While I prefer cloth the one in my picture is the old style Attends with a waistband and three tapes. They were recommended to my by someone that has to wear them 24/7 & is also very active. They were comfortable, held a lot but would get small tears in the plastic from my outer clothing if I moved around a lot. There is a replacement called Attends 10, which I haven't tried yet, but the reviews look pretty good.
Welcome, nice to see others in the area.
Sonny