confusedmommy

This really peaked my interest. I really agree that not everyone gets to hear the mommies/daddies stories out there, so here's mine.

I learned about this entire lifestyle through my boyfriend. I am already a very nurturing and caring person so i took to this lifestyle rather quickly. My boyfriend has been a little one since he was in his early teens. I met him in November of 2011 and he slowly started to explain everything to me. First he just told me he liked to be a baby and do baby things like a bottle and a paci. I remember the first night we did baby things like it was yesterday. We were in his room and i was so nervous. I fed him a bottle of water and gave him his paci so that he was comfortable for the night. He clung onto me the entire night and i never felt so needed before in my whole life. I know feeding a baby and a bottle and making sure he has his paci all night isnt a lot but after that night I knew that i would do anything for him. As the days and weeks grew on i learned even more about him. I learned that he loved diapers and being a 100% baby. His dreams of a nursery and all different kinds of baby like things. I immediately took to this lifestyle with him and i knew my life would never be the same.

When he told me, he helped me to learn more by showing me this website, hence the "confusedmommy" name. I was very lost but this website has been a great place to go for me and i hope others find it. We have been together for 8 months now and everyday i hope that i make him the happiest baby in the world. I hope to one day be able to give him the nursery and baby life of his dreams. Sitting here and thinking about all that he has taught me and how much we have been through amazes me. He is my rock and i know that he needs me just as much or even more. I cant imagine not being a mommy and not having this little baby with me.

well i hope that all made sense and that you like my story!!

mommy <3

I have also wondered how people would react had they found out about my boyfriend being a AB/DL. In the end i just remind myself that I dont care what others think, i love my baby and i always will. i have this nurturing instinct in my body that taking care of him fulfills. Yes, it does get tiring after awhile but in the end i feel so complete and happy that i am the person he decided to share this with.

Babybruce, we have been talking about getting one. They are just very expensive but we may be ordering one soon.

Bettypooh, ill have to have him try that. I just get really frustrated when it happens and it always does.

Hello Mommy Lowis,

I am the same way. I am a mommy to my little one but every once in a while I do wear and he takes a break and is my daddy. I do not know how you and your husband do it but that is how me and my boyfriend do it.

PM me if you would like, i would love to chat with you.

I am so glad to hear how accepting you are and that you are willing to show your boyfriend that you are. I believe that is the best thing you can do for you baby. They need to feel loved and accepted. I joined after my boyfriend told me 6 months ago. I was very confused (as you can tell by my name lol) and I wanted to learn more. I have learned so much from this forum, from babies and mommies and daddies that I have chatted with, and from my own baby of course. and remember that there is no wrong way to be a mommy. Learn the things that your bay loves and do your best. As long as you love your baby and do the best you can for him/her, you will be great!!

So welcome and feel free to message me anytime