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When I sleep in an Abena, I also have an Abena Abri-let Maxi stuffer. It's about 2 feet long so I fold it in half and put the whole thing up front. When I do controlled wetting in bed in diapers, I'm face down and the diaper-stuffer combo can take quite a bit. And it holds it, too, regardless of subsequent sleeping positions. I might squeeze out enough for a small damp spot but that's about it. But if I'm on my side, whether sleep-wetting or wake-wetting, if I flow fast enough and some pee runs to the side, all it encounters is the side plastic. If I were to really get into regular bedwetting, I'd have to look into cloth for more all around protection as I am a side-sleeper. It probably wouldn't hurt for me to invest in plastic pants, too.

Tadpole, your reasoning is almost exactly what brought me to my decision. I don't disagree for a second. On the other hand, I don't think this is something anyone should be "talked into," not that you're trying to do that either. I think you're just illustrating pros to balance the cons. I believe strongly that if someone is undecided on this, then now isn't the time. This is the kind of decision that should be painstakingly considered, in full light of consequences, for a long period of time. Once someone's truly comfortable with this, they'll know it. It won't start with a post titled "undecided." I knew this what I wanted months/years ago, its just taken this much time (and a nudge from my body) to be at peace with the decision.

I have a tub for at home, and one of those refillable hard cases from Huggies for on the go. I buy a case of refill packs at a time. Saves money, and better for the environment, probably.

Wear them, definetly.

I'd have to say both too. I love to wear, but taking care of a pretty girl that enjoys it too is just as much a turn on.

Absolutely sexual for me. I love plastic backed disposables. like a lot of others, my journey with diapers started very early in life. I was about 4 when I got into my first outside of being potty trained. to this day I still get the fever type feeling washing over me when I want to put one on. It will wake me out of a sleep.

When I was younger diapers were very sexual for me. As I got older recreation entered in to it. Now, recreation as taken over completely. I just enjoy wearing and using them now.

I have found that it seems no one notices. I guite often will wear a tena overnight and a depends adjustable (with plastic outer layer) to work at the same time. I also will even put two tena overnight pads in the first diaper and have even put an additional two pads in the second diaper. The first and all the pads have slits cut in the bottom of them to allow pee to soak thur to the next layer. Yes it is bulky (but that is part of the enjoyment for me also). I can wet all day in that combination. The first set of pads will generally be fully soaked by 10 am and by 1 or 2 pm the first diaper is also starting to get soaked. The second layer of pads will continue to absorb any leaking and by the end of the day the last layer is starting to get wet. Yes by the end of the day the bulk is quite huge and so is the amount of pee that is contained. To get around the problem of bulk showing I wear really baggy pants. So far no one has noticed. I have on occasion only worn one diaper and just pads inside that, then changed as they get full. I have a stash of the grocery store bags at work and will change my diaper in the companys main bathroom. It has many stalls. I will go in hoping not to find anyone it there and if there is just go in a stall and wait. I have the timing down fairly well and know now when it is least busy. I then will take the soaked diaper or pads and put them in a plastic grocery store bag and tie it shut. I then make sure no one is in the bathroom and will put it in the paper waste container. I put it in and then make sure that other used paper covers it. Yes it is risky, yes someone could notice or see me put the used diaper in the waste container but that is also part of the thrill.

Ya happy I've done that a few times. Ever laid a diaper on your dash were everyone can see it now that's a rush. Try it.

My wife tried it a couple of times she really did not care for it but is fine with me wearing them all the time.. So I can't complain about it. It's been a good 48 years so far.

Work and diapers is a real trick in hiding them. I wore a single diaper at work and would change 2 to 3 times a shift and keeped extra diapers in the back of my car. I was never found out that I know of.

I'm odd I guess I'm just a diaper lover. I like to stay in wet diapers for long periods of time. At work I wear depends pullups. Usually maxed out by lunch but try to stay in it most of the day. Normally one change a day if any.

I wear a Tena Slip super from first thing in the morning until I get home in the evening and often for a lot longer. I never have a problem with leaks although I always wear plastic pants over them, I don't carry any spares as they have proven to last the day many times so rely on them. Frequent small wettings seem to be the way to get the most out of them and they are very hard to spot if wearing jeans or loose trousers. I always wear a one piece body to save worrying about bending over as well, I totally forget I am wearing.

So when is the next meet up? Everytime I read about a Seattle meet up nothing ever comes of it, let's get together and do something about it haha.