DO you know what has caused the loss of control? Could it be diabetes? I have been diagnosed this year with type 2 and the symptom that led to it was weakening bladder. Have had umpteen bladder infections with it. Have started finding that when I stand up in the morning out of bed, I get the urge to pee and it have to hold back as soon as I feel the urine moving along my urethra. Also when I bend to lift the seat or put the bath plug in, I might leak small amounts of urine. Have noticed my underwear has started to smell pissy - hope no one else notices. Is this likely to get any worse, does anyone else have urinary symptoms from diabetes?