , or maybe my subconcious is not willing to allow me to become incontinent . I think over the years that I have had this desire that I want to become it , and being really incontinent even though it is my choice will help me to feel less guilty and not having to pretend to some people that I wet the bed . Well thats my feelings and this community I believe is very understanding and not judgemental when passing advise thanks elo

Hi Eric D I do read some of your posts and I find them to be very honest , and to the point , I think with forums like this , most people , including myself are looking for understanding and support in coming to terms with the need to wear diapers , or not as the case maybe , however in my case I am beginning to except my need to wear diapers , though at times I wished I did not have this desire , have a good weekend elo

Hi Lilricky I think that sometimes that there is enough problems we all face giving how stressed life is sometimes with work , and relationships , that when you come into a forum like this , you seek understanding and support , and though sometimes people form opinions without even knowing you , you still try to reflect on what they say without attacking them back if poss. This need of mine to wear diapers has been with me most of my life , and I am trying to except it , which is not easy , as all sorts of thoughts of guilt , shame and ridicule come to mind , but everytime I go out , unless you actually tell someone you are wearing a nappy , they will not know have a good weekend elo