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Hi All, A few of us ABs/DLs have gotten together to organize a psychotherapy group in New York City. The foundation of the group is not to change (ha) our desires, but to learn how to better integrate AB/DL into our lives as well as accept ourselves. Meetings will be run by a Psychologist who is expert in sexual issues, and is kind, sweet and understanding. Meetings will be held every other Monday at 7:30 P.M. in the Columbus Circle area. Please contact me at im3@temporaryinbox.com for more information and/or to sign up. Best, J.S. (im3)

I picked up the Brooklyn Rail, a monthly hipster paper about the arts, politics, and culture, in a nearby coffee shop and was browsing the articles when my eyes gazed upon the word "diaper" - shocked, I turned to the article and came upon perhaps the best written piece of AB/DL literature I have ever read. The story is a real page turner - this guy can write. If there was such a thing, I'd nominate the article for the AB/DL Pulitzer. A MUST read! www.brooklynrail.org/2008/06/fiction/ulysses-3

**Announcement** I am currently forming an AB/DL therapy/support group to be supervised by a very sensitive PhD Psychologist/Psychoanalyst with an expertise in infantile sexual issues and fetishes. I was a participant in a different group with this particular psychologist and found the experience very enlightening and emotionally fulfilling. This group would focus on the intellectual and emotional world of infantile sexuality and AB/DL life. The fee depends on the number of participants, but is usually about $20 per session. Sessions meet once every other week. A group of about 5 people would be ideal for this setting. The group would meet in her office near Columbus Circle. Please e-mail me back if you think you might be interested. im3@inbox.com or post here

Fun fun fun! If you have been dreaming of going back into the colored ball room...or climbing a huge jungle gym...or just eating lunch with Elmo, you can do it all at Sesame Place with fellow ABDLs and friends this Saturday, September 8! Check it out if you haven't been there in a while: www.sesameplace.com I have space for two more people in my car if anyone needs a lift from Manhattan. Hope to leave NYC at about 10 AM and get there around noon. The weather looks like it's going to be great! Email me im3@inbox.com or call 516-359-1737 to meet up! Tata Julito!

Reposting again for an AB/DL roommate in NYC! This time I've lowered the price substantially. * Penthouse duplex * Two terraces (20x10 and 20x6), Great views of the Palisades and river * Huge private room on private floor for sublet * Top 13 block in the city - so says Time Out NY (West 106 between Riverside Dr & West End Av) Quiet, right next to park. * 10 blocks from Columbia campus, great neighborhood * 11 foot ceilings, exposed brick, fireplace * Newly renovated bathroom w/ big shower for changes * Play mat, toys, near playgrounds...all those essentials for the ABs! * Me, a professional AB, quiet, easy going. I'm asking $1200 for a private room, $600 for a loft space. Month-to-month basis, short or long term okay. Write me if interested! im3@inbox.com

I agree with the posters who asked about the extent to which she knows about your being an AB. I sense a problem from the tone of your post - i.e. there is some expectation of normal sex. The problem is not whether you can perform or not, and you shouldn't have to eradicate baby things from your head in order to. The problem is whether she knows about and is a part of your baby life. I'd broach that subject before getting married! Why even expect "normal" sex - if neither you nor she is interested in such things? Being an AB is a sexuality, and if that includes things like normal sex, so be it - if not, and tummy rubs, bath time and diaper changes are all you both need to satisfy you, what is the problem? Clear the air before you dive in.