Generally speaking when it comes to porn, it is all fantasy for me. Things that would not happen in a real relationship or any sexual relation. It's kind of like watching a film or reading a book. When someone watches a film/reads a book, while they may relate to some of the characters and actions done in the film/book; most of the time they don't want to be a part of that kind of situation (end of the world, war, conflict, etc). People watch horror films, but they wouldn’t want that to happen to them. However this doesn’t stop them from enjoying it. That's how I see porn.