It's So Difficult To Connect...

[LittleCarterTart]

How do people wind up with mommies or daddies?

[BBB]

You start with non-fetish based relationships....

[dummysucker]

.....or make friends in the fetish community. That way you can be totally honest with everyone & things go from there. That's how it worked for me anyway.

[Guest]

You start with non-fetish based relationships....

That never works for me. I can never work up the urge to express my fetish. The fear of rejection is paralyzing, which funny enough usually sabotage the relationship because it becomes pretty obvious that I'm hiding a significant portion of my life from the person I'm with. Looking for someone who is into the fetish first and starting from there was more logical to me and has been working better. I suggest using sites like this very one. The meeting place subforum seems to be set up specifically for this. You just have to be out going. Be honest, too. Spilling your guts to someone online can yield a powerful connection.

[Dill_Pickle]

If you are in a college town, there will usually be an "alternative" newspaper (Village voice is an example of this)...go read the personals, especially the "kinky" ones....find out where the scene is....

[sarah_ab]

i put up a profile on diapermates.com... 6.5 years later and still with my boyfriend i met from there.