sephya

You people ROCK!!! THankyou so much for the advice, we have talked and he has promised not to bribe or pressure and even as a step for me we bought some that feel more like panties than diapers and I still cant quite used to the feeling, but I do like to make him happy, but in return I just would like him to respect my morals and values. We were raised in two seperate parts of the world so his thoughts and mine are going to be different and we have accepted that, but I feel since that I can respect his wishes when it comes to his fetish that he shouldbe able to respect my feelings, my morals and values. He told me that since he has dated me he hasnt looked at porn since but says he admits to reading stories and that really doesnt bother me, but my problem is I feel i am being compared and thats all I have realized and we have contiuned to talk about it and we are almost on mutual grounds, which I am thankful for. We started having some problem when he crossed the line and forgot about my morals and watched a porno wannabe with his friend and it did bother me, because I hate movies like that u know the so called "funny ones" Movies can be funny, yet sometimes the line is crossed. Showing nude women or disrespecting a race, that's insultful, AND just plan wrong and thats my thoughts but just last night is when we began reaching an understanding so hopefully things are getting better again thankyou and more advise is always welcomed

My boyfriend and I had been dating for a couple of month when he began hinting he had a major fetish. When it comes to People I date I want to know everything. After some pressure and tear (because I didnt think he understood how I felt) He began throwing Hint at me that I never took on to. "Well if we get u depends u wouldnt have to worry about having to go pee at work" then I would laugh and act disgusted and blow it off. He used that one many times. Then one day I came up to his apartment and sat down beside him to play some games. He told me had something for me and told me to stand up. When I turned around there it was, A diaper, I flipped out and threw it at him again laughing and acting discugsted, but little did I know I have hurt his feelings. He always talk about his fetish being "sexual" or "just for fun" or "a curse" and we talk more about it that night (though I still couldnt get him to tell me what his fetish was) and all he would say is "Babe, I know ur not ready to hear it" and I kept telling him that I was ready. The next night we kinda fussed about it again and finally he was like "Fine if u think your ready meet me on the kitchen and Ill let u read it". I began to read his notebook and had a ew emotions comeover. I was surprised, confused, scared, curious, and I wanted to laugh, but not at him but at his fetish. See I never knew anyone could have this type of fetish but it was really important to him. A couple nights later I let him put one on me and honestly I didnt like it at first, I wanted it off! Then I found myself wearing em bit more, but just to make him happy, to show him I cared and Loved him no matter what. But, Slowly I began growing out of them, I didnt like it, I didnt like that he wanted me to use them like a diaper, I didnt like how we wanted to me sleep in one every night and Finally I was like "If I want to wear one, I will!" and besides some of his hints he stopped pressuring me. Anyway what I am getting to is last night we had a fight and he later figured that is was because of his fetish, He was he "was growing apart from me and was unhappy" and all I could do was cry... The problem is I am not one for looking at females bodies, internet, movies, porn, if it has nudity I dont wanna see it and I dont wanna the guys who "loves or wants me" to look at it either and he used that against me "Well if u want me to respect u and not look at em, I want u to respect me and wear diapers and I want you to start wanting to wear em"... And thats wear I am at now... I just wanna know what to do? I know I am still not ready to wear them again and when he comes back sunday night he wants to put me in Ten regardless on How I feel... I just wanna know how to talk to him about this, I have no problem if he wants to wear them...but why must he force me to "want" to wear... any advice for me?