From College to Diapers (private with littleben)

[bigbabymikey1062]

Mommy puts Benny's legs down. 

Beth tapes his diaper up.

Mommy gives Daddy the stinky bundle to Daddy to throw away. He rolls the bundle up, puts it in a bag, and heads toward the nearest trash can

[littleben238]

Benny gets up quickly and follows Daddy. He never got his shorts back, so he's just in his t-shirt and diaper.

He looks like Tommy Pickles, but he's wearing sandals. 

 

 

 

(That was interesting. Very humiliating)

[bigbabymikey1062]

"You wanna come with Daddy?"

Daddy picks him up and carries the bag

 

 

 

 

 

 

(Thanks. I like the occasional diaper change with no privacy. It really reinforces that they're a baby. I think having the three of them doing it was interesting too. I just randomly decided to put the Daddy on the ground. And it worked well)

[littleben238]

"Yes, Daddy"

 

 

 

(Good for me. No limits here. I like to really feel like a baby)

[bigbabymikey1062]

Daddy throws the bag in the trash 

 

"Go back to Mommy. I think we're getting ready to go soon"

[littleben238]

"Bye Bye, diapee"

He giggles and waves goodbye.

He doesn't seem to mind that he's not wearing shorts

He runs back over to where Mommy is sitting 

[bigbabymikey1062]

Mommy wiped off the changing pad and gave Beth some hand sanitizer

 

"Benny, there is something we talked about you saying to Beth"

[littleben238]

"Thank you for changing my diapee, Ms. Beth"

[bigbabymikey1062]

Beth: "Oh, you're welcome, Benny.

It's just what any good babysitter would do. You don't have to thank me"

 

Mommy: "And why did she have to change you Benny?"

[littleben238]

Benny is a little confused about what Mommy is asking, but he does his best

 

" 'cause I a baby and I made the poo poo in my diaper?"

[bigbabymikey1062]

"Yes, you're right, honey. I think we're gonna head home soon.

Your shorts are in the diaper bag, but I think you are fine to walk home just like you are. You look so cute. Like a little Tommy Pickles.

We're gonna walk Beth home because she's on the way to our house. 

Whose hand do you want to hold for the walk home?"

 

 

 

 

(It's a humiliation technique. That I learned on here actually. Making the person acknowledge what they did and why they're being changed. Around other caregivers, but sometimes around the Mommy and Daddy. 

And a small part so they are "thankful" to be changed in a timely fashion because the babysitter could have decided leave them in it for hours, but this is just a side part and not the main reason)

[littleben238]

Benny is a bit nervous about walking down the street in just a diaper and shirt, but he gets to choose who he walks with, and that makes him excited. 

"Can Ms. Beth walk with us? Pwease?" He asks her as he grabs her hand 

 

 

 

(Oh wow. I guess that is humiliating. Like in a way you wouldn't think about)

[bigbabymikey1062]

"Sure, Benny. I can walk with you. It's the weekend so I can stay with you until you go to sleep.

If your Mommy and Daddy say it's okay. Then I can see your routine for when I babysit you alone"

 

Daddy grabs the pizza box and puts the water in the diaper bag that Mommy is carrying on her shoulder 

"That's a good idea" he says

[littleben238]

"Mommy?  Which way we leave?

It dark outside and I can't tell"

[bigbabymikey1062]

Mommy remembers that Benny can't navigate too well, and it must be harder for him in the dark

She points "We live that way, Benny. Why dont you lead the way? We live 7 houses down. Can you count the houses?"

[littleben238]

Benny nods 

"I can do that, Mommy"

He leads the way while holding Beth's hand. They leave the park and head to the street

[bigbabymikey1062]

Megan and Daniel follow behind them

[littleben238]

Benny passed the first two houses

"One house" he finds as he passes it

"Two. Look, I doing good, Mommy"

[bigbabymikey1062]

"You are doing so good. Keep going"

[littleben238]

"There is 3 and 4" he says

[bigbabymikey1062]

"it is"

At house #4 there is a man out checking his mail

 

"Hi, everyone. Oh it's Megan and Daniel"

[littleben238]

Benny tries to pass the man's house, but Beth is holding his hand.

He also can't hide his diaper as the man has already seen him, so he hopes he doesn't notice him.

[bigbabymikey1062]

Mommy: "Benny, this is our neighbor, Elliott. Come say Hi"

[littleben238]

"Hi, Mr. Elliott"

Benny says quietly

[bigbabymikey1062]

"Your Mommy told me she had a little one. I'm glad to meet you, Benny. 

You and your Mommy and Daddy can come by sometime for a playdate. We have all kinds of fun toys. My wife and I have 2 little boys just a bit older than you. I'm sure you'll have lots of fun with them.

Our youngest is still in diapers most of the time, so you'll fit right in"