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I wanted to organise a three-day captivity experience for four people, involving bondage and restraint. (A festive meal was planned for the last evening.)
During this stay, I would have been the ‘kidnapper’ (mean or nice depending on the profiles).
I received dozens of requests, BUT only one person showed up. In reality, only one real enthusiast among dozens of fantasists.
Sorry, the comment on the image is in French. It's a fake ransom demand.
The man hanging was a friend.
When practising self-bondage, use chains with padlocks or handcuffs rather than ropes.
WHY?
Because ropes can tighten and cause a tourniquet effect.
NO CLOSED ball gag
WHY?
Because if you have a coughing fit and vomit:
1) You risk drowning.
2) If vomit enters your lungs, it burns the alveoli. This is irreversible and very painful.
In BDSM, you never leave a gagged person alone or away from the Master.
SOLUTION: choose an open gag or tongue block.
Here is an example with this model we purchased. It is safe and impossible to spit out.
https://abcplaisir.com/fr/bdsm/404-baillon-bouche-ouverte-double.html
Personally, I practised self-bondage when I was young, and today I use the principles of self-bondage when I dominate men or women. So I know what I'm talking about.
A problem, or rather an observation I've made over the years, is that many people deprive themselves of spanking because they are heterosexual ? ? ?
There is no connection between spanking and sex ! We need to stop mixing everything up.
We don't care about a person's gender because it's not about getting into bed!
Personally, I spank both men and women. A bum is a bum.
In the old days, when teachers spanked pupils, whether they were boys or girls, it was the same punishment.
For ABs, DLs, or spanking enthusiasts, you slap the buttocks, not the front of the body.
When I spank a man, I like my wife to be present; it's more ‘humiliating’ for the naughty boy. My wife does NOT wonder if I've become gay; she just knows that I'm giving him a punishment.
In this photo, we had a transvestite staying with us on holiday. He annoyed me and ended up on my lap for a spanking. My wife took the photo.
TIPS AND PRACTICAL INFORMATION
To combine a nappy and a chastity cage, it is best to have a small (short) cage as this will be more comfortable.
To sleep better with a chastity cage, you need tight underwear (almost too small) or a well-fitting nappy. This prevents the cage from pulling on the penis when you are lying on your side.
There are two tips to avoid irritation:
1) Apply anti-irritation cream BEFORE going to bed and regularly.
2) It is best to shave or wax when wearing a chastity cage. This prevents the ring from pulling on the hair.
To prevent the sex from coming out or the cage from falling off on its own, it is advisable to add a leak preventer or a poi.
Four examples are shown below.
https://abcplaisir.com/fr/accessoires-et-anneaux-pour-cage-de-chastete/1055-anti-fuite-cage-de-chastete-cb.html
https://abcplaisir.com/fr/accessoires-et-anneaux-pour-cage-de-chastete/1452-etau-anti-fuite-cage-de-chastete.html
https://abcplaisir.com/fr/accessoires-et-anneaux-pour-cage-de-chastete/1049-poi-antifuite-cage-de-chastete.html
https://abcplaisir.com/fr/accessoires-et-anneaux-pour-cage-de-chastete/1054-anneau-secur-cage-de-chastete.html
The safest option is a Prince Albert + padlock or a cage designed for Prince Albert piercings.