through most of my teen years I thought I was super vanilla tbh (lmao) but then I realized I was into watersports, then diapers, and my desire to become incon became obvious to me at some point a little after that (probably when i was 18).
I think the only clue that this was a part of me was my mom telling me about how I took a super long time to potty train as a kid. I don’t remember that, but I wouldn’t be surprised if it’s because I really didn’t wanna leave diapers, and only eventually did bc of social pressure