Paperboy

What is LTR?

Because you are so young (I say that like I'm not 21), I'd be sure this is a really special person before you go spilling the beans. This is a part of you that only a very special and long term partner should know. Don't be too eager. When it does come time to tell someone, try to muster the courage to deliver the news sincerely, but not as if it is something you are ashamed of. If you are wearing any kind of shame or disgust on your face, she might assume that it is something to be ashamed and disgusted of. One more thought... don't spew out overloads of information all at once. Just start with the important stuff and let her ask questions. The best way to start the conversation might be, "Can I tell you something about myself that I haven't shared with many people...?". Try to resist, "We need to sit down and talk...". Just some thoughts. Haven't had to go through that situation, but that's how I'd handle it.

Thank you, Toddler Sissy, for such a thoughtful post. It does seem like because diapers are such a powerful sexual force in my life, I will have to learn to incorporate it into my relationships in the future. That seems to be the consensus. I think this may be easier for me than for others in that I am strictly turned on by diapers. I feel very little need to engage in additional "baby play". This might make it easier for a partner to swallow, so to speak. Side thought. I often wonder how much simpler all this would be if I met the perfect girl who just happens to have some kind of incontinence problem, even just a night time wetter. They would probably be so much more understanding (or maybe it would have the opposite effect, who knows). Seems like it would be a good match though... a win, win. Too bad they don't have dating sites for incontinent people. BTW, I have accepted this side of me without shame, but it still doesn't eliminate the sexual quandry. Thanks again for all the responses!

Hello everyone, I'm not new here, but I am new to posting. I have some thoughts and questions. Hopefully I can make this potentially long post brief. I've been a DL since my early teen years with my interest in diapers stretching as far back as the age of 7. As I began to sexually mature, I began associating diapers with sexual pleasure. Years of this sexual conditioning has left me utterly turned on by something as silly as diapers. The tragedy is, my "normal" heterosexual desires seemed to be stunted as a result of this whole process. All things being equal, I find myself MUCH more turned on by Diapers than by girls (to be clear, I am heterosexual). In my 21 years, I have had one serious relationship that lasted two years ending when I was 19. While we never had sex (for different reasons), our physical relationship was quite healthy, at least in the beginning. After seven or eight months, I found myself becoming less easily turned on by her. It became a problem towards the end of our relationship when I was rarely in the mood. For me even now, once I am already turned on, I can easily "finish" by the image of a girl. However, it is virtually impossible for me to masturbate to the image of a girl when starting from nothing. I have to first fantasize about diapers. Here's my theory: when I was with my girlfriend, the excitement of being with someone and sharing intimate space with them replaced my need for that initial sexual boost (in fact, for a good year I had forgotten about diapers altogether). However, once I became overly comfortable and used to sharing that space with someone, it was no longer as exciting and I could not get turned on very easily. This has destroyed my confidence and left me wondering if I'll ever find a happy relationship and be married one day. I would love to one day have children and a family, but my sexual desires have become a very large hurdle. I've read about masturbatory reconditioning and it seems logical that it could work. I don't want to cast away my diaper turn ons, but I'd like to share equal attraction to the opposite sex. Can anyone relate to this? How have things turned out for you? What lessons have you learned? Thanks, from a new poster.