Jswill

Yeah waking up at night and needing to go has been a problem for me, as well as "positioning everything down there right." Sometimes I will wake up in the middle of the night, feel the need to go but will have trouble. Any advise?

UPDATE: So I finally worked up the courage to tell her. Its one of those things once its been said you wonder why you made such a big deal of it in your head. I just said hey I have wetting issues and I would rather not take medicine for it so sometimes im going to be wearing protection. She said no problem! So the first big step is done. Now I dont have to worry about wearing around her. I still probably wont stock diapers in my dresser drawer just yet but Im glad to be over this big hump.

Ok I have a sensitive question related to the 247 program here. Since you are trying to relax the muscles down there does that mean during untraining you should refrain from sexual activity? Since wouldn't that strenghten those muscles?

I would have to agree, honesty is the best policy and thats why im going to talk with her today or tomorrow. Thanks for the help and wish me luck. Also it would be great to hear others stories and experiences telling close friends and family

Yes I have thought of that and was considering that being my jumping off point. The hard part I think will be the staying diapered part. Im wondering if she might say that is fine until we go see a doc or something. Then I was going ti say I dont want to be taking medicine my whole life and I would prefer to just wear protection and see how it goes.

Thanks for the help guys,

Ok let me fill in some of the holes so I don't look like a complete jackass. Although many of you have good and wise points. She does know that I have had some wetting issues in the past. They were from when I was younger. And in conversations when we were dating I did tell her that I liked the idea of diapers and she really didnt comment one way or the other. Then about 4 months ago she noticed the edge of my diaper poking out from my pants and asked me about it.i was beat red and super embarrassed. I Said I was having dribbling issues (which was true). She asked if I need to see a doctor and I said no. The truth is I have had minor wetring issues in the past but nothing really that I would consider diagnosable. Ok so it looks like I need to just twll her this is what I want and go from there. Anyone else tried that and had success?

So I dont know if this has been covered on other threads but I need some advice. I have started the 24/7 program for about a month. I have done the program several times before but never quite finished. Also I am now married. I havent done the program since getting married before. How do I tell her that I want to wear diapers? My original plan was to try to get to a point of dependence on my own first so that once I told her and if she insisted i go to a doc I can go with OAB. But im worried that because i have to be secretive I cant be nearly as effective in the program as I would like. Namely I cant wear to bed at night unless its a cloth diaper which seems to leak way more. Plan B is a bit more extreme and involves me just wetting the bed and having a few accidents around her so that I can just say I need them and she will see the sense. IDK what do yall guys think?

Its not an actual excitement thing as much is it is the body using that to keep me from wetting myself at night I think. Thanks to some others help on this board I figured it out. I use an alarm to wake up at 3am let it happen and then go back to sleep. Problem solved, and no morning embarrasment or flood either!

I have started and stopped this program several times but hope this time it sticks. QUESTION: I have trouble wetting at night mainly because for some reason when im asleep and I need to go I get "excited" down there and it keeps me from going. It seems like its my bodys way of holding it in. Does anyone else have this problem or figured out how to deal with it? Sometimes its actually painful and I wake in the middle of the night.