Natane

Hi all, Although I almost never post on these forums, I have been lurking around and reading these forums for more than 10years now. When I first met my wife and Mommy, she knew about my diapers from the very start. We decided early on that I was a baby girl and not a baby boy and my interests have only grown from there. I have been around here long enough to realize that quite a few DL and AB guys explore their sissy side at one time or another. I am curious to know if any of the sissies would go so far as to identify as being transgender or whether people mainly just think of their sissy side being part of their particular fetish. Furthermore, I wonder if there is anyone here who has actually undergone transition to become a female full time. Obviously I wouldn't be asking these questions if they hadn't crossed my mind a time or 3 in regards to my own identity. I look forward to hearing what everyone has to say and am open to any questions you gals might have. Thanks in advance, Natane.

Mine is also the same as on here. Natane

I also would appreciate a baby girl designed diaper, but I understand that it is cost prohibitive for the company to do so. That's why most AB diapers feature a unisex design. I am also afraid that the reason the "Contact Us" link no longer works on their website is due to the fact that they were receiving so many suggestions that simply weren't beneficial from a cost analysis perspective. Or maybe they simply don't realize that their link no longer functions. Hard to say really.

I have been a visitor to this site and reader of these forums for many years now, but this is the first time I have decided to create my own post. The reason that I am posting is to attempt to get some quality control feedback to the company that makes Bambinos diapers. I have visited the website for Bambinos multiple times over the last several months and attempted to utilize the tab labeled "Contact Us", but the tab is currently inoperable and has been for quite some time. In my opinion Bambino makes some of the best adult diapers currently available, but the diapers do have one fatal flaw. In particular the new Bambino Bellissimo diaper has an excellent fit and absorbency. The problem is that the tapes on the Bambino diapers tend to let go and come unattached after 3-4 hours of wear. This is particularly bad with the Bellissimo diaper because this means the the diaper is usually at only half of its absorbent capacity or less when the tapes fail. Considering the price of the Bellisimo diaper, throwing one away after only utilizing half of its capacity is definitely hard on the pocketbook. Currently, whenever I wear the Bellissimo I supplement the tapes using a decorative duct tape with a childish design, but I honestly feel that this is an unnecessary inconvenience to the customer. The main diaper that I am comparing the Bellissimo to in my experiences are the diapers made by the folks over at ABU. Specifically, I am thinking about the Cushies and Super Dry Kids lines. While those diapers never have a problem with the tapes failing, the absorbency and fit of those diapers leave a lot to be desired. Before I continue, I feel the need to point out that while I wish these flaws in each companies diaper designs were not present, I am quite grateful that these companies do exist. When I initially rediscovered my AB/DL side, these companies were not making such fine products and I was forced to go to medical supply companies to buy a quality adult diaper. If neither of these companies improve their product I will probably still continue to use their products. At this point I am simply trying to help the companies to improve what is already a good product and provide some suggestions to help make it a great product. So I guess what I am trying to ask is if anyone knows a way to get some good quality feedback to the company that currently makes Bambinos. In my opinion, this company is a lot closer to creating the perfect AB diaper whereas ABU still has some major design problems that would be harder to fix. From my perspective it would appear that creating some tapes which have a bit more surface area and a stronger adhesive would be much easier than redesigning an entire diaper for better fit and absorbency while keeping the tapes you already have. If anybody knows of a way to get some feedback to this company I would much appreciate any suggestions that you may have. Also, while I have tried many different brands of diaper over the years I certainly have not tried them all, so if anyone has any suggestions for a diaper that they feel compares favorably to the Bellissimo, but does not have the issue with tape failure, I would definitely appreciate hearing from you. In conclusion, I am sorry for the giant wall of text, but this topic has been on my mind for quite some time now and I wanted to make sure it was expressed fully and completely in order to give it the best chance for being well received. Thanks for reading, Natane

As best I can figure, it most likely has to do with the fact that you are giving up even more control. For a lot of us, that loss of control and responsibility is half of what drives us. So if we are in a situation where we are forced to be exposed in ways that we normally wouldn't allow, that is in a sense the ultimate lack of power and control. The same can probably said for a lot of the impulses regarding being physically punished. As to why any one particular person likes this side of the fetish, only that individual could tell you.

I am curious to know if anyone on here has ever tried one of these products. They seem to be a bit overpriced to me, so I have never bought one, but I did try to make one out of the remains of an old inflatable butt plug that I had at one point. The problem that I ran into was that I didn't have a small enough file to smooth off the edges of the hole that I drilled to make it hollow to begin with. I also didn't leave enough of a flange at the base to keep the plug from possibly entering your body entirely if your muscles contracted the wrong way. What I found during the short time that I was able to experiment with it was that it would allow fecal matter to pass through rather easily, but it still required some conscious effort on the part of the user even though it was less than usual. I still have yet to discover a situation in which I could fill my diapers completely without any effort on my part, but I have also been careful not to stray too far in fear of damaging myself permanently. If anyone has actually purchased one of these hollow butt plugs and used it while wearing diapers for a few hours or so, I would love to hear about their results.

I already replied to your post about scheduling a meeting for DL /AB's in CO. I live up in the Springs and have a wife, but know precisely what you mean about it getting lonely sometimes. I to would love to have somebody to talk who could understand. P.S. My wife knows all about the diapers and participates with me from time to time, but she could never fully understand like another AB could.

I too am in CO and would love to meet up with other DL's or ABs in the area.