Sleepy

I could call myself a juggalo,I am more into a lot of the underground artists that sprung up around the genre.

People,lower the torches and pitchforks for a moment and let me point out a few things before this gets out of hand. -The babyfur community is not all whiney attention whores,so don'tget us dragged in and put to the stake for the actions of one member.Let me use an example, No one here would like it if I made a generalization with all AB/DL's with the diaper flashers and said that they are all sick freaks. -Tris,you obviously do not know what being a furry is about to say that furs should be kept away from theme parks etc... that goes back up to my aforementioned point. For those of you who are "investigating" here is some things to look at. I do not know if I am correct on some statments so correct me if I am wrong. 1.To be admitted to a mental hospital you have to have a medical professional,social worker or close relative recommend it. 2.The details of what are consumed by the victim are guarded by privacy laws,so basically even if he is your boyfriend you still can't find out because the state does not recognize you as immediate family or spouse.

*Gives puppy eyes to Tris* Not all of us are bad ! Let's wait for the almighty post of justification,or a miracle recovery. Should this be true then I apologize but if this is a lie,I will defend the good babyfurs who get caught in the stereotype who have to deal with it.

Sounds like possible internet suicide and furry drama,let's see where it goes from here.

If you restarted life without an interest in diapers then you would not have the urge to wear them,therfore you would not have the need or be able to derive pleasure from wearing them.The key part of this question that people miss is that they think in the mindset that they are in now not the one they could have been in.

This fetish is not too different from being an AB I would assume from the sound of it,aside from the diapers instead of roleplaying a baby he would roleplay one who is handicapped which in a sense is an infintile state. Wierd? Yes,but everyone does somthing wierd whether they admit it or not.

I said this in my Truth thread.

The only part about deception in my post was that I pointed out how it was unnecissary to tell your parents and how bad communicaton hurts a relationship in subtle ways,if one does not ask about your sex life then you do not tell,is this deception? The main focus of my post is to point out a lot of the generic issues that we face here,I believe that one should practice a little curtesy when engaging in our fun little lifestyle,the title "The Truth" is more or less to point out several of the things that are true in my opinion of which I know of at first hand. When I mentioned normal,normal was used in the context of everybody doing it,what society defines as normal is more or less somthing that is done by a mass majority of a population,points : -Not everyone is going to wear diapers and dress in baby clothes -You don't see too many people walking around baby gear in public. -The fear of the unknown. I even if it is a part of their job to change a diaper I don't feel that one should include bystanders in their fetish or lifestyle ,example,deception is having a nurse change your diaper if you are not incontinent,this does not make the nurse a prostitute because she is under the illusion that you are incontinent and that is part of their job. Parents,my mother is a kink,am I decieving her by not talking about the latest dildo or diaper,the subject does not come up so therefore it is not deception,although she already knows of my practices should the subject come up and I tell her otherwise,THAT is lying but somtimes are beneficial in some cases by those who have a strong influence over your life. there WILL be more when I am feeling more talkative,this subject is not intended to start an argument ust to outline generic issues that we face at times.

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Truth #1 Female ABDL's do not always seek other ABDL's for several reasons: -They may not want to be a mommy because they want to be the baby! -Diapers are not the center of a relationship they are a part of it. -You overindulge. Truth #2 Coming out. -There is no reason to tell your parents that you like to wear diapers or dress like a baby,your parents do not need to know because: A-They will have to deal with the anguish that they did somthing wrong somwhere along the lines. B-It IS or CAN be misunderstood as a sexual practice and bedroom business stays in the bedroom. C-They are one of the most influential people in your life. -Telling your partner:Telling your partner can make or break a relationship: A-Hiding this can be an unnecissary burden on you and your partner because stress radiates in many forms. B-Represent yourself with taste not as a sexual deviant. Truth #3 "Normal" This lifestyle is not normal because: -Not everyone does it. -It is not socially acceptable. Truth #4 Other people do not want to be a part of your games: -People don't want to clean up if you make a mess somewhere. -Nurses,doctors,and other professionals should not be subject to your desires unless it is part of the procedure or therapy. There will be more later.

Oh my sweet jesus I got a reply!,if you or anyone wants to hang out send me a message.

I am back but not for long,how many New Yorkers have we got here?

Sweet,I wanted to see the tv version,I think I still have the actual book sitting around somewhere.

As I mentioned earlier I wanted to know what would be a good approach to the situation by specifying that she is a transgender,however I am done dealing with it.I have been trying for two years to get things strait and I have put too much blood and sweat into it.She is ignorant and has a disregard for those around her and too many others have been hurt because of her actions. Somtimes people have to hit rock bottom before they realize that they where attacking the wrong people,the others have chosen to leave her and continue on with life and I have chosen to make the some decision along with them. I cannot stop my career and my life for somone else,I refuse to hurt my own family by dealing with her anymore. ~Sleepy~

I am trying to avoid getting to this point... I do understand the difference between gender identity and sexual orientation but there is a "T" in LGTB,right now the situation is at a silent standoff.My reason for starting the thread was to find the correct appprach to the situation but it seems that things are taking a turn for the worst.