Lil' Danny

Update: Me, my g/f, and her friend got drunk tonight. I also took some DXM. ( for those who don't know http://erowid.com/chemicals/dxm/faq/dxm_faq.shtml). Before my g/f was even drunk, we were talking about DXM and maybe all doing it together. My *sober* g/f tells her friend, "It's really fun. You will like it. But we might end up having a threesome, if you're okay with that. I am." So I guess "sex is just sex" really means sex is just sex to her. Later this night, my and my g/f were laying in bed talking. I brought up diapers a lot since I was loose enough to discuss it. At first she said she would never wear one, which I said was fine. (Iwas just glad she was being understanding). Then we started talking about 3somes, swinging, open relationships, etc. That is when SHE made me a deal. If I found a guy to have a 3some (not me doing anything with the guy, tho I might be bi-curious, she just wants 2 dicks) with, she would be my baby for a night. This includes diapers, using them, and most other AB things. But then it dawned on her, we live it a small town, and it might be hard to find someone willing to participate. Plus, I am quite shy and introverted. So I said, "what if you just find a guy to fuck?" This turned us both on, and it is now a done deal. For some reason, the thought of her having a 1 night stand with another guy turns me on. Besides, sex is just sex. And I will get her into a diaper. Tonight is the best night of my life!

Thanks for your insight, dave. I know that she may not really mean what she said about "it's just sex", but I also don't plan on acting upon it. I could never have sex with anyone else without her also involved, such as a threesome or swinging. But I am beginning to think that she is becoming more open-minded. BTW, she's told me she's into BDSM, though she has never tried it. Maybe I could incorporate diapers into that?

Which is what worries me. At times, she can be closed minded, while at other times not. But I think she is starting to open up a bit. She used to be very jealous, but just a month ago, she told me, "Sex is just sex. I don't mind if you fuck somebody else, as long as you come back to me." (which I think hints at an open relationship, though I have never acted upon this.) But don't own any diapers. I am too paranoid to buy any, since I live in a very small town. But, I can *barely* fit into White Cloud size 5 diapers. So maybe I should buy some large size pull-ups (since everyone will think there are for a child and not me), get her used to those, and maybe order some diapers of the net? Also, my profile says I am an adult baby, which is only partly true. I do enjoy the baby side, but I think I would get just as much, if not more, pleasure from babying her. And, yes it is sexual, but it is also more than that. And thank both of you for your help. But I am still open to any other suggestions.

Oh, I've already told her long ago that I would try any sexual kink she might have, no matter how wierd she thought I would think it was, as long as it wasn't illegal (e.g. pedophilia or necrophilia, I could NEVER do those). On a side note, she talked about getting both of these "babyish" pieces of clothing: http://www.venusfashions.com/details/1/181...rl-Costume.html http://www.jumpinjammerz.com/default.asp?s...me=Jumpin+Ducks So maybe she has an AB in her after

I was listening to an internet radio station when Steve Vai came on. It was a song of his called "Blow Me Where the Pampers Is". It's not much of a song, less than a minute long I think. It it only has 6 lines of lyrics, which are spoken. Here they are (the L means lady and the S means Steve): L: Can you blow me where the pampers is? S: Huh? L: Can you blow me where the pampers is? S: Huh? L: CAN YOU SHOW ME WHERE THE CAMPUS IS? S: Oh...yeah. Not much of anything, I know, but I just thought I would post it any.

Reading this topic, I was going to post the Missy Elliot f/ Ludacris song. Also in that video, I believe Ludacris is pouring milk from a U-shaped bottle onto a woman's stomach. This may have been mention before, but has any seen the video by Bad Ralph titled "Shoot the Shit (Let's Begin)"? It is about 7 yrs old, but it played on MTV a few times. It is full of AB girls doing what ABs do. If you haven't seen it, go to MTV and search for it. They have the whole video up.

The best advice I have heard so far.

OK, a little background info first: Me and my girlfriend have been together 4 1/2 yrs. We got "engaged" but really have no plans to marry any time soon. We have a kid. And she knows about my fetish... I guess it started when our child was a newborn. Out of the blue, my g/f asked if I wanted her to take care of me. (I think this was because she had been reading about some guys getting jealous of all the attention a new baby gets...not my case, but hey...) I said sure, so she breastfed me, gave me a bottle to suck on, and spoon fed me some applesauce, but that was it. She has never done that since. Anyway, later on she told me how one of her friends wore a diaper to her house during her friend's period. I was fixated on this and bugged my g/f with questions such as what type, did she pee in it also, and what my g/f thought of this. I guess she caught on, and asked why I was fascinated with diapers. I cam clean, and to my suprise, she was less than accepting. She thought it had something to do with pedophilia. It took forever, but she longer thinks this. Fast forward to yesterday. We had been fighting most the day. She decided to take a nap, but we were still arguing. During this time, she said something to the effect of, "You like people that wear diapers because you want to fuck a baby." I would have normally exploded, but I let it go, trying not to make a bad situation worse. Then we were in the grocery store, with her mom. My g/f has been very constipated, so I talked her into buying an enema that I would administer to her (afterall, I am a CNA). When we were alone, I whispered in her ear, "Don't worry, I know how to give an enema." And then for some reason, this followed, "And just so you know, I am not a pedophile. If you want, I could show you a site that explains what my fetish is about." I was very surpised when she whispered back, "Well, after we get back from my mom's, I'll look at it." So we went to her parent's house to eat, and I almost forgot what we said early. We then rented some movies, and came home. She was trying to postpone the impending enema, when she said, "OK, so show me that site." I brought up a site explaining infantilism, which she barely read any of, and then Daily Diapers photo gallery (the Coppermine gallery). I told her to look at it, which she did, and just said, "Oh, OK." That night, we were in bed, and I asked about what she saw. She said she no longer thought I was sick, but just didn't understand why I liked that. She also said that if I could tell her why, that she would look at more sites with me (which I think is code for "maybe we'll try it"). Problem is, I don't exactly know why myself. So how can I explain it to anyone else? Any advice on where I could go from here? Or how I could convince he to try it out for herself? And keep in mind, that I am very embarrassed about my fetish. Not so much because of the diapers, but more because I constantly feel like she is judging me.

I think I remember seeing that, but only vaguely.

I agree with some of what you say, thumper. Or at least the main idea. I do not feel that you are intentionally trying to be a bigot. Not that I am implying that you inadvertantly are, that is a matter of perception and much debate. But your argument is still flawed. If diapers are a part of who he IS, then wearing diapers would be staying true to himself. Maybe he has no desire to be "cool" or "popular". I know this is a difficult concept to grasp, since most people disire this to a certain degree. But see that I said most, not all. I, for one, do not. Though I don't want to be rejected either. So trying to save him from shame is noble, but I do not understand you. Have a roommate that is a bedwetter would save him shame. But lying to himself in order to be "cool" or "popular" will only breed anguish. You've said your bit, thumper. It brought up some very valid points. But please do not shove your advice down our throats. Repeating one's self does not make there words any more right, and personally, I find it annoying.

No. I'm a mix of AB and DL, and a wannabe daddy. I would want to turn the tables and baby someone else, once in a while. Also, I have to many unrelated interests. I try not to fit any one label.

Checking it would make sense. You would not have to hide the fact that you wear diapers, you would only have to lie about why. But many people build close friendships with their roomie. Would you want a friendship made possible by lying from the start? Only you can answer that. Now, I'm not trying to pump morals into you (I am a complusive liar myself), but I think it is a valid question. Also, there is the possibility that others will know that those rooms are for bedwetters. So, are you willing to accept the fact that others may think you are a bedwetter? As for your possible roommate thinking you are some "pervert", I do not see any reason that he would have to know you wear diapers for any other reason than bedwetter, if you choose to lie to him. Him finding out that you have other motive seems very unlikely, unless you got hard from the diapers and he noticed. Many people can successfully hide the fact that they wear diapers. I see no reason why you could not hide why. And thumper, lay off. You are essentially saying that he should be true to himself, yet also saying that he should try to fit in and be normal. So should he be real (and wear diapers), or conform (and "put them on hold")?

Well, after more info, I guess my advice is irrelevant.

I would look at some non-diaper related pornography. If you are not much into porn, just look at pics of naked women that are displaced tasteful, such as Playboy. Or, erotically think about what you and your fiance are going to do on your wedding night. Imagine her slowly undressing, how hot she looks, and she is willing to give her body to you, lovingly. If this is getting you in the mood, your'e not clinical. I would go further, but I want to be respectful, as this could be a touchy subject (no pun intended).